Is "Long live understanding" as simple as it says?

"Long live understanding" is a common saying. This is often said because mutual understanding between people is precious, and also because mutual understanding between people is quite difficult. When getting along with others, it is difficult to understand each other, whether as a close relationship between family members or friends and colleagues.

I remember when I was a child, most of the meals cooked by my parents were not delicious. Whenever I eat, I always complain that my parents are too stingy to spend money on delicious ingredients. Now that I think about it, my parents are not stingy at all, but really have no money. At that time, our three brothers were still young and needed to dress and eat. A year's income depends entirely on those few acres of thin land, and life is in a hurry. Now, how I regret complaining to my parents. I really didn't understand my parents at that time!

At school, I am a TV fan. In order to watch TV, I can sleep without eating. However, my parents strongly object to my watching TV. They always ask me to read more, study more, sleep and eat on time. At that time, while I envied other children to watch TV freely, I also deeply resented my parents' ignorance. However, when several years later, I became the only one of my playmates who was admitted to the university, I realized the intention of my strict parents. If they indulge my willfulness, I may neglect my studies like other partners.

I left home after work. In a city thousands of miles away, it is difficult to go home several times a year. Every once in a while, I will call home and ask about the situation at home. However, even so, my parents always complain that I call a little less. I explained to them, "I am very busy every day, and sometimes I really feel like I just got off the phone." Many times, after a busy day, I went to bed when I got home. "Parents said," is work really that busy? Won't you call us when you are resting? "After hearing this, I was really angry at first, complaining that they didn't understand my difficulties. However, when I calmed down, I knew that my parents said I called less, but in fact they cared too much about me. After knowing what my parents thought, I not only didn't get angry with my parents, but also accepted their advice and called them as much as possible.

My experience not only taught me how important it is to understand, but also taught me how difficult it is to understand. Family members need to understand, friends need to understand, and colleagues and customers in the workplace also need to understand. Understanding is rare, so there is a feeling of "long live understanding". However, whether in life or at work, "understanding" is so difficult. If everyone can understand each other, will there be such contradictions and frictions?

At work, you communicate with a colleague. Colleagues put forward opinions from their own point of view or directly reject your proposal. Will you think from his point of view to understand him? Or are you self-centered and accusing others of losing face? People in the workplace will often encounter such similar things. However, there are not many people who really handle it properly. Understanding between people is not only a matter of cognition, but also a matter of action. Some people can often rise to a certain height when they talk about understanding, but once they encounter specific problems, it is not so easy to understand people in action. There are many such people, and we may be such people.

Is "Long live understanding" as simple as it says? This requires each of us to work hard to put mutual understanding into action. To achieve mutual understanding, what qualities do people need and in which direction should they work? To understand each other, people should first be good at thinking from each other's perspective. One of the important reasons why people can't understand each other is that they can't think from each other's perspective. The same thing, from different angles, will have different ideas and different choices. Many times, different choices and opinions are reasonable, but both sides can only consider for themselves and don't understand the reasons for the other party's choice.

At the same time, mutual understanding should also have a strong heart. Many people find it difficult to understand others because their hearts are too fragile. If others don't agree with their own views, their blx will be hurt, and if they think they have seen it clearly, they will resent others in their hearts. In addition to the above, mutual understanding requires more communication with each other. Many people who can't understand each other just communicate with each other. Communication is an important and complicated matter, which requires both sides to stand in a friendly and inclusive position, gain knowledge and eliminate misunderstandings.