Daily etiquette

Family etiquette refers to the established code of conduct, etiquette and rituals that people have gradually formed in their long-term family life in order to communicate ideas, exchange information and contact feelings. China's traditional family moral standards are: interpersonal harmony, frugality, hard work and simplicity, and paying attention to etiquette. This is the bond to consolidate and maintain normal family relations, and it is also a powerful spiritual pillar to enhance family cohesion and work and study efficiency. As the saying goes, "Father and son live in harmony and their families are unbeaten, brothers live in harmony and their families are not harmonious, rural townships strive for harmony, and husband and wife live in harmony and their families flourish", so it can be seen that "harmony (mutual courtesy)" is the key. In order to build a United and harmonious family and let people live a happier life, we must learn and master family etiquette.

Section 1 Elders and Younger Generations

Respecting parents and elders is the duty of being a man, an innate virtue and a prerequisite for the formation of various manners, so it has always been praised by people. Filial piety should start from the following points:

1. Take the initiative to care about greetings and listen to parents' teachings. Greetings to parents and elders should be based on different times, occasions and festivals.

2. Understand the care of elders and pay attention to attitude. Always take the initiative to tell your parents about your life, study and thoughts. Don't hide your mistakes or lie. Be filial and considerate to parents, speak gently, don't contradict parents, and discuss with parents when something happens; Even if you are wronged, you should explain it calmly, instead of being enemies with your parents.

3. Share your worries for your parents, and don't add chaos to your parents. Be considerate of the hard work of the elders, and try your best to care and assist their parents when they are sick or in trouble; When you go out from home, you should report the situation to your parents in time; Take on some simple housework, such as washing dishes, sweeping the floor and cleaning the room.

The second quarter hospitality

In family etiquette, we should not only have a good relationship with our relatives, pay attention to etiquette, but also socialize, among which welcoming is a lot of knowledge. So how can we be a good host and guest?

First, the family hospitality etiquette

1. Prepare for reception

(1) Arrange the reception environment. The place where guests are received in the family is a window to the outside world. We should try our best to make the reception room clean, bright and tidy, and create a good hospitality environment. There should be sofas, chairs, stools, and tables or coffee tables where tea leaves can be placed, so that guests can feel the cleanliness and warmth of the family as soon as they enter the door.

(2) prepare the reception items. Tea sets, teacups, fruits and snacks for guests should be prepared in advance.

(3) Be mentally prepared. When receiving guests, you should also be psychologically prepared, respect them psychologically, be friendly to them, be warm and cheerful, and don't let them feel that you don't welcome them as soon as they enter the door, so that you and your family will leave a bad impression of "refusing guests".

In addition, we should pay attention to our own clothes and instruments to show our respect for our guests and let them feel that their host family is really prepared and sincerely welcome themselves.

2. Reception work

(1) If someone knocks at the door, you should answer "Come in" or meet them at the door. When guests come in, they should stand up and greet them warmly and arrange seats for them. Tea, candy, etc. Ready to serve.

(2) If you are your friend, introduce your parents when you visit for the first time, and introduce your parents to your friends. If the elders visit, they must offer tea with both hands and put it on the right side of the guests. If it is very hot in summer, you need an electric fan or air conditioner.

(3) When eating, guests should take the initiative to invite them to have dinner together. If the guest claims to have eaten, arrange a friend to sit down and find some books, newspapers or magazines for him to read before continuing to eat.

(4) Thank the guests for accepting gifts, but don't open them for eating or playing on the spot.

(5) When the guests come, if they happen to be unable to accompany them, they should say hello first, apologize and arrange for their families to accompany them, and then go about their own business.

(6) When guests ask to leave, they can stay with each other politely, hoping that they will sit for a while, but they should respect their wishes and not stay by force, so as not to delay their living arrangements.

(7) Fujian will deliver it to your door. Welcome guests to come again next time.

Hospitality greet the guest room with courtesy.

You need to introduce tea for the first time.

Ocean deep, a teacher and student, is more enthusiastic about teachers.

The guest went out and sincerely invited him to come again next time.

Second, the etiquette of going out to be a guest

1. When visiting relatives and friends, you should first be clean and tidy, and bring as many gifts as possible to show your respect for your host.

