When the conversation is deadlocked, how to ease the deadlock scene?

In our life, sometimes, when talking, one of them will deliberately create a deadlock and deliberately give the other side a problem. Disturb the audience, even cause a quarrel, thus forcing the other party to give up their goals and get closer to their goals. Sometimes, the two sides hold their own words and have different views on a certain issue. In this way, the more we stick to our respective positions, the greater the differences between the two sides will be.

Of course, no matter what caused the deadlock, as a party to the conversation, we should ease the situation in time. Use clever strategies to ease the scene and promote the smooth progress of the conversation.

So, how can we ease the deadlock in the conversation?

1, think calmly

In the process of conversation, some people will be divorced from the objective reality, blindly adhere to their subjective position, and even forget their starting point. Stubborn opinions often lead to contradictions, and when the contradictions intensify to a certain extent, they will form a deadlock. Therefore, when dealing with the deadlock, one side of the conversation should prevent the interference caused by excessive emotions. When the deadlock occurs, we should keep a cool head, so that we can clear our heads and correctly analyze the problem, thus effectively breaking the deadlock.

2. Coordinate the interests of both parties.

When the two sides of the conversation are sharply opposed to each other on the same issue, each has its own reasons, and no one can convince the other side and accept the conditions put forward by the other side, the whole conversation is caught in a situation of competition. At this time, as a party to the conversation, we should carefully analyze the interests of both sides. Only by balancing each other's interests can we break the deadlock. The effective way is: both sides look at the problem from their own immediate and long-term interests, coordinate and balance, find a balance point acceptable to both sides, and reach a final agreement.

Step 3 go with the flow

Sometimes, the other party inadvertently makes an embarrassing action and feels embarrassed. At this time, you might as well follow his embarrassing incident and let the parties get rid of embarrassment. For example, the waiter accidentally spilled wine on the general's bald head. The general smiled and said, "Young man, my head has been bald for more than twenty years. I tried this method, but it didn't work at all, but thank you! "

4. Make a fuss about the situation skillfully

Sometimes you will encounter unexpected events, and improper handling will lead to embarrassment. You can use "situational method" at this time. For example, a university professor fell down and his classmates burst into laughter, but he said, "Life is like this. Get up after falling, and get up again after falling, so that you will be stronger and more mature. "