Which two kinds of people don't have to post after middle age?

We will meet many different friends in our life. Buddha said: Looking back 500 times, we have to pass by once in our life. Everyone we meet is made by fate, and meeting is fate.

When people reach middle age, they know more and more friends, so they need to be kind to every confidant. However, such people are ignored. Some friends follow the rules all their lives, some are sociable, some are selfish, and some friends only value the present and don't want to get along with all kinds of friends in life. When people reach middle age, they should learn to leave home and manage their social circles well, so as to stay away from such people.

1. Never mind helping others and never know how to be grateful.

It is common that you help me and I help you in life, but some people turn a blind eye to others' help and don't take it to heart at all, letting others help them justly and ungrateful.

Parents will teach us from an early age: the grace of dripping water is rewarded with a spring. But more and more modern people have no gratitude at all. The essence of getting along with friends is to help each other and give help in time, which is the icing on the cake. No one will think that I get along with my friends just because I helped him. I need him to remember my good deeds and thank me all the time. But when friends get along, it's just that I've been paying and I haven't even heard a thank you. Such friends don't need the advice of their families, and they will gradually stay away. Some people always think about what others should do for them, but never think about what they have done for their friends. Friends don't have a good impression on him. If anything goes wrong, they may turn against each other.

I remember reading a story before: A doesn't like eggs, but always gives them to B. B I was grateful at first, but I got used to it over time. If you get used to it, you will take it for granted.

So, until one day, A gave the egg to C, and B was unhappy. He forgot that this egg was originally A's, and A could give it to whoever he wanted. They had a big fight about it and broke up.

When people reach middle age, they are always open-minded. With friends like B around, they will stay away from each other and will not waste energy and time to maintain such friendship. After all, the rest of their lives are too short, and we should live with people who deserve it.

2. People who lie casually

When people reach middle age, they can't control themselves. Many modern people will lie to get rid of things they don't want to do. When we were young, we lied because we were ignorant. Many times, we always feel that we have no way to face it. When we grow up, we need to be responsible for our words and deeds, because lies are easy to be exposed and will have a bad influence on our children.

Friends need sincerity to get along. In life, we often hear people say to the opposite person on the phone: I'm out of town, so I can't go. The child next to him whispered to his mother:? Mom, aren't we at home? . When people reach middle age, they should learn to refuse and refuse what they don't want to do. If you say it, it's actually not that hard to refuse. We should also stay away from friends who lie so casually. Today he can lie to other friends, and tomorrow he will lie to you.

When people reach middle age, they should stay away from people who are ungrateful and lie casually. After all, good interpersonal relationships can make us grow and learn from each other to become better people.