Meng Jiahui has gained weight again, and holding hands with Ekin Cheng is so sweet. What is Dink’s reason for being married for 7 years?

Some media exposed a set of transformation photos of Ekin Cheng and his wife Meng Jiahui. It turned out that the couple gathered with 6 friends for a party and dinner. 52-year-old Ekin Zheng and 46-year-old Meng Jiahui were dressed very discreetly. Ekin Zheng wore a black casual suit, while Meng Jiahui wore a dark blue polka-dot skirt, jacket and black pants. They have been married for 7 years and are still so sweet, and their fingers intertwined are very enviable. It has been 7 years since the two got married in 2013. Seeing their friends around them getting married and having children, Cai'er Ying also welcomed her second child not long ago. I don't know how Ekin Cheng feels. The two chose DINK. This clan is actually related to Meng Jiahui's childhood experience. Divorced family, mother is strict

Meng Jiahui once bluntly said that she had an uncomfortable home, and she became a problem girl because of it. When her mother was pregnant with her, her parents had already divorced. When she was a child, she grew up with her grandparents in the housing estate party secretary in Yuen Long. At that time, she was probably very happy and had the love of her mother-in-law (as she called her grandma). Since she was a child, she has had to shoulder responsibilities that she should not have at this age. For this reason, she is more mature and independent than her peers, and this is also the reason for her future temperament. Because her parents divorced when she was young, she lived with her grandparents. Because her classes were not very good, Meng Jiahui was often punished by her mother. Her mother was very strict, and she was the one who punished her every time. Not only did she like to play with her mother to get better grades, she also liked to beat her.

After Meng Jiahui partnered with the Queen, she still returned to the advertising media company, living a nine-to-five office life, and was unexpectedly laid off. Thanks to Johnnie To's attention, Meng Jiahui had the opportunity to make her first movie "Sudden", cooperating with Golden Horse actor Simon Yam. This film also helped her win the Best New Actor candidate at the 18th Hong Kong and Taiwan Film "Hong Kong Film Awards". It is very enviable to have such results when she becomes famous. In 1999, her second movie was the police drama "Dark War" starring Andy Lau and Simon Yam. It was also directed by Johnnie To. Although the main role was only five minutes, she was starring in Andy Lau, so The resources are really great.

With such a perfect start, after signing a contract with TVB in 2000, Meng Jiahui entered the television industry and developed very well. Almost every episode has a female lead. Whether it is Qiu Jiahui's girlfriend Shao Lihua in "Freshers" or the female lead Bai Su in "Wesley", her aloofness is impressive. In 2006, she starred in "Forensic Pioneer" with Au-yang Zhenhua and Lin Wenlong, which brought her work to a new level. At the age of 33, she was nominated for the "Best Supporting Actress" at the TVB Taiwan Anniversary Awards Ceremony. Family relations, fear of marriage

Because of her strict mother, she was beaten all the time, and she also witnessed her brother beating her mother-in-law. At that time, she could not do anything except worry, but seeing the man who raised her since she was a child Grandma was beaten, and her emotions were obvious. Meng Jiahui once had a half-sister. After her younger sister was taken over by her biological parents, she jumped to her death at the age of fourteen. Only then did she learn that her younger sister was abused by her stepmother. At that time, she was very close to her older sister. It's sad. Because her family's financial situation was not very good, she had been very obedient since she was a child. Her mother asked her to choose glasses for myopia. She chose the ugliest pair just because it was the most cost-effective one in the store. Even her mother was surprised. She herself She kept saying she was beautiful.

For her, work is not about dreams, but just that life is not easy. She once said frankly that acting is not easy and living a simple life is not easy. Only by working hard can you be able to buy cars, property, and take care of your family. Because I was hurt by the divorce of my parents since I was a child, even though I look forward to a relationship, I don’t dare to believe in marriage. I don't think I can live a normal life, I have no expectations for marriage, and I have never thought about continuing the family line. If there is a good man in the future, I will feel that I am just lucky. Even if there is not, I can take care of myself. Getting to know Yi Mian

Before Ekin Cheng got together with Meng Jiahui, he had experienced two relationships that everyone knows. First, he had a 7-year relationship with TVB actress Shao Meiqi, and he only had a 7-year relationship with Gigi Leung. In the same year, he and Meng Jiahui got chatting while playing table tennis at a friend's party. The two had similar personalities and quickly got together.

In fact, before Meng Jiahui entered the industry, she had already developed a deep relationship with Ekin Cheng. At that time, the media came to visit the team and discovered that Meng Jiahui, who was working behind the scenes, was the girl who filmed the promotional video with Andy Lau. Meng Jiahui without makeup was photographed by the media. Later, Ekin Cheng's company called the media and asked them not to publish photos of Meng Jiahui without makeup. This incident left a deep impression on Meng Jiahui.

Before Meng Jiahui got together with Ekin Cheng, she also had an unforgettable relationship that lasted for 7 years. Her boyfriend was someone else, an interior designer. The reason for the breakup was very helpless. They had been dating for a long time and lost the flame. No one is willing to take a step forward. In fact, the two have different personalities. Her boyfriend likes to be clean and tidy, while Meng Jiahui is more free and easy. The two have been in a relationship for many years, and there have been many messages that Meng Jiahui is urging them to get married. There are even rumors that the two cannot survive the seven-year period. In 2010, Ekin Cheng revealed in an interview that it was irrational to get married, and bluntly said that Meng Jiahui was the most suitable soul mate.

When Meng Jiahui was asked about the topic of older leftover women in an interview, she laughed and said: Now that I have Yi Mian, am I still considered an older leftover woman? But she also made it clear: It will definitely not be easy to get married in the past two years. Now the two of us often work separately in two places and see each other when we have time. It is not like we think that we can't see each other all year round. Isn't it great that both of them are making money? In 2013, after seven years of dating, the two finally got married. At that time, it was rumored that Meng Jiahui succeeded in urging the marriage, but Ekin Cheng came up with the answer that it was because Meng Jiahui did not urge the marriage that he married her. . Ekin Cheng said frankly that it was his girlfriend who captured his heart with her true kindness. He felt that she was very caring. There were many beautiful girls in this social circle, many of whom were the female leads in TV series, but the true feelings in his heart were , is difficult to find. She's genuine, direct, and loving, and a no-brainer.

Meng Jiahui also said in an interview that she was not married at first, but it was a friend's words that made her change her mind. The friend gave an example of a couple who had been in love for many years but did not get married. Suddenly one of them needs surgery, but the other one cannot sign like a relative! One sentence made her realize the necessity of a marriage certificate. Conclusion

Ekin Cheng was once said to be an unmarried person, but because of Meng Jiahui, he changed a lot and became a good man. During Meng Jiahui's recuperation period due to sports injuries, Meng Jiahui was taken care of by Ekin Cheng. I've gained dozens of pounds, which is probably a form of fattening. She mentioned that she was afraid of having children because of her mother: My mother is quite arrogant, but when I saw that my mother-in-law often worried, I understood that raising children is a lifelong responsibility. Wouldn't it be very miserable if I gave birth to a child like my mother? I like it when two people are free.

As for whether she is pregnant with a child, Meng Jiahui said that she and Ekin Cheng have a common understanding. Brother Ekin Cheng has a child, and his parents-in-law will not be under pressure. Having experienced the failure of her parents' marriage, she may be very repelled, and being pregnant for ten months is like going to jail. I once dreamed that I was pregnant and worried about which school my child should go to and how many forms I had to fill out. It was a nightmare. Although the two rarely mess around, the scenes they were photographed usually involve them holding hands, exercising together, enjoying delicious food together, and they are very happy.