2. To master and determine the specific time and arrive on schedule, remember that the guests will follow the principle of not disturbing the rest of the host's life and avoid becoming uninvited guests.

Ring the doorbell or knock at the door before entering, and don't push the door privately. Umbrellas and other items should be placed outdoors or in places designated by the owner. After entering the door, if necessary, take off your coat, hat and gloves, put on slippers, and then sit in the place designated by the owner. You shouldn't sit down without being invited. You should pay attention to posture, propriety and naturalness. When you meet other family members or friends of the host, you should take the initiative to say hello and never ignore them. When you are a guest, you should be polite, behave steadily and respect the rules and living habits of the host.

4. When visiting other people's homes, you should understand the relationship with the host, know how to address the host, and extend greetings to the host. When the host brings candy, cake and tea, he should first express his gratitude and then pick it up with both hands.

When talking, grasp the time, understand the other person's mood, don't force others, talk politely, and take the initiative to say goodbye when leaving. If a new guest arrives, wait for the new guest to sit still before leaving.

6. Don't make yourself at home. Without the owner's permission, you can't walk around, rummage around, tamper with furnishings and articles, and you can't open drawers, cupboard doors, refrigerators, etc. Feel free.

7. When saying goodbye, pay attention to say "goodbye" to the host and thank him for his warm hospitality, such as "I'm so happy today" or invite him to my home, such as "Welcome to my home".

To visit and repair the instrument as a friendly gift.

The licensee shall not use it without authorization.

The host is happy to say goodbye and thank you.

Section 3 Dining Etiquette

1. When filling rice, don't fill it too full; When serving rice or vegetables, put your thumb up and don't let it touch the food, otherwise it will be unsanitary. Take the food, walk slowly and steadily, and don't let the food spill.

Don't blow into the hot soup with your mouth. Sometimes the soup served is very hot. Try to drink less soup at this time. If it is too hot, pour the soup into a bowl and spoon it slowly. Wait for the soup to cool down, and then drink it bit by bit.

When we eat with our elders, we should wait for them to sit down before we can sit down. Don't walk around after you sit down, just wait for dinner quietly. Legs flat naturally, sitting naturally. The elders take the food first, and then take the food by themselves.

Chew slowly when eating, and don't make any noise in your mouth. Tableware should be handled with care and placed neatly. If the food is out of reach, you can tell your elders softly. Say "thank you" when others add food to themselves.

5. Pay attention to manners when eating. When serving meals, you should give them to your grandparents first, then to your parents and finally to yourself. If guests have dinner together, they should be given first, and then served in turn according to the size of family members. When serving, first of all, put delicious dishes and dishes suitable for the taste of the elders on the table near the elders.

6. Eat on time, don't be repeatedly invited by parents or elders, and leave the table after eating and say "eat slowly".

* * * Be modest when eating. Don't forget the elders yet.

Keep order and perseverance in school.

Handle the dishes with care, but don't be picky about food.

It is civilized and healthy to swallow, shut up and chew.

Article 5 Social etiquette

Section 1: Etiquette in Public Places

1. In the park

(1) Maintain public hygiene, and do not throw peels, scraps of paper and beverage bottles and cans.

(2) Consciously abide by the rules and regulations, take good care of the flowers, trees and amusement facilities in the park, and do not climb trees, pick flowers and fruits, trample on the lawn, or paint or smear on places of interest.

Two. In museums and galleries

Please keep the exhibits safe.

Most of the exhibits on display in the museum are very valuable. Don't touch the exhibits casually during the visit, pay special attention not to damage the exhibits and other facilities, and don't use the flash to take pictures at will. Visitors must abide by the special regulations of museums and art galleries.

(2) Civilization visit

① When entering museums and art galleries, the coats, hats and sundries carried by tourists should be stored in the cloakroom. Do not wear a hat or bring food and sundries into the exhibition hall. It is uncivilized to eat while visiting. If you want to drink water or eat, you can go to the lounge.

② Keep a quiet environment and a good academic atmosphere in the exhibition hall. Listen carefully to the interpreter's explanation. You can ask questions if you don't understand, but don't ask endless questions. It's boring.

