What is a bad woman?

Women, I don't know when there are good and bad points! Some women are said to be good women, but only that woman knows that she wants to be what others call a bad woman.

What is a bad woman like? Women as long as they feel appropriate, no matter what moral concepts. Going beyond the rules is nothing more than being defined as a bad woman ... In ancient times, there was Pan Jinlian, and today there is Ma Rong. Everyone said that it was a piece of shit.

Why do bad women become bad women? Because I fell in love with another man during my marriage, I gave birth to a child and didn't raise it myself, or I gave birth to a child and didn't get married, or I didn't have a job and didn't feel bad about men eating, drinking and having fun outside. ...

It seems that behind being a bad woman, there is a common feature and a creature. He is called a man. Not all bad women are related to men, but it seems that most of them are.

Then talk about good women! A good woman in the eyes of others is capable, caring for her family, taking good care of men and children, filial to her in-laws, sensible, quiet, not arrogant, positive and optimistic, cheerful and lively. ...

Being a good woman needs a lot! This standard seems to have little to do with men.

I don't want to talk about the relationship between good women and bad women and men. Everyone has their own standards in mind. Except for the provisions of the law, everything else can be said to be others' standards.

Just like a good woman in other people's hearts, she also has her own sufferings, but she just doesn't tell others. I chose forbearance. I also admire and envy those women who know how to take care of themselves and don't worry about others, even their parents, their men and their children.

Such as Liping, a typical good woman. Everyone who knows her well admits that a junior high school teacher takes care of her parents-in-law after marriage. ...

But is she really a good woman? Because her lover doesn't help her share the responsibility of taking care of the children, she wants to divorce him ... she will also tell her friends that her life is very hard and she hopes someone will care.

As a teacher, she also wants to relax. She sometimes says that divorce is not for her to decide, because she wants to give her children a complete family. If she is unhappy, she will pretend to be happy, and if she wants to cry, she will face it with a smile!

So! She is just a good woman in the eyes of others. She repeated her life step by step day after day and turned herself into a robot.

I want to ask, will people who have no sunshine in their hearts illuminate others? !

The result can be imagined.

Let's talk about Haining again. The same typical person is called a bad woman because she doesn't care about the eyes of people around her. Because she cheated her in marriage.

She is very enthusiastic. She once devoted herself to her children's education, but her husband did not give her living expenses. After getting married, she hardly goes home every night. The reason is official. She is busy with things in the factory. After she found out that he was not a ghost, she wanted a divorce, and the other party stayed with her because she was afraid that she would divide her family business.

She takes care of the children alone and has no living expenses. How can you keep her alive ... suddenly a man helped her care about her and couldn't help but release himself. She blamed herself at first ... but she didn't want to! So she said to start by taking care of yourself. The child was given full-time care, found a job by himself, and lived comfortably every day.

She said why she wronged herself. Someone cares about you, you just need it, just be happy. As for the bottom line of moral corruption, she said that what the bottom line is has nothing to do with her. The result of being bound is to destroy yourself. If you destroy yourself, what can you do? Her life is also precious. Since morality cannot bind everyone, why should it bind her?

Each has his own life and choice. First of all, cherish life and cherish yourself, right?

What is a bad woman? Just don't label yourself at will in the future. Everyone wants to cherish life only once! As for how to cherish it, just be happy!