Jianghu Fengyun —— About puppy love

I am a young man who has experienced many ups and downs in life. I want to express my views on life and love here, although it takes a long time. I hope you can read it carefully. I hope you can live a happy life!

In the following article, I hope you can find your ideal answer and get rid of your current troubles!

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Why do people have to come into this world all their lives?

One word "love"

This is a sentence in "The Road to Human Growth": "The road is long and Xiu Yuan is awkward, and all of them are passers-by."

Come and go in a hurry, what did you get and what did you lose?

The most important thing is not what you got or lost, but what you met on the road!

Life is the process of finding love. Everyone has to find four people in his life.

oneself

2. The person you love most

3. The person who loves you the most

4. A person who can accompany you for a lifetime.

First you meet the person you love the most, and then you feel the feeling of love.

Because you know the feeling of love, you can find the person who loves you the most.

When you have experienced love and being loved and learned to love, you will know what you want.

Only in this way can you find the most suitable person to spend your life with.

Sadly, in real life, these three people are often not the same person.

So you think life is not perfect.

You feel happy and troubled.

Meeting different people at different times will have different results.

Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifelong happiness.

It is heartbreaking to meet the wrong person at the right time.

It is absurd to meet the wrong person at the wrong time.

Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh.

Your favorite often won't choose you;

What loves you most is often not what you love most;

And the longest is neither your favorite nor your favorite.

Just the one who showed up at the right time.

Don't be sad about anything, you will be easier said than done!

Use time to prove all this!

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In life, many people ask what love is because they are confused.

Everyone has worldly desires, and love is just one of them.

Everyone came together because of loneliness. Maybe you came together with him because you like each other and both live in loneliness.

First love is like, then there is love, then there is affection. This is the simple explanation of love.

Love and liking are different, depending on whether you like it or love it.

Love is hard to find.

When you love someone, you will give everything for him. This is love.

Love is happiness, love is pain, love is happiness, love is sadness, love is helplessness!

Light love is like, deep love is love!

What I like is love, and what I like is affection!

Love is later love!

Love is when he is around, he is the only one in his eyes; Everything has his shadow when he is away.

I like reading in the middle of the night and suddenly think of him. I imagine what he is doing now, and I feel a faint warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him. After a few minutes, the attention was attracted by the plot in the book again!

Love is on a lonely night, when thoughts pour in and you can't see the book in your hand. I wonder if he is still working overtime, whether he has already had dinner, and whether he is thinking about himself as much as he is thinking about him.

Love is arguing with him and sticking to him like a hedgehog, but in my heart I have secretly admired his insight and talent.

Love wants him to keep pace with himself and connect with his heart. A joke he accidentally said can make him depressed and even burst into tears in an instant. In front of him, he is never defenseless.

I like to send him short messages when I go out, telling him that the weather here is fine, then turning off my cell phone, playing alone in a strange place for a week, and suddenly appearing in front of him to scare him after being tanned.

Love is wanting to be with him wherever you go. You can call him at the seaside and let him listen to the sound of the waves; You can also stay where you are for a long time because you see a figure exactly like him on the street in a foreign land.

Love is that he simply said "bon voyage" before going on a business trip. Looking at the back of his departure, he felt a little reluctant, but he didn't say anything, just silently waiting for the news of his return.

Love is telling him before going on a business trip, stuffing clothes and food into his backpack and not leaving until the train arrives at the station. And in the days after he left, he was uneasy every day, praying over and over again that he could return safely.

Love is when you are hurt, you don't want him to see your fragile side, quietly wipe away your tears in front of him, and turn your head and still look happy and strong.

Love is crawling on his chest and crying when he is wronged, telling him all his troubles without hiding or worrying, eager to get comfort from his arms.

I like to eat KFC with him when he is tired of shopping on weekends. Is to grab a cup of hot coffee with him in the cold winter; Is to walk side by side with him in the street, always separated by half a meter; I played games with him in front of the computer, and they laughed like children.

Love is cooking a few good dishes for half a day at the weekend and watching him eat contentedly; It is in the cold winter that the water is continuously heated for his coffee cup; Is to walk with him in the street and let him hold his hand tightly; I sat quietly beside him and watched him concentrate on his work in front of the computer happily.

