Let the children quit diapers in just 3 days! How to train the baby to go to the toilet with Buddhist mentality?

My son's third birthday is about a month away, and it took me only three days to get him to say goodbye to diapers.

Having said that, many treasure moms in China may find it strange, unacceptable or ridiculous.

After all, China pays attention to speed in this respect. Perhaps more parents think it is right to stop using diapers for their babies as soon as possible.

But in New Zealand, in this respect, nursing nurses suggest not to be too demanding, but to guide and demonstrate children in daily life. When they are ready, we can easily help children quit diapers without too much effort.

However, there will still be impatient parents eager to try. When the child 1 2 years old, he will continue to try. Obviously, the child is not ready and needs forced training. What is the result?

Needless to say, you may have guessed: many parents either give up automatically and wait for a while to train again; Either work hard and clean the carpets and bedding at home every day, not to mention being tired like a cat that can't walk. The effect is not obvious. As a result, the child still doesn't want to sit on the basin and pee.

Although some of them have succeeded by force, many children have left a bad habit/problem of urinating in bed at night, which is really not worth the candle.

As a Buddhist mother, I will seize the opportunity to educate my children in life, but I don't insist on many things. I think it is most important to conform to the natural physical and mental development of children.

There is no need to think that what others are doing must be exactly the same in our family, otherwise it will make others laugh and explain that our child is dying or something.

Never give yourself such pressure, and it is not good for your child's own development.

I just listen to the guidance of professional nursing nurses in New Zealand and professional teachers in children's kindergartens: I often tell my son how to go to the toilet in daily life, and we adults will show him when we go to the toilet, and then pay attention to see if he is interested in continuing his studies.

When our son 1 year-old is almost 2 years old, we feel that he seems to be ready, because he always likes to go to the bathroom with us adults and then ask a lot of questions. We thought he was ready, so we began to train him.

As a result, two days later, we found that the child was not fully prepared and had no interest at all. It's no use pushing him at this time, so we resolutely decided to leave it alone and let nature take its course!

Before we decided not to continue training our son, we also talked with our nursing nurses and kindergarten teachers. After listening to our complaints, they agreed that my son was not fully prepared and there was no need to push him.

By the way: New Zealand expert guidance-completely quit diapers, boys generally develop slower than girls.

So parents with boys at home, let alone in such a hurry! Just conform to the natural development and needs of children.

When our son was about 2 years old and 8 months old, we found that he gradually disliked diapers. He often says that diapers make him uncomfortable and he always wants to take them off.

Moreover, he prefers to go to the toilet with us adults, and from time to time he is asked to sit on our "sitting" toilet like us.

Gee, at this time, I strongly feel that my son has made full preparations for the second toilet training.

Unfortunately, however, the COVID-19 epidemic broke out in China on February 20 19, and the whole international atmosphere was somewhat tense.

At that time, my parents and sister had just arrived in New Zealand from China, and were going to spend Christmas and Spring Festival in New Zealand.

As a result, the epidemic situation in China is even more serious, and soon it will be in 2020 ... To make a long story short ... Unfortunately, the first confirmed case of COVID-19 appeared in mid-February, and then it was blocked! We started living and working at home ... ..

I'm sorry, Ma Rong made some digressions with too much emotion, hehe ... The point is: we began to train our son to go to the toilet at the beginning of the closed door.

We deeply remember that the nursing nurse told us that this training could be completed in 2-3 weeks at the slowest and 3 days at the fastest. Therefore, the time when we closed our doors to the outside world is just a good opportunity to prepare for a "training war" of 2-3 weeks!

Before the training began, we quickly bought the sitting basin in the picture online (because it was closed).

At the beginning of training, I will give my son a pre-training introduction and tell him to tell his mother in advance when he wants to pee or poop in the next time, and then both of them should sit on the basin.

In short, on the first day of training, I almost kept reminding my son that he must tell his mother in advance if he feels like urinating or defecating, instead of saying that he will teach him how to use the bidet after all.

When he listened to my explanation, he was very attentive and nodded from time to time, as if he understood?

Remember: don't let your child wear diapers or diapers from the moment of training.

There is another trick: children usually have time to pee or poop.

It's a general situation, although the child's situation will change in a day.

However, if conditions permit, parents should record the last time the child urinates and defecates, and then calculate the next possible time to urinate and defecate according to the child's food intake.

For example, I will check and have a training conversation with my son within 2-3 hours. For example, tell him: Baby, do you want to poop? Baby, at this time, are you going to pee? Come on, let's go. Mom will take you to the pool.

As the saying goes, there will be a first time for everything. Even if you fail for the first time, you are the mother of success!

At that time, my son probably felt something missing from his lower body (he didn't wear diapers), and at some point after the training, he felt that he had to pee. ....

But because it was the first time, he didn't know how to deal with the problem of time. But he suddenly called me, "Mom, I have to pee." "But it's too late, some urine has overflowed.

I quickly picked him up and ran to the sitting basin, telling him to tell his mother before peeing, so that he could bear it and sit on the sitting basin and pee again!

That little guy is quite awake, as if he was consciously holding on and didn't continue to pee … ..

Finally, my son sat on this lovely sitting basin and finished his first "getting rid of diapers" pee.

I can see the joy of success in his face. Although young, he seems to feel that he has learned a new skill and feels quite fulfilled.

Then, he didn't want to wear those pants that were already a little wet. Then I seized the opportunity to continue training: "See? Next time, you must tell your mother in advance, instead of telling your mother after urinating. You see how uncomfortable your pants are? "

Because of this "first time", within two days, my son would tell me in advance if he wanted to pee or poop, and then I repeatedly taught him how to use the bidet.

The third day, what a surprise! When my son urinated or pooped, he didn't even call me, so he pedaled away (I thought he was doing something, and then he followed).

I saw him run to the washbasin, lift the lid of the washbasin, take off his pants, and then sit down and do something … ..

Haha, it worked!

We can't believe it. It only took us three days to teach our son how to use the bidet very easily and let him give up diapers completely.

We thought for a moment: the greatest contribution is that we gave our son the necessary training when he was fully prepared for the new life skill of promotion, so that he could learn and absorb it quickly.

Because of the time, I won't explain the follow-up situation in detail.

To sum up: after successful training, my son will use the bidet when he wants to pee and poop. So far, there has not been a case of getting up at night to pee or peeing on the bedding at night, not once.

This cute little pig sat in the basin. He just used it for 9 days, and then he got rid of it completely.

My son used the pig for less than 10 days and went directly to the toilet for adults. It also makes me think it's a waste to buy this sitting basin, hehe … ..

Of course, our adult toilet is too high for him. Even if he uses it now, he can either climb up by himself or I can hug him.

In a word, my father and I are very satisfied with the training results. And it's very helpful to start with a cute little sitting basin.