Personal experience and feelings of working for relatives?

Working for relatives is really not that simple, and there is often a feeling of relying on others to lift their heads.

As the old saying goes, brothers want to settle accounts, or relatives. If you do well, it's his credit. If you don't do it well, it will spread thousands of miles. Only some relatives will envy you how much you earn, so I don't think you should work with your relatives even if you are looking for a job outside. After all, it doesn't matter if you earn more or less outside, but it's different when you meet good relatives.

Because people around you have had similar real experiences:

I have a college classmate who went back to work in his hometown relatives' factory directly after graduating from college. At that time, we were quite envious of him, and staying at a relative's house would definitely not be bullied. Who knows, when we met again, he was in great pain. On the one hand, his colleagues are unwilling to get too close to him, fearing that he is an undercover sent by relatives to supervise the work. On the other hand, relatives always ask his colleagues about their work performance and behavior, which annoys him. He doesn't like this feeling very much. He doesn't get along with his colleagues and always thinks he is a spy.

Others choose to work for relatives because they want to be taken care of. But over time, even if relatives give him the greatest preferential treatment in all aspects, it is impossible to satisfy him with everything. Whenever something goes wrong, he complains that relatives don't care enough and don't take care of him. Instead of improving his working ability, this has encouraged bad habits.

There is another situation, that is, after a long time, relatives know all aspects of their work, big and small, and whether they do it intentionally or not, they will tell their families more or less about themselves, especially things they don't want their families to know. For example, mistakes at work, conflicts with colleagues and so on. I feel that there is no privacy and space. Some people care more about these things, so they don't want to work under their relatives.

So what I want to advise you is that you'd better not work for your relatives unless you have to. Even if you go to work or do business in other places, you have to go alone, which will save a lot of trouble.