What happened to those stay-at-home mothers who resigned for their children?

I think there is a strong misunderstanding about stay-at-home mothers on the Internet.

Many places are selling anxiety and belittling stay-at-home mothers.

When it comes to "stay-at-home mothers", a large number of people will outline their image as stay-at-home mothers: pajamas, slippers, sloppy and out of touch with society. ...

All we have to say is that we have beards.

Sometimes when you open the official account of Weibo or WeChat, there will be such a push: take the baby at home for two years, the husband will not give money, cheat, the mother-in-law will look down on it, go out clean, and take the child back to her family to eat. ...

It seems that all the misfortunes in the world have come to the career of stay-at-home mom.

I want to say, stay-at-home mom, this matter is graded.

On the whole, don't kill a stay-at-home mother with a stick, it will make people turn pale.

The first one is to see if my husband can give it to me. Some husbands naturally feel that women live easily, and you are at home full time. He said that if you loaf around all day, you can safely leave all the housework to you. He thinks it is very hard and magical to earn money to support his family.

Do you think such a husband won't leave the housework to you if he goes to work to earn money?

He also thinks that everyone is working. Of course, women cook, wash clothes and clean the floor. My mother does it at home. What's wrong, my dad? My dad can have tea.

And a husband who understands his wife's difficulties. No matter whether you go to work or not, he will safely give you the salary card and take the initiative to accompany you to cook and coax the children after work. He doesn't need your palm to ask him for money at all.

He acquiesced that his money was yours, and the money he earned was spent on his wife and children.

Being a full-time wife for such a man is more beautiful than going to work.

There is a woman beside me who has been a full-time mother all her life and raised two sons, and she is well maintained. The home is always bright and clean, the bathroom is always delicious, and the children's happiness is extremely strong.

There should never be so-called harm to her children from a family.

Later, I helped my son take care of the children, which was simply a gold medal.

You don't have to laugh at people who raise children all their lives. People like to raise children.

Some people like writing articles, some like painting, some like singing, and some just like taking care of children.

Some women go to work every day, their children take care of their grandparents, and their home is a garbage dump. The relationship between husband and wife is very general. Are children happy in such a family? Are adults happy?

Second, stay-at-home mothers are financially independent. Simply put, they are rich. A stay-at-home mother I know saved some money before giving birth to a child. She said that even if her husband didn't give her money for three years, she would still be very rich.

Such a stay-at-home mother should not be despised, and it is impossible to swallow it.

And she knows how to manage money, and her family's finances are in good order. Her husband has always praised this.

Of course, you can get the money for her.

The third is family reliability. Nowadays, many only-child parents are very rich and awesome. Even paying money to help buy a house, a car and bring up children, such an only child has become a full-time mother and a little princess.

Don't say that people are getting old, so we have to eat.

Husband dares to cheat, okay, you can go out clean. Next.

To sum up, each family has its own advantages and has no choice. It is best for her to have money, and she is not afraid of having no money. It is not a dream to polish your eyes before marriage, find a reliable husband, save some money and be a beautiful full-time mother.

There is no need for public opinion to be so violent about the profession of stay-at-home mom, and the word stay-at-home mom is associated with negative words such as losing self, leaving society, becoming ugly, cheating and so on.

People are very anxious.

Even some women will tremble with fear when they hear the news of getting married and having children.

Don't scare stay-at-home mothers, give them some time and space to take care of the baby.

Our stay-at-home mother feels very successful in raising a happy child in this life.