A letter to my brother-in-law

Thanks to the diapers sponsored these days, Sun Meiling has experienced the next luxurious king of angels.

Besides, there's something I have to tell you. I won't express it in person, but write it down and be reasonable.

As I said, you don't need to call me second sister in the future, just call me by my name, "Jiang Yingying". How nice, just like it is strange to call me second sister at school. If my parents say so, just say so. I told you to shout.

Besides, I dare not say anything if you call me second sister. Call me Jiang Yingying, and I can speak my mind boldly.

When I was in college, I was glad to know that you went to my school. I work part-time in the dormitory, and I'm glad you came to accompany me, so you said you had something to do and asked me to stand in the sun and do cheerleading rehearsal for you all day. I'd love to. I have the same personality as you. If others are kind to me, I will be doubly kind to others.

But now that we are a family, the role has changed and there have been more contacts, so the friction is naturally certain. First of all, our outlook on life and values are different, but it doesn't mean who is right or wrong. Our living environment is different from family education, so it is normal to be different. Just as you don't agree with my method of raising children, so do I.. There is only difference, there is no right or wrong. Sometimes my parents think it's "wrong" for you to raise children, and I think it's not good. You are the mother of the child, so naturally you have the final say.

The main reason for writing this passage to you is my mother, your mother-in-law. You said that your parents are the people you value most, and my parents are also the people I value most. To be honest, I believe you can understand that my mother raised three of us. I am grateful and admire her. In my mother's home and her husband's hometown, she is a respected person, but I feel a little sad and distressed when I see my respected mother sulking and moping in front of her daughter-in-law.

My mother didn't raise you, didn't live with you, it's normal to have frictions and differences, and you have no obligation to take care of her, because naturally you can't combine with my brother and become like your own mother.

Tell me my opinion, most of China society is mother-in-law with children. I think this is a moral kidnapping of the elderly. I don't think it is an obligation for a mother-in-law to take care of her children. It's really not the responsibility of "should" and "she can't run away", so my mother-in-law is willing to help us take care of the children. I am very grateful. Without her help, maybe my daughter would not have been born.

Of course, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal problem, and the contradiction of raising children is the first. However, the mother-in-law is not a natural enemy. They are all in the same boat, and they all love children, but in different ways. But since you ask your mother-in-law for help, please trust her, please tolerate each other, respect each other and put yourself in other's shoes. Most of the contradictions in many details can be solved. Please trust her. She loves your children, too. I'm a little jealous because she keeps saying "our jiaozi" instead of "our benefactor". I have always thought that my mother is a very wise person. Her life experience, her life experience, is a great wealth given to me by my mother, which impressed me deeply and has benefited a lot so far. You set a bottom line for taking care of children. You can't touch it. Please trust her in other ways.

Of course, if you have any dissatisfaction with me, if I have anything inappropriate, please tell me directly. I really don't mind and I can absolutely understand that my pants are not enough for diapers. It's really good. You are more concerned about the health in jiaozi. The new bathtub is used to wrap jiaozi. These can be said directly. Don't treat me like your mean sister-in-law. I am an understanding "Jiang Yingying", although I will feel a little embarrassed. I'm an outsider, so tell my mother straight. Because you can't be honest with each other, it makes you feel resentful and not worth the loss.

Old classmates, I sincerely wish you a harmonious family and a healthy growth of jiaozi. Don't forget to call me Jiang Yingying next time.