My boyfriend is avoiding me when he answers the phone now. What happened?

People who contact you every day are not full, but because they love you and have you in their hearts.

The person who contacted you actively has a thick skin, but he really cares about you. Even if you ignore him, he will chase you.

A person, in his heart, will worry about who he is. One minute apart, 60 seconds missed; After two months apart, I will see you again and come across the ocean to see you.

Love a person, the mouth does not say, or the mouth is lying, but the heart will not lie. "Love has a pair of eyes that know everything." A person can feel whether he loves you or not. Especially women, they have a strong sixth sense. If someone loves her, just ask and you will understand.

If one day, men don't take the initiative to contact you, maybe these four reasons should be put down as soon as possible. As a woman, no matter how much you love someone, don't be stupid, don't live too humble, and prefer to be aloof. The man who makes you humble and alive is not as good as you think.

1. He once liked you and pursued you, but now he has given up on you. Reader Xiaoxiao sent me a WeChat yesterday: "My boyfriend hasn't contacted me for a week. Is it a change of heart or something else? " I replied to her: "It depends on the specific situation."

Xiaoxiao's boyfriend works in the electric power department. Xiaoxiao doesn't have a fixed job, and currently works in a mobile phone shop. From Xiaoxiao's self-report, I saw the fact that Xiaoxiao looks good, but has a bad temper. She will have an emotional outburst at any moment. She also spends a lot of money. A month's salary is not enough for my own use, and I often ask my parents for money. After having a boyfriend, Xiaoxiao spends more money. Her boyfriend has warned her several times not to spend money indiscriminately, but Xiaoxiao thinks her boyfriend is a very stingy person.

I put myself in Xiaoxiao's boyfriend's shoes. He works alone, has to adopt his parents and pay off the mortgage, so his life is under great pressure. Moreover, it is not reliable to maintain a relationship by physical beauty. Everyone will be bored. When you meet an unreasonable person, should you let go or will you let go?

As a woman, if you meet someone you haven't contacted for a long time, you must first reflect on yourself. If you haven't done anything wrong, then the other person doesn't like you, and you don't need to ask for reasons repeatedly, because there are thousands of reasons for loving someone, and one reason for not loving someone is enough. Why bother? Let go if you don't contact, and leave some dignity.

He just passed you by, just a passerby. Some men stay with you for a while, not because they like you, but because they don't love you. They just pass you by, just like meeting a passerby and a passerby in the street. Passing by was the best choice, but both of them stopped. Of course, you can't expect a passerby to accompany you for a long distance. It doesn't matter if we go our separate ways at the next intersection.

Some people are destined to be acquaintances; Some people just go for a ride with you. The person who accompanied you for a ride was because he was very sad during that time and needed someone to talk with him and comfort him. The most exasperating thing is that he just used you, fell in love with you, and then secretly calculated you and did something shameful.

As a woman, really don't treat everyone who stops for you as fate and treat them differently. It's like when you meet someone on the internet, and others want to chat with you, just chat casually. Others don't want to chat, and you drag others to chat. This is disturbing others, making others unhappy and making yourself unhappy.

If the person you used to contact often suddenly stops contacting you, he is a passerby. The vast sea of people, it is enough to have one person to accompany you for a lifetime. Others are accompanying you on the journey, and more people don't know or have never seen it.

He has changed his mind and held hands with others, but you don't know. Some people say, "Men are reliable, and sows can climb trees." If a man changes his mind, don't rely on him, just black him silently. Don't you feel too wronged to be with a person who has changed his mind, or to chat often? If he does both, you are too timid to accept the fact.

My colleague Ai Ju, when she went to work yesterday, her eyes were red. Obviously, she cried. I asked her, "What's the matter?" She said, "What else can you do? Not just because of him. " It turns out that Ai Ju broke up with her boyfriend. Both of them were fine before and are going to get married this year. However, last month, Ai Ju's boyfriend "disappeared", didn't answer the phone, didn't return to WeChat, and didn't contact Ai Ju for more than ten days. I was in a hurry, but what I finally waited for was "the news of breaking up." My boyfriend resigned and went to Shenzhen, because Shenzhen had his first love, and his first love girlfriend found him a decent job.

It's not a bad thing that people who change their minds don't contact you actively, but it's a good thing. Instead of getting married and divorced, it is better to let go early to avoid the dilemma of divorce. If he doesn't contact you, you should observe him carefully to see if he has turned to fall in love with someone else and if you are the last person to know the actual situation. Women, treat love rationally, don't be one-minded, don't be a person with zero IQ.

He is busy, either blindly or falsely. We all think that "a woman's heart is a needle in the sea" is good at using various tricks and telling lies. In fact, men are also good at lying. If you meet a man who is "busy" every day, you should pay attention instead. What's he up to? Have you been busy recently?

If a man doesn't contact you actively, "busy" is often his first excuse. He pretends to have a lot of things to do at work, to work overtime, to be busy on weekends and to travel. When you find him pretending to be busy, you should know that this relationship has quietly come to an end.

You have to understand that a man who has you in his heart will take the initiative to contact you no matter how busy he is, because his heart has never left you. Wherever he goes, he will take his heart away and make him worry and worry.

He wants to contact you, even in the barren hills, he will find a place with network signal; If the cell phone is dead, I'll borrow someone else's phone to call you. Even the ends of the earth will catch up with you; When you meet a cliff, you will find a way to bypass it; Give up his favorite city and job and live with you.