Far away: There is a kind of man who doesn't love anyone but himself, and a woman won't be stupid enough to pay.

First, Yao Yuan doesn't love anyone, he only loves himself.

Do you feel the same way? This TV series "In the Distance" starring Liu Ye, Ma Yili and Mei Ting is very exciting.

What are you angry about? I sorted out the comments of netizens:

1. The more I watch it, the more angry I get. Originally, Liu Ailian and Yao Yuan were fine, and they were about to get a marriage certificate. Liu Xiaoou suddenly appeared and shamelessly ran between them. He also hinted that Aileen "I know him better than you" and forced Aileen out.

2. Lu Xiaoou is so affectionate. Three years ago, Yao Yuan left without saying goodbye, and Xiao Ou waited for him for three years. After three years of reunion, Liu Xiaoou did not hesitate to squeeze between Ailien and Yao Yuan to help Yao Yuan's career. She felt sorry for Xiao Ou. She deserved better.

3. Seeing that Liu Xiaoou was more capable of helping Yao Yuan than himself, Liu Ailian put aside his feelings for three years and left Yao Yuan on his own initiative in order to realize Yao Yuan's ambition of making a great career. Such a woman is too rare.

4. Yao Yuan is too scum. He loves this for a while, and that is the spiritual pillar for a while, swinging from side to side. He stays with whoever is kind to him, loves him and is useful to him. He is a man who knows how to weigh the pros and cons, so his career can be bigger.

5. Yao Yuan is the contemporary of He Shuheng. Ailian shared his joys and sorrows, so he thought he should love Ailian, but he couldn't forget Lu Xiaoou. Ailian left. When he saw Lu Xiaoou's love and affection for him, his heart changed again, but he was still worried about Ailian.

6. Let me sum up: Lu Xiaoou's insistence makes people see that San Xiao forced away the original match and his predecessor forced away the current drama; Liu Ailian's voluntary withdrawal made people see the greatness and dedication of women; What Yao Yuan did made people feel that he only loved himself.

The above is the voice of some netizens, which is also one of the reasons why I wrote this article. In my opinion, as the last netizen said, Yao Yuan loves nobody but himself.

Because a man who loves you will regard you as the only one, and in the eyes of a man who doesn't love you, you are just a "tool" for him:

When he needs you, he thinks he should love you, but when you are useless, he can fall in love with a woman who is useful to him.

Therefore, women should have their own opinions. Besides love, they should also have their own careers and interests. They can't go around a man all day.

You have made a man with your youth and true feelings. If a man doesn't take you seriously and changes his mind and leaves, you have nothing.

Good love is that men and women achieve each other, not that women always sacrifice themselves and constantly improve men.

Second, Liu Xiaoou and Liu Ailian scrambled to pay for Yao Yuan.

Let me briefly talk about the story between Yuan and a woman Liu Xiaoou and a woman:

Yao Yuan and Liu Ailian were childhood friends. After they lost contact, Yao Yuan met Lu Xiaoou and they fell in love. However, Lu Xiaoou's family is very good, and Yao Yuan feels very inferior. He left without saying goodbye and disappeared quietly for three years.

In these three years, Yao Yuan and Liu Ailian met again, when Aileen had a child. She abandoned Aileen after her husband was in debt.

Yao Yuan and Ailian appreciate each other and share joys and sorrows. Ailian is a wife who wholeheartedly helps Yao Yuan to start a business from the lowest courier and set up a long-distance courier company.

Seeing that the days are getting better and better, Yao Yuan and Liu Ailian are also preparing to get a marriage certificate, but unexpectedly, Liu Xiaoou appeared. It turns out that she has been waiting for Yao Yuan for three years.

When meeting Yao Yuan this time, Lu Xiaoou didn't want to leave voluntarily, but was separated by Yao Yuan and Ailian, suggesting that Ailian, "I know him better than you".

Liu Ailian saw that Liu Xiaoou was indeed more capable than herself and could help Yao Yuan achieve something, so she resigned and left Yao Yuan.

