You may not have my generosity.

Sometimes those short words in Weibo, though not spoken by celebrities, are personal experiences, but they profoundly reveal the public phenomenon or can cause your buzz. When you are bored or on the road, you can find a place to read other people's concise words, which is also a temporary escape from the real world and a place to rest for people who have a common language.

I was deeply impressed by a sentence I read before: if you were me, you might not be as generous as me. Then here is a black-and-white cold-eyed map.

This sentence immediately assimilated me, as if there were many words I couldn't say and I didn't know how to express them. It is most appropriate to summarize them in such a sentence.

What some people do really touches the bottom line of others. It can be said that as long as the bottom line is touched, it is unacceptable and it is normal to lose your temper, even if it is a gentle and humble person. Those stimuli don't mean that you can endure it a little as usual. Even if it is a joke, it represents a limit.

Some people are like this, and they have no sense of distance when interacting with others. It is said that a friend of a gentleman is as light as water. True friends are not for profit, and they don't need to keep in touch. Faint friendship, from a distance, make a phone call when you want, visit when you pass by, be listened to when you are sad and happy, and people who know you can give him a hand when you need it. Yes, everyone should live their own lives. For yourself, you will always hurt people around you. If they don't get too close, the degree of injury will be reduced. Those people won't do that. They joked or talked casually. When he experiences the feelings he has brought to others, he will be furious and eloquent. But you know, your words are just the loudest slap in the face, and others don't even have to reach out.

I participated in the software design competition of the Software Cup two months ago. At that time, in order to give everyone more time to finish the work, the organizing Committee delayed the submitted work for half a month. The teachers said that the results of the competition were still scheduled, but there was no result on the limited day, and the next day was notified. Some players saw this notice and directly said that tomorrow is tomorrow. This kind of person is really irritating. He is not qualified to judge like this. If all the contestants finish on time, how can they delay handing in their works? Those teachers are scrambling to finish the workload for half a month ahead of schedule, and anyone who cares will know that they are considering their own interests. If the position is reversed, don't complain about the sky?

So many times, put yourself in others' shoes. Confucius said, I save three times a day. I think the current "three provinces" should offend people today, make progress today and help others today?

Of course, maybe what they did offended others, but they still gave themselves a kind smile. Then restrain yourself, think about what you have done, and then decide where to change. Getting along with people is an art and one of the important contents in our daily life. Almost all our actions are inextricably linked with others. Patience and tolerance are the most basic rules, but don't touch the bottom line of others. Perhaps it is because of the tolerance of others that you can infringe once or twice. No one has the obligation to completely tolerate a person. Everyone has his own space and temper.

What you have to do is to reflect on yourself and improve your basic literacy. Try to be a generous person. But you must also remember that your temper, your performance and your attitude are also the minimum personality pursuit when you do things that you can't stand over and over again.

Indeed, sometimes the patience and limits of others are beyond your imagination. If I treat you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you've left. Some things are not worth forgiving, and have nothing to do with generosity. If you do something wrong, you should consider paying the price.

Regardless of family, friendship and love! Look at everything from another angle. If you were me, you might not be as generous as me!