(3) Don't comment on the exhibits when visiting. If you appreciate an exhibit, you can enjoy it for a while without disturbing others; If someone stops to admire an exhibit, you must pass in front of him and say "I'm sorry".

Three. cinema

(1) If you go to the theater to see a play or a movie, you should get there in advance and take a seat accordingly. If your seat is in the middle, you should politely signal the person sitting to let you pass. It is impolite to give up your seat in front of your seat. Never put your hips in other people's faces.

(2) Pay attention to neat clothes, even if the weather is hot, it is unsightly to be topless.

(3) Keep quiet in the theater, don't talk loudly, laugh or make noise, and don't treat the theater as a snack bar.

(4) After the performance, leave in an orderly way and don't push.

Four. sports venues

(1) clothing. Clothing in stadiums and gymnasiums is generally informal, and it is mainly timely and comfortable. Especially in outdoor stadiums and gymnasiums in autumn and winter, the first thing is to keep warm.

(2) sit down. Be present on time so as not to disturb others when sitting. When watching the game, don't stand on the seat with your feet because of emotional excitement.

(3) Observe order. Pay attention to civilization when watching sports games. You can cheer for your favorite athletes and sports teams in the game, but don't insult the opposing team to avoid disputes with the supporting audience of the opposing team, and don't throw debris at the venue and attack the referee because you are dissatisfied with the game.

(4) exit. If you have something important after the game, you can leave quietly a few minutes before the end. If you don't leave until the end of the game, leave in order and don't crowd each other to avoid accidents.

On the court, fight together and not cheat to win each other.

It is not appropriate to talk about civilization again.

Before you leave the game, you must clap and pick up the rubbish.

Section 2: Public Life Etiquette * * *

First, the ride etiquette

1. Cycling: Strictly obey the traffic rules. Do not run a red light, ride a bike without an umbrella, chase or run a tortuous race, or ride a bike with people. When the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled are slow to move, they should understand and take the initiative to be polite.

2. By train or ship: In the waiting room and waiting room, keep quiet and don't make any noise. Line up in turn when you get on the bus. Don't push or collide. Don't spit everywhere, throw scraps of paper and let children urinate everywhere in the carriage and on the boat.

3. By bus: When the bus arrives at the station, you should queue up in turn and take good care of women, children, the elderly and the sick and disabled. Don't grab a seat after getting on the bus, and don't put anything on the seat to occupy it for others. Passengers who are old, weak, sick, pregnant or holding a baby should take the initiative to give up their seats.

4. By plane: Observe the regulations and board the plane without dangerous goods. Sit in the seat specified in the boarding pass, and don't sit around. You should be modest and get along well with other passengers. Don't make trouble, don't tamper with other people's things, and don't scare people.

Don't rush in the car, be modest.

Don't grab seats, don't make noise, and don't remember this.

See the old and see the young, be polite, give up your seat and be civilized.

Second, the elevator etiquette

1. When there are many people getting on and off the elevator, they should go in and out in turn. Try to let the women and the elderly go first, and don't compete with each other.

The elevator has a small space, so don't make any noise and litter after entering the elevator.

Third, shopping etiquette.

1. When going to public places such as supermarkets or shopping malls, dress reasonably and neatly, and pajamas, vests and slippers are not allowed.

When shopping in the supermarket, you should store your bag according to the regulations.

3. When shopping, if you are not satisfied with the purchased goods, you should take the initiative to put them back in the original shelf area, and you can't put them at will. Valuable commodities, fruits and vegetables should be handled with care.

The goods in the supermarket can't be tasted and tried at will. If you have something you can taste for free, don't covet petty advantages and enjoy it endlessly.

5. consciously queue up when paying the bill. If you buy a lot of things, don't take the green channel quickly.

6. Be polite to salespeople and call them "auntie" and "uncle". Please don't use the words "hello" and "cough" to direct the sales staff around you.

7. Thank the sales staff for their warm service. Say "thank you", "please" and "you" often, and you will get more heartfelt smiles.

Please say hello to your aunt when you enter the supermarket.

If you are not satisfied with what you have taken, put it down gently.

