Is life ruined if you fail in the postgraduate entrance examination?

Yes, failing in the postgraduate entrance examination is a failure, and life is a complete failure. You didn't grasp the key node of the college entrance examination, and you didn't grasp the node of the postgraduate entrance examination, so your life estimate is ruined. This year, more than four million people took the postgraduate entrance examination, and within two years, the number will reach five million. Do you still want to take the exam? I also failed the exam. Do not work hard. How nice it is to lie at home every day and immerse yourself in your own world when your circle of friends is blocked?

Those happy times in the future have nothing to do with you. The dream of going to a big city was completely shattered in infancy, and even the girls you may meet in the future have become two parallel lines that will never be connected because of your current frustration. She will wait for you in the future, while you are squatting at home.

Those interesting things at work, for the passion of everyone fighting for the year-end award together, feel the city alone at eleven o'clock in the evening, people come and go, and have dreams, you will be devastated because of the so-called failure of the postgraduate entrance examination. Go home for the New Year, bring a year's savings and various gifts to make yourself look good. Relatives and friends all praise you as a good boy and a dutiful son. You haven't paid attention to it after studying for more than ten years. Aren't these also a trace of color in life?

I tell you, postgraduate entrance examination is not the only way out in life. Even when you pass the exam, you will feel that it is not as idealistic as you think. It just adds a few lines to your life and some possibilities for employment. Even if you don't attend graduate school for three years and choose a good track, you can live a chic life. Every year, news of graduate students delivering takeout/driving taxis will be reported on TV. Are they losers? Maybe people just want to change their lifestyle. This era is really rolling in, but as long as you find your favorite lifestyle, work hard and continue to be happy, then life is not a failure.

If you fail in the postgraduate entrance examination, you will be devastated. Even if you pass the exam, there will be more pressure waiting for you in the future!

I am deeply touched by this. After entering school, the sense of gap brought by personal foundation can easily make a person depressed. Because undergraduate/international students are much better than you after graduate school, everyone is in the same project team and doesn't look up every day, especially when there is a group meeting every week. The difference at that level is huge! Do you say you study or not? Catch up with them or even surpass them, or just follow your own pace for three years? It is not easy to catch up with your homework, because when you study, others study, so it is not easy for you to catch up. Even when you graduate from grade two, you will reach the level of others' graduation from grade one. But if you don't catch up, you can't pass, and you are a soft egg in the eyes of others! Even without excellent employment skills, you may not be able to find a good job. What should I do? Failure in life?

I'll tell you what I am doing. I must pursue it, and for myself! So during that time, the whole person hesitated, listening to the days of our lives and secretly cheering themselves up. Isn't there a big gap? Then I win in time+efficiency! Others arrive eight nights early 10 and I arrive seven nights early 1 1. Don't go back to the dormitory at noon, just eat in the laboratory and continue to work! If you have any questions, write them down. The tutor licked his face and asked them when he was free. At first, the questions are quite basic, even the tutor doesn't want to answer them, but still ask them, because one sentence may make you look up one day less!

Later, I asked fewer questions, and gradually it became a bit difficult. Without changing my schedule, I began to dabble in my subject vertically, because on the one hand, I can't fall behind in my daily research, otherwise I will throw sesame seeds and pick watermelons. Your contribution seems invisible to others, but remember, they all have it in their hearts! One day, my tutor gave me a program, which was very old, and let me do secondary development on it, which opened a new opportunity for my postgraduate stage!

Tens of thousands of lines of code, there are too many bumps in the middle. Some are not written in one language. This feeling makes me feel speechless. After I mastered the code last semester, I began to scan many papers, first in English, wondering if I could reproduce his experiment. It turns out that I can reproduce some experiments, but it doesn't matter if I need to change the related algorithm+function module. Because I made full preparations for this piece in the first year of research, I started the preparation of my first SCI with this project as the framework. I think the first one is still too hasty. After reading it, my tutor and sister asked me to look at it from four aspects, which also made my first paper surprisingly smooth. Later, you will find that writing a paper.

So even if you are admitted to graduate school, there are still more things to consider in the future, and more troubles are waiting for you, such as studying for a doctorate or getting a job? How to weigh? What is the success rate? I can study, but can I graduate? Stop it, a lot.

So again, relax and lose a lot of people in World War I, but it's also a good thing. After all, you have already studied the course once, and it is still possible to get high marks after reviewing it again!

On the other hand, you fought World War II, which was unfair to others. If people have this idea, will they still live?

So I suggest you adjust your mood, accept failure, and stabilize your accumulation of World War II. Maybe there will be earth-shaking changes. Don't compare with others, but resist the pressure. Next year, we will be admitted to a better school!