How to make a good opening speech to the person you love?

Only for boys (there is a girl version below)

Confession is definitely a high-tech thing. Only a fool will say I love you directly. . . It will scare each other away. . . How to confess?

In fact, confession is just a process. . . Before you confess. . . The other party should have understood what you mean. . . Two people should have been so ambiguous that she is your girlfriend. . . It's not that she likes you after you say I like you. . . A man who confesses without consideration actually ignores the feelings of the other person. . . Even if the other person likes you. . You can only sort out the relationship between you in a specific situation and in a specific way. . . Confession is actually to upgrade an ambiguous relationship to a love relationship. . . Don't let her know you like her. . . . Anyway. . Before confession. . She already knows. . .

Summarize some common mistakes. . .

1, Valentine's Day. . . Dating a girl who is not your girlfriend on Tanabata. .

This is a big taboo. . Remember that the above is a lover's holiday. . . If she agrees to date, it is tantamount to acquiescence in your relationship. . . Unless you're sure. . . You like her. . She doesn't know or isn't going to promise you. . . You can never make an appointment. . . Otherwise, the guarantee is rejection. . .

2. Confess without embarrassment. . .

First, you should make sure that others like you, too. . . Is it selfish of you to declare yourself unilaterally? . . How to take the exam? . . Just a hint. . . First, it is not easy to guess the hint. . . . Reuse is a hint that everyone can see. . . She will respond to these hints. . . You just use these reactions. . See how she treats you. . .

3, regardless of occasion. . .

Sudden confession . . It's too abrupt. . . And the tacit confession must be in person. . . Not even SMS or QQ. . . Only when the atmosphere between two people is ambiguous can I really care about you. . . (but it implies that you can use it at will. )

4. After the girl refused. .

Even if she likes you, she may refuse out of reserve. . How to judge what it is? . . It's simple. . . If she refuses, their relationship will be a little alienated. . . That means she didn't mean to. . . If it's more ambiguous . . Which means she didn't really refuse. . . At this time, there is a good way. . . You gave her the cold shoulder for a while. . . She will feel a little lost and sorry (don't be cold for too long, be sure that she refused out of reserve), and then you will look for opportunities to cultivate an ambiguous atmosphere alone (preferably at night). . . Confess again. . .

5. Don't get mad after being rejected. . . Otherwise, you will become strangers. . .

6. Girls say to be friends. .

Maybe it's a refusal. . It may be reserved. . . Maybe I want to take another look and see if you are qualified. . . The judgment method has been mentioned above. . .

Don't say it if you really refuse. . . The latter two are similar. . . You say. . . This is what I want. . We need to know each other. . . Be good friends first. . . Then take the opportunity to show it. . . Let her know that you really like her. . . Don't be embarrassed. . . Cold silence. . . Not too hot. . . It's a little cold. . . If she finds you a little cold, she will take the initiative. . . It means she's really interested in you. . . It's only a matter of time before you get together (of course, you have to behave well. . And even the most reserved girls do. . . I have done experiments). . You are a little cold, and she is even colder. . . This is not reserved.

Only suitable for girls

1, we should take the backward as the forward. While paying attention to him, we should know what kind of girls he likes, the characteristics of the opposite sex he appreciates, and compare his own personality and temperament to see what can suit him.

Hold your horses and don't confess to him rashly, lest you scare him away, and then you will lose the chance to continue your attack.

Most men in China prefer reserved women. You should be kind to him silently, and let him feel that he really cares about you, from caring to appreciating, from appreciating to liking, from liking to loving.

Don't be impatient. This is a great event in a girl's life experience. I hope you can grasp it. Even if you don't strive for happiness, you will at least gain valuable wealth in life.

2. Is there a price for a girl to confess to a boy?

Yes, in fact, if you love someone, you have to speak out boldly, but only if you think clearly. In fact, if you want to express your love for him but dare not say it, I think you'd better test him, not too much. Just kidding. Besides, it's hard to say whether it's in my heart or not! I feel sorry for myself, too If this is really an incredible dream, I wish I could get rid of it earlier.

It is not sad to be brave in confession, but sad to be afraid of confession.

As the saying goes, a man chasing a woman is a mountain, and a woman chasing a man is a piece of paper. The success rate of girls' confession to boys is higher.

I can't guarantee whether you will succeed that day, but I think you must prepare in advance.

For example, if you wear your clothes that day, you must make him feel refreshed and capture him visually. Dressing is very important.

Secondly, we should also work hard on some details, such as buying water to drink before going in. Make him think you are gentle and considerate.

You must pay attention to his expression, words and deeds. If he sees you sweating at the ball game, he will show his distressed expression and will give you a bottle of water on his own initiative. Then, congratulations, indicating that he also likes you, then your confession will naturally succeed, and some details can also reflect your position in the other person's heart.

The last step is that, in any case, you have to take this step-if you do it, you will have a chance to succeed, you will not regret it, you will give up directly, and then you will only fail.