Desperate Yao Yuan rushed to the station to see him off, but when he turned back, he immediately lived a sweet life with Lu Xiaoou, who also helped Yao Yuan, and his career grew bigger and bigger.

But this thing of love doesn't mean that you can put it down if you want to. For Liu Ailian, in the past three years, she really loved Yao Yuan. When two people get along, it is equivalent to a couple who have not yet obtained a license. She is the "wife of dross", accompanying Yao Yuan to start a business from scratch.

So, Liu Ailian finally loathe to give up, she returned to Yao Yuan with love and attachment to Yao Yuan, so there was such an embarrassing situation:

These two women, Liu Xiaoou and Liu Ailian, are sisters. They live under the same roof. One helps the man's career and the other helps with the housework. They are engaged in a secret struggle about "Who will pay more for Yao Yuan".

Yao Yuan is vacillating between two women, not knowing which woman's feelings to accept. He doesn't want to hurt anyone and refuse anyone.

So he accepted the help of two women with a clear conscience, and Yao Yuan's career grew bigger and bigger, and his business grew more and more prosperous.

Third, Yao Yuan hurt two women at the same time.

However, love is exclusive, and Yao Yuan's ambiguous behavior is tantamount to a kind of harm to these two women.

Recently, the topic "Who does Yao Yuan really love" appeared on the Internet, and many people called Yao Yuan "love rat".

So, Yao Yuan scum? In my opinion, Yao Yuan is really scum. Why?

1. I knew Lu Xiaoou liked him, too, but suddenly disappeared and left without saying goodbye. Although I used the excuse of "being good for her" and "loving her", in fact, it was only because Yao Yuan was much worse than Lu Xiaoou that I couldn't pass it, so I finally chose to escape.

The person you like disappears silently, never say goodbye, which is both frightening and unacceptable for any woman, because you don't know where he has gone. Since he deliberately avoided you, will he never meet again?

A woman's heart will be very flustered and scared, and she will feel abandoned. Therefore, Yao Yuan hurt Liu Xiaoou at this point.

Later, Lu Xiaoou met Yao Yuan again and again and helped Yao Yuan again and again. He accepted it. He didn't see how guilty he was when he left rashly, as if it had never happened.

2. Since Yao Yuan decided to live together with the idea of marrying Liu Ailian, he should have a sense of responsibility, instead of waiting for Xiao Ou to come, giving up his feelings for three years easily, taking Ailian's contribution for granted, and turning around and living a sweet life with Xiao Ou.

Imagine that Liu Ailian accompanied Yao Yuan as a courier from the bottom, and then opened a far-away courier company to cook and mend for him. If he doesn't marry her, will Liu Ailian be willing?

Even if you haven't got the license yet, it's still a relationship. Liu Xiaoou just got between two people and accompanied them every day. Yao Yuan's attitude is also very vague, swinging between two women, which is a kind of harm to Liu Ailian.

I followed a man for three years, shared weal and woe, and was about to get married. At last, this man met his predecessor, but he had no choice but to quit voluntarily, and Yao Yuan didn't stop him, which was a kind of harm to any woman. So, Yao Yuan hurt Liu Ailian.

3. After Liu Ailian left, Yao Yuan was at ease with Liu Xiaoou, intending to live a good life, but on the other hand, he still cared about Liu Ailian and often called, just like when he was with Liu Ailian, he still cared about Liu Xiaoou.

Yao Yuan's good attitude towards everyone is actually an enthusiastic behavior of the public, which is good for everyone, but actually harmful to everyone. Yao Yuan hurt two women at the same time.

Liu Ailian was very kind to him, and he accepted it, so he stayed with Liu Ailian. When business got bigger, Liu Xiaoou helped him, so he stayed with Liu Xiaoou. This can explain: "It's not good for him. Who should he kick?"