You have to pay for things, and you don't have to taste them.

Fourth, telephone etiquette.

Select the appropriate call time. It should be after 8: 00 during the day, after 9: 00 on holidays, and before 10: 00 at night, so as not to affect the rest of the telephone receiver and family.

Find out the other party's phone number and dial correctly. If you make a mistake, you should apologize to the person who answered the phone. Don't hang up. Wait patiently for a moment after dialing and hang up after making sure no one answers.

After the call is connected, take the initiative to tell the other party who you are, and then politely say, "Hello, please ask for XX." Thank you. Say goodbye after the phone call.

Answer the phone as soon as it rings. When you pick up the phone, you should first say, "Hello, I'm XX. Go ahead. " If the phone call is for someone, you should go to the person you are looking for or tell others politely in an appropriate way: "XX, please answer the phone." If the person you are looking for is not here, you should offer to help. You can say, "Sorry, XX is not in right now. Shall I tell him to call you back? "

When using public telephones, we should make mutual understanding and accommodation, let people in a hurry call first, shorten the call time as much as possible, and take care of public telephone facilities.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) network etiquette

Network etiquette refers to various codes of conduct that should be followed when exchanging information online. In the online communication between people, due to various environmental factors, the other party may not fully understand your meaning. It is easy to fall into the dilemma of "the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional". Therefore, we must pay attention to the following aspects:

Seriously study online knowledge, don't browse unhealthy websites and online information, keep your own understanding of online learning related materials, learn to screen, communicate sincerely and friendly, and don't insult and deceive others.

Respect others. Communicate other people's opinions or requirements with parents online and ask for their opinions.

To enhance the awareness of self-protection, you must obtain the consent of your parents before you can exchange personal information with others online, such as home address, telephone number, school name, photos of yourself, etc.

Online time is regular and rhythmic, can arrange time scientifically, stay away from online games, and not indulge in virtual time and space.

Don't make or spread destructive programs, such as computer viruses.

Be polite on the Internet and communicate in a friendly way.

Bad information should be analyzed without clicking on friends.

Open the virus at will and know how to protect yourself.

You should control the timing when playing games.

Section 1 Courtesy Terms of Campus Civilization

1. When you meet a teacher at school in the morning, you should take the initiative to say hello and shout "Good morning, Mr. X" and "Good morning, teachers".

2. Pay attention when playing the national anthem on official occasions such as flag raising and assembly.

Don't talk loudly in self-study or other self-study classes in the morning, so as not to interrupt others' thoughts.

4. If you hear the bell and react, go into the classroom immediately and wait for the teacher to come to class.

When the teacher comes into the classroom to teach, the whole class will stand up at the same time according to the monitor's "stand at attention" password and keep at attention.

If you are late for class, you should wait outside the classroom and enter the classroom to take a seat after the teacher allows you.

7. Listen carefully in class. When you have any questions about what the teacher teaches, write them down first, raise your hand and ask questions after teaching, or ask the teacher after class. Don't interrupt the teacher's teaching casually.

8. When the class is over, wait for the teacher to leave the classroom first, and then finish the class in an orderly way. Don't surpass the teacher.

9. When you meet a teacher in a narrow place, let the teacher pass first.

10. Go to the teacher's office, say hello and shout "Report" before entering the office.

1 1. If you have different opinions on the exercise book corrected by the teacher, you can discuss with the teacher or take notes in the exercise book in time and ask the teacher for advice. You can't change or tear up the teacher's correction without authorization.

12. At the school meeting, students attending the meeting should applaud when the speaker steps onto the platform or ends his speech. After the executive chairman of the meeting announces the meeting, everyone can stand up and leave in an orderly manner.

13. Don't rummage through other people's schoolbags, books, periodicals and diaries without permission.

14. Boys and girls should respect each other and get along on an equal footing. Don't play jokes on girls casually.

15. When you get up in the morning and meet your elders for the first time, you should say hello to show your respect.

16. After you leave school, don't forget to tell your first teacher when you get achievements in your study or work.

17. Before you leave home, you usually say goodbye to your family, let your parents know where you are going, and say hello to your elders at home.