4. (More importantly) In love, boys are always more active and girls are always more passive. However, sometimes girls find that good boys take the initiative to pursue, and the chances of success are still great!

My suggestions for chasing boys are as follows:

1. From the details, see whether the other party's requirements for the opposite sex are high or low. I study faces and can see a thing or two from them. If a boy has a hooked nose and a high nose, then he is the kind of boy who demands more from the other half. If a boy has a thick nose and thick meat, you can rest assured that he is not very picky. And chin. Boys with sharp chins have higher requirements, while boys with wide chins have lower requirements.

2. Find out what kind of girl he likes. This is more difficult and more skillful. For example, you can show him some photos of beautiful women as a joke to see what he likes. Generally speaking, you can classify photos into several categories: cute, mature, beautiful, intellectual, neutral and so on. You can correspond yourself to a type and see if it suits his taste.

3. Talk about the topics he is interested in. It doesn't matter what you are interested in, what matters is what he is interested in. Because you are chasing him, you must learn to compromise and cater to him before you get it. For example, he likes playing games, so you should know what games he likes to play and how to play them, and then show his admiration. For example, if he likes watching football, then you should know what team and star he likes. And say you like it, too. This is very important. If you do it, the success rate is very high! Don't just tell him what you care about, what he cares about is the most important thing!

4. You can kiss up. There is no shame in kissing up to boys. If you shoot well, you have a good chance of success. Kiss up to the right point, you must shoot according to the part that the other person is best at and most proud of. If you like him, there must be reasons to like him, and there must be some good things about him, then you can also focus on the good things you like about him to kiss up.

You have done what I said above, and you can guarantee a good chance of success. In fact, girls don't have to be particularly good-looking to catch up with their sweetheart. As long as you are careful and skilled, you will have a chance.

"Killing Skills" pursues a three-step approach to children (male/female). 3 Take the initiative-seduce-confess. 7 initiative (preemptive strike, active approach-active talk) is suitable for bold people! 0 seduce (not a fox seduce! Ha ha! Seduce-hint-seduce) is suitable for shy people! 5 confession (fake truth-fake drama-half truth and half fake) is suitable for people who are hesitant! 6-6 Blinking Method: You look at him shyly about 10 every day, and he is looking at you when you look at him! Then you pretend to be embarrassed and bow your head eight times. Then keep sneaking around and make him think you like him! Then find a chance to confess, by this time he has been psychologically prepared. But let your friend test him first when he professes! If you are lucky, he has confessed to you without telling you. 8 tricks-the simplest trick-tell her in a joking tone: "I like you, can you accept me?" If she refuses, just say, "I'm kidding. How can I like you? " If you accept it, just say, "I'm serious. I really like you. " If she says, "I'll think about it." All you have to do is say, "OK, you have three seconds. If you don't say it, you agree." If she doesn't refuse or agree, you are 99% successful, because she is playing hard to get. All you have to do is chase her, pester her, and you can find beauty again. If you can't even do this, don't love others! Don't praise me, I will be shy. ................ refused to copy and reprint. ....................

Reprinted to Emotional Hospital: Anonymous (with deletion)

The best way to express yourself.

Method 1:

Man: Don't come near me, I'm in a bad mood. . .

Woman: What's the matter?

M: I like a girl, but her conditions are too good.

Woman: Tell me who it is and see if I can help you …

Man: That's you.

Method 2:

Man: I love you.

Woman:?

M: I'm sorry, I said what I meant by accident.

Method 3:

Man: Can you do me a favor? Only you can help me!

W: What's the matter?

Man: Please fall in love with me, because I love you so much!

Method 8:

Man: What would you do if I died?

Woman: What do I care if you die?

Man: I'm afraid I can't love you after I die.

Method 9:

M: Do you have a boyfriend?

Female: old-fashioned.

M: If only there were.

W: Why?

Man: I want to fight him!

Method 10:

What would you do if I said I love you?

Woman: mental illness!

Man: Please take me to the hospital.

Method 1 1:

Man: We bet?

Many things can be used for betting. )

W: What are you betting on?

The man pretends to think: well ... if you lose, be my girlfriend, if I lose, be your boyfriend.

Women's general performance: they will laugh and hit you. The man took the time to ask questions and grabbed her hand. If the environment is good, you can hold her in your arms.

Method 12:

Man: I have always regarded you as my best friend. I have a secret I really want to tell you.

W: What's the secret?

M: I fell in love with a girl, and I don't know what to do.

Woman: Tell her!

Watch her face. )

M: I'm afraid she doesn't like me. what can I do?

Female: ...

Never mind what she said. )

M: Actually, you know her.

Woman: Oh? who is it?

M: Hmm. ...

(Hesitates, then turns to her ear and whispers her name. )

Hehe ~ very interesting!

They say that a man (woman) will meet a woman (man) who can change himself one day in his life.

Don't let it go when you meet it.

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