What I like is to listen to his funny stories when I was a child, and then laugh, which makes me feel inexplicably moved.

Love is listening to him tell interesting stories about his childhood, and then smiling, showing more pity for this once naughty man.

I like to meet him in the corridor, greet him happily, and then exchange a few simple greetings. When I passed by, I saw the bright sunshine outside the window, and my mood was inexplicably better.

Love is seeing him in the corridor, pretending not to care about his face, but feeling the trembling air around you carefully when passing by, so I can't help looking back.

I like to see him walking hand in hand with another girl. My heart hurts a little, but I will soon raise my smiling face again in Chaoyang.

Love is a game that you can't afford to lose without love. What you left behind may just be a scar engraved in your heart.

If you like a person, you want him to be your own, so you can like many people and hope many people are your own.

Love is obviously inseparable from him, but I want to give him up, because he wants happiness, maybe I can't give it. Dare not possess him, I hope to see him find happiness, even if that happiness is not shared with me.

I like it. When I am lonely, bored or sad, I hope I can talk to someone.

Love is that you want to share with him at any time, and even want to give him all the happiness when you are happy.

I like to hear from him when I haven't contacted him for a long time, and then listen to him with a smile.

Love is to call him in a hurry after a few days of no contact, and then hold back tears and smile.

Yes, only when we are together will we think of each other.

Love, even when we are together, misses him every second.

If you like someone, most of your friends will feel happy.

Loving one person is a world of two people, and one more person will feel uncomfortable.

It is sweet to like someone. Love a person, is bitter or sweet.

If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together.

Love a person, together, will be inexplicably lost.

If you like someone, you won't think about the future.

If you love someone, you often look forward to tomorrow together.

If you like someone, you will always be happy together.

If you love someone, you will often cry.

Like a person, when I haven't seen him for a long time, I will suddenly think of him.

Love someone, when you haven't seen him for a long time, you will think of him every day.

If you like someone, you will smile when you think of him.

Love a person, when you think of him, you will look at the sky blankly.

If you like a person, you will think that if he has children, you will like it very much.

Love someone, and one day, you suddenly think: What will our children be like in the future?

To like someone is to hope everyone is happy.

Love a person and hope he is happier.

If you like someone, all you want is today.

Love a person, what you expect is forever.

To like a person is to look at his merits.

To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings.

When you stand in front of the person you love, your heart will beat faster.

But when you stand in front of the person you like, you will only feel happy.

When you meet someone you love, you will be shy.

But when you look at the person you like, you just smile.

When you talk to someone you love, you will feel embarrassed.

But if you talk to someone you like, you can speak freely.

When the person you love cries, you will cry with her.

But when the person you like cries, you will comfort her skillfully.

When you don't want to love someone anymore, you should close your eyes and hold back your tears.

When you don't want to like someone anymore, you just have to cover your ears!

Like, is a kind of mood love, is an emotion.

Like, is an intuitive love, is a feeling.

If you like, you can stop loving, there is no end.

Like a person, especially naturally love a person, especially calm.

Like a person, sometimes I hope to be with him, love a person, and sometimes I am afraid to be with him.

Like someone and argue with him constantly.

Love a person and always pay for him.

Like a person, I hope he can find himself at any time

Love someone and hope to find him at any time.

Like a person, always smile for him, love a person and always cry for him.

Like, is persistent love, worth it.

Like is like, very simple love is love, very complicated.

I like you, but I don't necessarily love you. If I love you, I must like you very much.

In fact, like and love are only one step away.

However, this step is up to you.

I like to take this step

Still love to take this step

Love is love,

Love is followed by love.

This is love!

Whether you like it or love it, you should see clearly whether your choice is what you really want or because of loneliness.

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As long as there is affection in one's life, there will be love. Only when we like each other and love each other can we be called love.

The more people in love love, the more stupid they look. Nothing is like this. He can feel it himself. Since you are in love, you should cherish it and don't ask for anything easily. Love is not owning each other, but tolerating each other. Love his strengths and his weaknesses. People in love like to change each other's things to get the results they want, and don't deliberately change each other's things. Maybe you love him now. If you change, you may not love him. Maybe your behavior made him stop loving you.

Love is equal, love needs no reason, love is love, don't expect too much!

☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ "First Love" ☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ QQ: 543845623

Where there is love, there is first love, a process that managers are born to go through.

Someone once asked me, what is the possibility of first love lasting forever?

People who first love each other will give their most sincere hearts to each other, because they are inexperienced in first love. Generally speaking, there is little chance of success, but don't lose heart. Everything depends on your own efforts. I hope people who first love don't think too much, feel the happiness now, and take the opportunity and destiny in their own hands!

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Love is bound to be lovelorn, and lovelorn people often recall their past sadly on Baidu. But it's all over, there's no need to think too much.

No one wants to change his mind on purpose. He really loves you when he loves you.

But when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you

If he loves you, he can't pretend not to love you.

But when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend to love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave.

You should also ask yourself if you still love him.

If you don't love him, don't be reluctant to leave because of your poor self-esteem.

If you still love him, you should wish him happiness.

I hope he is with the person he really loves, and don't stop him.

If you stop him from realizing his happiness, you don't love him.

If you don't love him, who are you to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession.

You like the moon, but you can't take it down and put it in the washbasin.

But the moonlight can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can have it in another way.

Let the person you love become a beautiful memory in your life!

☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ "Fate" ☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ QQ: 543845623

Many people have asked me what fate is.

Fate means: Fate is determined by nature and depends on people.

Fate is hard to find.

Meeting in the vast sea of people is fate.

But that doesn't mean you're involved.

God has given you a chance to meet, so take advantage of it and strive for your love.

Success proves that you have points.

People may often hear such a sentence: "I am destined to be inseparable from you, and some things cannot be forced." Let's be friends! "

Maybe this is the meaning of fate!

☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ "Chasing Love" ☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ QQ: 543845623

No matter how you fall in love, one party is an active suitor.

It is often said that men chase women over mountains. Women chasing men sandwich yarn

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Men chasing women:

From a psychological point of view, I know a lot about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't have a tug-of-war with her. Maybe the person you like is also suffering.

Any girl's psychology is very complicated when she is chased. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you. She's actually fighting herself. She is afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. Kind girls are easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. When you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart. Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and it will be sad to see your indifferent eyes again, but she won't tell you and won't let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are persistent and will bring them a bad reputation. However, I think that boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be kind to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they will not regret it. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the sweetness that the initial efforts have brought? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like, and girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets.

1. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Don't be too formal, but don't be too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 3 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact mm (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: if you rush directly to have sex, the girl must be under psychological pressure. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you".

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then there is less chance for a girl to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).

Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't show the ambition of "you don't want to marry". It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.

Third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "

So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin.

Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, add two points:

Never show cynicism in front of MM. Cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser".

It's easier for women to chase men;

When he doesn't love you, whether he loves you in the past and forgets it, or he never loved you. When you can't be the person in his heart, his heart won't remember you. Although he knows that you love him deeply, he prefers to pretend not to know.

When he doesn't love you, please don't bother him when you are unhappy or upset. His place is definitely not where you should be at the moment. Maybe he will comfort you slightly when he receives your call, but that's all. Maybe you want more, say, "Let's meet." He must be very sad. When he doesn't love you, your love and your people will be much cheaper. It is human nature that you have disadvantages. He would say, "OK, but I have something to do now." You can call me later. Or I can call you. "And don't take it seriously at this moment, he just found a less clever reason to prevaricate you. Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself.

When he doesn't love you, please don't tell him your trifles. Maybe at this moment, you just want to get to know each other better. However, he has no time or interest to know about you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses. What does this have to do with him? Even if I know. He will soon forget, just as he forgot your birthday, your address and your phone number. Without love, you are doomed not to squeeze into his life. Even if, even if you only want a small corner.

When he doesn't love you, please don't cry in front of him, and don't tell him when you are sick. He can't give you care and concern. Sympathy at most, please be proud of you, and don't give up your pride. Although too many people have lost too much in front of love. I don't even have the courage to stand up. How can you be proud? Just remember that only those who love themselves can truly cherish you. Not the sympathy of onlookers. Unfortunately.