18. When eating at home, you'd better wait until everyone in the room has arrived. If you eat first for some reason, you should take care of the people who eat later.

The morning breeze blows gently and the sun shines brightly. Good student, polite.

Say hello to the teacher. Learn knowledge and teach.

Talk to the teacher with an open mind. Seeing that the teacher is busy, I won't bother.

Doing homework is your independence. The teacher is glad to see him.

Meet the teacher and make way. Be honest, don't lie.

More importantly, study, manners and habits.

Section 2 Common Polite Terms in Life

1. Greetings: Good morning, good morning, good evening and good night.

2. Language of thanks: Thank you, thank you, thank you very much.

3, please: please take care, thank you, please.

4. condolence: thank you for your hard work.

5. Compliments: great, awesome and beautiful.

6. The language of apology; I'm sorry, really sorry, sorry, really sorry, please forgive me.

7. Missing words: Hello, hello, hello?

8. The language of blessing; Thank you. God bless you. You are so blessed.

9, the language of understanding: only in this way, I feel the same way and have the same idea.

10, farewell: welcome, welcome to visit, welcome to come again, goodbye.

1 1. greetings: hello, good morning, good afternoon and good evening. how have you been these days?

12. Congratulations: I wish you a happy holiday, prosperous business and successful performance.

13, advisory language: What can I do for you? what can I do for you? Do you have anything else? If you don't mind, I can do ...? Please speak slowly.

14, response: Never mind, don't mention it. Please correct me if you don't take good care of it. Thank you very much. Thank you for your kindness.

15. Apologize: I'm really sorry. Please forgive me for disturbing you. It was rude. This is totally our fault. Thank you for reminding me. We will take immediate measures to satisfy you.

16, euphemistically: what a pity! Can't help you; It's very kind of you, but I still have a lot of work to do.

Greetings should be used appropriately in the morning, at noon and at night.

Go out and wish you good. Go home and comfort yourself.

Seeing the object on different occasions, parents were moved by the news.

When you are away from home for a long time, be sure to greet your family.

Attachment: Songs about etiquette

I. Society

1. Indoor public places: library etiquette and theater etiquette.

Go to the movies, arrive early, and check your seats.

Take off your hat, bend over and be quiet and not noisy.

Don't throw the melon skin and shell, pack it and take it away.

There was no traffic jam when I left, and I respected the old and loved the young.

Library, quiet and relaxed.

Take care of books, don't fold them, and don't circle them casually.

Empty seats, no occupation, clean, everyone praised.

Borrow and return books, abide by the rules, and civilization blooms.

2. Hospital: Visiting etiquette

Visit patients, choose time, and smile.

In the ward, speak softly, care sincerely.

Ask about the illness, give gifts, and always remember to comfort.

After the visit, say goodbye and wish you an early health.

3. Park: Travel etiquette and visiting etiquette.

Traveling, educated, civilized and quiet.

Good scenery, fine appreciation and orderly photos.

The tour guide speaks, listens carefully, and makes it clear when leaving the group.

When traveling, don't scribble, but cherish places of interest.

Museums, exhibition halls and visits are cultivated.

Before seeing a doctor, check carefully and keep the instrument clean and tidy.

During the visit, listen patiently and appreciate politely.

Good exhibits, no touching, elegant manners.

4. Traffic station: ride etiquette and airport etiquette.

Fly, arrive early, and the luggage is not overweight.

Wait patiently and don't move during the security check.

On the escalator, keep to the right and the left is clear.

In the waiting room, don't make noise and remember civilization.

5, road: walking etiquette, school road team etiquette.

On campus, don't run around and hold your head high.

Go upstairs and downstairs, turn right and walk lightly like a kitten.

No chatting, no fighting, and orderly queuing.

The team left school neatly, and I said goodbye to my classmates.

Don't stay on the way to school, go home safely and enjoy Tao Tao.

6. Shopping center: shopping etiquette

When choosing items, you should pay attention to the fact that the packaging is not opened casually.

Take it gently, put it gently, and it shouldn't be misplaced.

Take the wrong thing, put it back and whisper.

When you check out, line up and be a good student.

Second, schools.

1, class: class etiquette

As soon as the bell rings, hurry into the classroom.

