How to adjust the mentality after the wife is derailed? What psychology is a woman having an affair?

In marriage, any cheating party falls in love with a married man. The cheating party must bear some costs. How should he adjust his mentality after his wife cheated? So _ what is the psychological state of a woman after derailment, and what is the cost of a woman's kitchen cabinet?

1. Rational state

This kind of women generally pay attention to men's and women's feelings, mostly because their minds are delicate and meticulous, or because there are no feelings or emotional cracks between husband and wife. They expect emotional care and inner comfort. This type of number derailment is not obvious, just a stage of communication or promotion. However, this kind of derailment is usually very costly and tiring because of the deep emotional mixture and too many intertwined chemicals and spirits. Although we have achieved great physical and mental success in a certain period of time, the final result will generally be damaged.

2. Mental state

This type of women are generally emotionally or physically derailed in advance, or have been stimulated in love, or have been extremely happy physically. They pay little attention to love. What they want is revenge, sexual stimulation, or enthusiasm. Physical enjoyment. This kind of derailment is generally impossible to have feelings, chemicals, and money grievances, but to seek temporary happiness. To put it bluntly, there is a kind of abnormal psychological state of "playing" and "being played", "occupying" or "occupied" between each other. This kind of derailed personal behavior is very free and easy, and it is also very easy. Unless you are "caught", it is not easy to have all concerns.

3. Mental state

This type of women is older. Generally, there is a stable daily life, a warm home and even a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. As the couple spent more and more time together, their enthusiasm in their youth gradually turned into true feelings. Because of work, work, family and other reasons, they communicate with each other in ideas, language expressions and even "sexual desire." There is less communication. With the change of time and the improvement of age, they usually like to talk to someone, and many "heartfelt words" can't be said between husband and wife or even lovers, so they want to find a similar couple or extramarital lover, but neither of them can easily cause other harmful "intimacy" to talk.

4. Rational state

This type of women are generally very old. Most of them are between 35 and 45 years old. When a husband reaches this age, he will usually be "willing but unable." For husband and wife life, most of them just adapt. At most, it is limited to "paying public grain" on time. Women who don't know their age are usually "like wolves and tigers" and "unstoppable". Because husbands tend to "avoid" inadvertently and try to avoid "paying public grain", while daughters-in-law are usually embarrassed to take the initiative to stipulate because of their feelings. In the long run, the daughter-in-law will have a feeling of "not having enough to eat" Therefore, in order to better deal with the problem of "food and clothing", many daughters-in-law will look at the men outside Kafka Castle and go to the "edge of the city" to find "food crops" to eat once there is still an opportunity. -

5. Rational state

Because the world is getting worse in modern society, people's hearts are not ancient and derailed, which has become a "fashion trend" for many people. After dinner and tea, many women often deliberately peep or narrate the "erotic life" of others. Gradually, they are in a state of "contempt", but after a long time, they seem to have a feeling of "one leaf is blind".

6. "Psychological state

Such species are generally rare, and most of them are "unintentional". How does such a woman adjust her mentality after her wife's infidelity? Most of them are deceived or "forced" by the other party when they are fully prepared. Naturally, this is not a category of sexual assault. Although I don't mean that to each other, I don't dislike it either. I don't argue. As long as there is a natural environment or "atmosphere", as long as there is no risk to human body or reputation, it will eventually be "half-pushed" in confusion.

7. Rational state

This type of women are generally very old, mostly between 40 and 50 years old. When these people were young, most of them were well-behaved, devoted to their families, children and husbands, and basically had no "criminal record." However, with the growth of age, the children have become older, and the husband has his own job without her care. At the moment, they gradually have a lot of time to miss their past and imagine their future. In the link they have been thinking about, they suddenly feel that time passes very quickly. How should they adjust their mentality after their wives cheat? He will miss his youth before he enjoys life! ! Therefore, for no reason at all, there is an anxiety state of "Time flies, youth is fleeting, Feng Tang is easy to get old, and Li Guang is hard to seal".