When he doesn't love you, your love is his burden. Please don't calculate your own efforts, and don't expect any return. To love someone who doesn't love himself is unrequited love. Never mind right or wrong. Will be happier. Remember, the love between you and him is one-sided. You have a heart, but he doesn't. So don't blame him. Because maybe he wants to do better and don't be so cold to you. Just, love a person, be good to a person. This is an instinct. Sorry, he doesn't have this instinct.

Please don't lose heart when he doesn't love you. Because loving someone is not his Excellence, it is just a feeling. He makes you feel this way, so you love him. Similarly, he doesn't love you, which doesn't mean that you are not good. Excellence is no reason to fall in love. See how many people still love themselves. A faint smile is also very sweet.

You must bless him when he doesn't love you. With love, there should be no hate. Love is beautiful. Hate is ugly. Why make the best things in life ugly? And don't feel unfair. About leaving. He lost someone who loved him, and you lost someone who didn't love you, but you got a chance to be reborn and love again.

Please don't think about "forever". Love won't last forever. You love him deeply at the moment, but you are destined to stop loving him one day far away. He arrived a day before you. When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in memory and gently stare at the faded tenderness.

When he no longer loves you, dear, please take a deep breath. The road of life is covered with buds of love, and there is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. Instead, it has been doomed from generation to generation.

Girls chasing boys may be easy to chase!

As long as you are careful, you will generally succeed!

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Since being chased, there must be a confession. There are many ways to confess, and it is easy for people. The premise of confession is that two people have a good impression on each other. Only by loving each other can we succeed. If he doesn't like you, even if he agrees, it is not a good thing. Make your own decisions.

Generally speaking, confession has three results;

1. He (she) promised you without saying anything, and you are very happy.

2. He (she) didn't agree or object, but he didn't agree with you either, probably because of some reasons, such as: she was in love before, was hurt, was afraid of being hurt again, and her parents didn't agree. ...

But it doesn't matter. You should give her time to accept you and believe that she is right.

He (she) rejected you, and you are in pain. You must think twice before you act.

In fact, the smartest people are all ML before they confess.

But it depends. If there is a third party, you should pay attention. Speak up when you should. How else would he know if you were sincere?

☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ "Oath" ☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ QQ: 543845623

People in love like to say vows of eternal love or swear to each other. Why should we swear? We don't trust each other, and we don't trust our lover's heart.

And these vows of eternal love are not very practical.

Nothing can change my love for you.

Clearly know that the sea will not dry up, the stone will not rot, the sky will not be barren, and the land will not grow old.

Even if I knew, I wouldn't go there alive.

Even if it is really necessary.

Be careful when making promises.

Don't make promises that can be fulfilled.

It's better to promise what you can't do. Anyway, it doesn't matter if you just say it.

Please remember: "Impossible promises are the most touching."

☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ "Men are not bad and women don't love articles" ☆ Green Dance Flying ☆ QQ: 543845623

Men are not bad, women don't love them.

I don't know if you have noticed, but there is a phenomenon in life. Walking in the street, I often see some very humble young men and an elegant and charming lady strolling around the store arm in arm, which makes people envious. Once in a ballroom, a recognized "bad" boy always invited the most beautiful lady to dance. There are also some seemingly elegant people who say that it is sour not to eat grapes, and sarcastically say, "It's a pity that flowers are inserted into cow dung." When I was in college, I read Chinese and foreign ancient and modern love novels, and I also found that Anna prefers people like playboy W Lenski to serious karenin. You Erjie loves Jia Lian, and Du Shiniang is infatuated with angel lee. Finally, she found that she had been cheated and was very angry. For this reason, I am really puzzled. How did the effect of "bad" boys being favored by many women come about? I meditated, I read, I observed, I experienced, and finally I had an epiphany. ...

Bad boys are born with a sense of humor. Take dancing for example. I witnessed a well-dressed and elegant man walk up to a lady and say, "Miss, please dance." The girl waved her hand and said, "I'm tired and want to have a rest." Another yuppie "bad" boy came forward to invite, but the girl still waved her hand and refused, only to hear him say, "What, do you want me to carry you up?" The girl was afraid that he would really do that. She felt ashamed in public and gave in. Another time, I saw several serious guys invite a young lady, but they were all rejected: "Sorry, I can't dance." A "bad" boy stood up and said, "I dare to risk being rejected again and invite you to give me some face." The girl said, "I really can't." "Are you? But you