Get your school tools ready and wait for the teacher quietly.

When the teacher entered the classroom, the password of the monitor sounded.

Stand at attention and bow to the teacher.

Sit up straight and listen attentively.

Raise your hand first, loud and generous.

2. Playground: recess etiquette and flag-raising etiquette.

Pay attention during the break.

Chase, not allowed.

Play games safely.

Civilization rest. You're great.

How gorgeous the five-star red flag is

Rise high into the blue sky

Young pioneers should stand still.

Look at the national flag with your eyes

Put your fingers together and raise your head.

Salute the national flag.

3, canteen: dining etiquette

Walk slowly, don't run.

Bring the food and put it away gently.

Don't knock on the bowl or basin.

Keep your voice down when you eat vegetables.

The combination of meat and vegetables is very nutritious.

Don't be picky about food, eat it all.

Put the tableware on the whole dining chair

Go into battle lightly and step by step.

4. Public places: toilet etiquette and duty cleaning etiquette.

Knock before going to the bathroom.

Someone's coming. Wait.

Rinse the water after using the toilet.

Get dressed and wash your hands.

Be active when you are on duty.

Clean the blackboard first, then sweep the floor.

The tables and chairs are neat and the drawers are clean.

Garbage sorting box

Love of labor is the most glorious.

Cleaner. I'm fine.

5, the office: etiquette into the office

Step lightly and don't make any noise.

Keep quiet in the office.

Knock on the door first and shout "report"

You can only enter if the teacher approves.

6. Meeting room: meeting etiquette

Go to the meeting on time, don't be late.

Line up, be orderly, walk slowly, and don't grab the road.

Listen attentively, don't joke, and use your head seriously.

Speak well, applaud, be warm and polite.

Third, family.

1. Living room: reception etiquette, hospitality etiquette, hospitality etiquette, respect for the elderly etiquette and telephone etiquette.

Kids, we all know that.

Remember the polite expressions well.

Treat your elders with "you"

Meet in the morning and say "good morning"

Usually ask each other "hello"

Don't forget to say goodbye.

If you want help, use the word "please" first.

Get help from others, "thank you"

I didn't mean to influence others, so I said "I'm sorry"

A civilized boy is praised by everyone.

When the guests come, say hello and welcome in with a smile.

Serve tea with both hands. Hot tea warms the heart.

Little guest, I will accompany you, warm and generous.

Send the guests out when they leave. Welcome to come again next time.

Be a guest, dress appropriately and behave in a civilized manner.

When you see the host, say hello and send a small gift.

Smile, relax and speak appropriately.

When saying goodbye, say goodbye and express sincere thanks.

Elders are kind, deeper than the sea, and the word "you" is on my lips.

Greetings in the morning and evening, happy elders.

Talk about study, talk about life, and often confide in each other.

If your elders are ill, you should sympathize with them. Your elders are all warm-hearted

Answer the bell as soon as it rings. Use polite language.

Strange number, be careful, the information will not be leaked.

Don't be angry when you are hit by mistake, but speak kindly.

Hang up the phone, say goodbye, and everyone is polite.

2. Kitchen: family banquet etiquette and housework etiquette

Before eating, the elders served first, and finally I sat down.

Keep your feet flat, your chest straight and sit up straight.

Chew slowly, and the food will be delicious.

Not picky eaters, not partial eclipse, nutrition will be comprehensive.

Make the bed every day, clean the room and observe frequently.

Washing clothes and brushing shoes really enjoy it.

Wash vegetables, wash dishes and take the initiative to help parents.

There are animals and plants at home, and I will always take care of them.

3. Living room: dress etiquette, sanitary etiquette

Change clothes frequently, take a bath frequently, and be clean and tidy all over.

Sneeze and cover your mouth and nose with a tissue.

After going to the toilet, flush the water and throw the waste paper into the basket.

In rainy and snowy days, clean the soles of shoes and enter the house cleanly.

Wear clothes and look at the occasion. You can't be careless.

Buttons must be buckled, chains must be pulled, and they are neat and imposing.

Wearing slippers and vests makes people sigh.

Beautiful color, not expensive, still very bright.