Assuming that this logic can be established, can it be generalized, "Even if you get married, your wife can't help you in your career, and you have to make way. If you get married at the end of your life, should you be embarrassed when you are developed? "

If so, then Yao Yuan will not only hurt Lu Xiaoou and Liu Ailian, but also hurt the hearts of female compatriots.

Some people don't love anyone except themselves.

Some netizens are so indignant:

"With what new world, will forget the original marriage? How cruel! So Aileen is a tool. Leave if it's useless? Should I have given way if my matching ability was insufficient? What are these three views? "

"I feel that Ma Yili's TV series is like this. The earliest Charlene Marilynn Dangelo, later Luo Zijun, always robbed other people's boyfriends. I feel that something is wrong with people and I can't stand it. "

Indeed, why can Yao Yuan choose a woman and help him when he needs it? When he doesn't need it, a woman should take the initiative to give way? Be a man?

What does this play advocate? Are women born to live for men, sacrifice for men, and pay youth and feelings for men's so-called career?

I want to tell you that paying without a bottom line like this will not end well, so women should not be too stupid.

In order to support Liu's entrepreneurship, his ex-wife reluctantly sold the dowry given to her by her parents: a suite, two couples started from scratch together, and the business was getting better and better. A few years later, the company went public, and Teresa Bao also gave birth to a man and two women for Liu Luanxiong.

Originally thought that the future life was only happiness and sweetness. Unexpectedly, the developed Liu Luanxiong began to neglect Teresa Bao, and scandals were flying all over the sky, from Michelle monique Rice to Ada Choi, to Rosamund Kwan, Fennie Yuen and Hong Xin. ...

Liu Luanxiong is generous with sweet words from these beautiful young women, but she is endlessly disgusted and indifferent to Teresa Bao, and Teresa Bao put up with it again, thinking that Liu Luanxiong will change slowly.

Unexpectedly, it was even more excessive, and even condoned the woman surnamed Li to call and scold. Teresa Bao was so angry that she couldn't stand it and finally got divorced.

However, due to the pain in marriage, Teresa Bao suffered from cancer twice. In 2002, he still lost to the disease. At this time, Liu Luanxiong didn't even attend the funeral.

Later, Liu Luanxiong married Gambi and used most of her property and shares to help her become the richest woman in Hong Kong. Teresa Bao's wealth was given to another woman by Liu Luanxiong, but she died young, which really makes people feel sad.

Those women, not really loved by Liu Luanxiong, just need different objects in each period. When there is no use value, there is only the fate of being abandoned. Liu Luanxiong always loves himself the most.

So a woman, if a man has a conscience, might as well be dead set on fighting him. It doesn't matter if you share joys and sorrows, as long as you love each other, cherish each other and respect each other.

However, if a man changes his mind in the middle, disrespects you and hurts you, then he should learn to let go in time and stop giving foolishly, because you are the only one who gets hurt in the end.

For example, in Teresa Bao, if you don't expect Liu Luanxiong to change and get divorced early, you won't be so angry, your body may not get sick so easily, and you may still be alive.

Women are always used to torturing themselves with the pain that men give them. Even if men change their minds or are half-hearted, they still don't want to leave, such as Liu Ailian and Lu Xiaoou in Far Away.

Liu Xiaoou, since Yao Yuan left without saying goodbye, it was equivalent to abandoning you, and then he lived with another woman for three years and had a new life of his own. Why did you interrupt?

When he was young, Yao Yuan might leave you because of his inferiority complex. Who knows if he will leave you because of inferiority, or when you are old and faded?

Don't give men a second chance to hurt you. For a man who abandoned you and hurt you, you really shouldn't give him another chance. This will indulge him, and you will suffer in the end.

Liu Ailian also shared joys and sorrows with Yao Yuan and worked hard. Since Yao Yuan didn't cherish it and gave up getting a marriage certificate when she saw Liu Xiaoou again, what do you miss?

Since he chose to leave, he should not come back. When Liu Ailian returned to Yaoyuan again, Lu Xiaoou asked, "How did you come back?" Let a person mind a shock, as if the original Yao Yuan belongs to her, she came, it's time to go.

