What kind of people don't often send friends?

I am a person who never changes my head. My WeChat avatar has been used for 7 years, and I haven't had many friends since my college days. Let's talk about my opinion!

The psychology that girls never change their avatars? 1, career type, relatively mature and steady personality.

This kind of people focus on their work and have a relatively mature and steady personality. For them, WeChat is just a tool to send and receive information, and any avatar will not affect its function, so they will not waste precious time on such meaningless things.

2. People who are more nostalgic.

I am a very nostalgic person. I haven't changed my WeChat avatar for 7 years. It's not that I don't want to change it. I just feel that the current avatar has become accustomed to it and has created an inherent impression. I don't want to change it. Just like if you stay in one place for a long time, you will be reluctant to leave.

3. Introverts.

Introverts usually have one characteristic. They don't want to attract the attention of others, and changing their avatars may also cause them some pressure. I'll think it over in my mind. Does this avatar suit me? Should I change it? What will others think? Therefore, they will not change their avatars easily.

4. People who are addicted to what they should do and seldom spend time on communication.

I have a former colleague who has a clear goal in both work and life. He is usually obsessed with what he is doing and turns a deaf ear to what is happening outside the window. Such people are very serious about their work. They know exactly where they should spend their time and will not spend their time on things that have nothing to do with their goals.

What kind of people don't often send friends? 1, just know your life, there is no need to announce it to the world.

I think this is the mentality of most people who don't like making friends. Such people usually have high thoughts. In their minds, it is good to enjoy their own lives. Whether they live well or not has little to do with others, and others can't help. They pay more attention to real life than virtual networks.

2, the life circle is relatively narrow, nothing new.

Like me, working in a laboratory, I don't have much chance to get in touch with others. Every day, I have a narrow circle. Sometimes I think, I really don't have any good friends.

In the conclusion, the above list is only a part of the views, which does not mean that everyone is like this. In fact, whether to change the avatar or not, whether to send a circle of friends has little to do with a person's personality, and sometimes it's just a question of liking or not. So don't judge a person by his circle of friends and head portrait, but really understand him from his real life.

That's who I am. I want to talk about this problem from my point of view. Why don't we like to make friends by changing our avatars? There are only the following reasons:

One: There are many people who may be like me for personality reasons. They are usually taciturn, don't like to talk, and always keep silent. This is true in reality, and it is also true in the network. We don't show our emotions like some people, keep everything in our hearts, and are afraid that others will spy on our world and our thoughts will not be understood by others. Only in a place where no one knows, do you dare to confide and tell the secret. Once we choose one of our avatars, it seems that it has always been like that. Not that we don't want to change it. It's just that we look at the dazzling patterns and still feel that the original is the best choice.

Two: the adult world has long been used to being alone. Few people in my circle of friends send their own messages. It's not that I won't send it, but I can only choose silence if I say it. Is your little thing really worth sharing? What will others think? When such negation appears repeatedly, it becomes a habit. They're all adults, so there's no need to be like before. A lot of things can be digested by yourself, and you will suffer silently. There is another situation. Now our friends are here, for fear that they will worry about their position. If they can send less, try not to.

Personality is innate, which leads some people to be naturally reticent, like silence and are willing to be silent. This world allows such people to exist, and everyone does not need to be cheerful. Introverts also have their own world. The stress of adults is acquired. When the pressure is getting bigger and bigger, all we can do is to hide our inner pain with silence and make ourselves stronger.

When we slowly disappeared from the circle of friends, that day also predicted such a state.