Therefore, Liu Ailian should really fly away, live his own life and find a man who really loves him, instead of "fighting" with Liu Xiaoou again. He doesn't love you. It's not worth it.

Some men really don't love anyone but themselves, such as Liu Shouxiong and Yao Yuan, because you are still valuable. Once you can't help him at a certain time, he will change people at any time and hurt you.

Therefore, women are advised to be hard on themselves. If you find that a man has changed his mind and no longer cherishes you, then cut the gordian knot and leave quickly, because he is no longer worth paying for him.

5. Women should live for themselves and stop being stupid.

Whenever I see how women pay for men, forgive men again and again after men are half-hearted or hurt themselves, and return to men again and again, I am no longer moved, but feel that women are stupid.

So, I looked at it from a distance and got angry. I feel that the director still despises women too much. Nowadays, women are no longer unprincipled and bear the burden of humiliation as before.

However, once a man is found to have changed his mind and is unreliable, he will resolutely sever his relationship and avoid greater harm and loss.

Ma Yili, who plays Lu Xiaoou, didn't stay with him all the time after the article betrayed him, but gave himself a time to struggle. After a successful career, he resolutely divorced the article.

Nowadays, in Ma Yili, TV dramas are shot one after another, and advertisements come one after another. After leaving the article, Ma Yili lived a more self-centered, independent and beautiful life.

Love and marriage are not everything to a woman. Failure in marriage does not mean failure in life. Therefore, a woman who knows how to stop loss in time deserves a better life.

I have a classmate who divorced the year before last because she gave her dowry to her ex-husband to do business. Unexpectedly, her ex-husband took it to a woman outside and lied that he had lost it all.

My classmate slapped her ex-husband twice on the spot: "Divorce!" Her ex-husband still stubbornly said: "The child is only 3 years old, are you willing to divorce?"

My classmate was furious and said coldly, "It makes no difference whether a child has a father or not!" "

After the divorce, my classmates are not in a hurry to find the other half. She left her children with her parents and went out to do clothing business by herself. She hired two workers and her business is booming. Now there is a clothing factory owner who cooperates with her to pursue her.

My classmate said, "Women should live for themselves. Men only make mistakes if they don't cherish you. There is no need to waste time on such people. Try to live for yourself. Someone will cherish you. "

Yes, a woman must not regard love and marriage as her whole life, nor can she revolve around a man who has no principle bottom line.

If a man loves you faithfully and treats you well, it doesn't matter how poor he is. You can be with him, but if a man has second thoughts, betrays you and hurts you, then I hope you don't miss it and let it go when it's time to let it go.

Because some men really don't love anyone but themselves, he will regard women as a stepping stone to success, and think that the women who fight with him are not worthy of themselves, so it is easy to hurt you and leave you.

If a man hesitates between two women, he can't give you definite happiness. If a man cheats on you halfway, betrays you and hurts you, I hope you don't submit to humiliation and pay stupidly.

As a woman, you should live for yourself, have your own career interests, be financially independent, and help men as much as possible, but women should not live beside men. Helping men without principles and boundaries will only hurt you.

As Yi Shu said in The Last Romance: No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, and there will be no complaints.

Only when you truly know how to live for yourself, put aside the harm that men have done to you, and raise your head, can you live a natural and unrestrained life in live high and live up to yourself.

There is a saying on the Internet:

"The best way to love someone is to manage yourself and give each other a quality lover. If you don't try your best to be nice to someone, that person will love you desperately. Earthly feelings inevitably have a realistic side: you are valuable and your contribution is valuable. "

Therefore, if you are facing a man who loves no one but yourself, women should stop giving foolishly and unprincipled, because it is worthless and others will not value you.

"You have to understand, it is a good man, also don't deserve to pay everything for love. Only by maintaining a little bit of himself can he have self-esteem. "

Only by living with self-esteem can your efforts be valuable and truly valued and cherished.

(Xiwen | Xitu | Network)