Tell me how I feel about living with the elderly.

It's been almost two years since I took my mother-in-law to live with me when I was six months pregnant.

At first, it was really uncomfortable. She doesn't adapt, and neither do I. Mother-in-law is the kind of person who belongs to blx. She will cry when she touches it slightly. Once the blueberry bought at home was broken, and my husband threw it away. As a result, he began to cry and said that she would not eat it. Another time I cried because I thought the grapes I bought were too expensive. She likes grapes, and finally she ate them. Various blx. Always crying.

When I was pregnant, I probably didn't react so much. I just walked normally and didn't throw up. Then, once, the shoe rope was untied, and I didn't ask my husband for help, for fear that she would feel uncomfortable when she saw it. My husband is an only child, and he has hardly done anything since he was a child, so it is hard for her mother-in-law to see her husband well. I told her several times in front of her that her son is doing nothing at home, and see how well he takes care of me now. I said too much. Once I couldn't help it, and you saw him treat me. I steamed steamed steamed bread for him with a big belly. Why didn't you see it when I was cooking? I lost it once and never said it again.

At this time, my mother-in-law may not know my temper, and she has not fully played her blx. When she was born soon and returned to her husband's hometown, she completely let go of herself. Because my husband had to go to work, he went to work after sending us to our hometown. Husband's home is a small city on the 4th and 5th lines. This is the first time in three years since I got married that I stayed in their hometown alone for so long.

Then, before the baby was born, it was fine. After all, I don't know each other well, and I don't have much contact. Plus I don't know the language, so I can understand some simple things. Usually nothing. I'm in our cabin. It was not until the baby was born that she completely liberated herself.

On the first night after giving birth to the baby, my husband and I were novices, so we fed the baby a spoonful of milk powder. As a result, the nurse came in and saw it, telling us that the baby's first bite was breast milk, and then said that even milk powder should be given in a certain proportion. Pour the freshly brewed milk powder and teach us. We poured the freshly cooked milk powder. Then the mother-in-law scolded the nurse first, which made the nurse angry. After that, I began to reason with her. Even if you don't agree, you won't swear or talk about other people's business. When she leaves, you can do whatever you want. Then he ignored me and told his son to turn off the lights and sleep. The attitude is really outrageous. At this time, there are only a few hours before I give birth to the baby. Because I married far away, my mother-in-law didn't come, because before I was born, my mother-in-law spoke very well, and I didn't contact at that time. I don't think it's necessary for my mother to come. After all, my mother is old and doesn't want her to toss.

At this time, my husband stopped talking and just stared at his mother, which became a heart disease for my whole life. No one thought that you just gave birth to a child and needed to take care of it, just like now that the child has been born anyway, you are not afraid to be angry and love it. Then I shed tears silently, and my husband wiped his tears beside me. Is it useless? Now think about it and regret not doing it.

Three days later, leaving the hospital and returning to your home is the beginning of refinement. I heard that I called her best friend in the living room and spat on me. Once I asked my husband to feed me at dinner, and then I said she didn't feed me at that time. I happened to hear it in the toilet. When I came out, I threw up on my husband. My husband didn't say anything at the time.

My husband installed a camera at home to see me and my children conveniently, and then my mother-in-law began to tell me that her son still didn't trust her and got a camera to monitor her, fearing that she would abuse her grandson. All kinds of nonsense. I didn't know what I was thinking at that time. I just comforted her and explained to her. Then she didn't want to hear it. I just want to say how hard she worked. Once my husband sent me a WeChat, but I didn't see it. After a while, my husband sent another message saying, what's the matter? At this time, my mother-in-law just came in and took my mobile phone out of her pocket and put it on the table. She just looked at my phone and saw the message. And then it started. Her specialty, crying. Make trouble. The next morning, he ran into my room, holding the baby, sitting in front of me crying. I ignored her, too. She kept crying, and when she finished crying, she began to say that her son had a child and didn't care about her. She tried to raise her. Since she married me, her son has dared to talk back to her. Actually, his son doesn't want her to pick her nose, that's all. In short, all kinds of things to be done can't be done.

However, at this time, I still didn't want to do it, just silently endured it myself. Always embarrassed to turn against each other. For the whole month, it seemed that I was sitting with her and crying. Cry every day. I cried more than anyone this month.

Finally, I waited for the Spring Festival, and my husband came back, which was better. After the New Year, we returned to the city where we used to work. However, for her mother-in-law, this is an endless job.

After coming, I can't live without her son every day, and always do some intimate actions in front of me. Once I was lying on my husband's shoulder and she saw me. The next day, people were like this. My husband naturally resisted, but he didn't say anything because he was going to cry again. Once I sat in the living room and put my leg directly on my son's leg. I felt a little redundant at the time. Our family never knocks. We just pushed the door in. After that, we went to her son's side, patted his ass, talked to me and lifted his pants. Now that I think about it, I feel really timid. Never lose his temper.

I am still doing all kinds of work, and my mood has been suppressed to death. Eva will go back to work in two months. I have to look after the baby when I come back at night, so I can't rest well. The whole person is really going to collapse. But my husband didn't notice it either, or he did. But he dare not do anything to his mother. After all, it has been suppressed for more than 20 years.

The turning point of things appeared. Once, I took my baby back to the house after dinner and heard her tell her son that mom worked so hard to make you happy, so you can do whatever you want. Yes, my mother-in-law is talking to her son now, and it's mother's. I really feel sick. My husband and I had a bad temper and were not angry those two days. Hearing this, I put the baby on the bed and went out. My husband didn't pull me either. I went down by myself. I had nowhere to go at noon, so I found a place to cry for a while. Then my mother's phone suddenly called and asked me where I was, saying that my husband could not reach me when he called her. Then my mother told me, don't run away after quarreling, just stay in the house. Then let my husband come to me. Went back.

The next day, at work, I ignored my husband. I didn't accept his phone calls and gifts. When I came back in the evening, I was in our room. He came in and began to apologize. I ignored him. Then he suddenly knelt down and there we were. Then at this time, my mother-in-law suddenly broke in and was aggressive. My husband told her to leave her alone and let her out. She refused to go out. She took out her specialty again and told her husband, do you want your mother to die? Since I can't live any longer, I will divorce tomorrow. When I heard that, the emotion I had endured for so long finally broke out. I will tell my husband directly and deliver it to her tomorrow. I don't need her. It's not very nice anyway. I have put up with it for too long. My husband said you should have done this a long time ago. Damn, I don't know what I want him to do.

Then the next day my mother-in-law cried and said she would go back. I told you your son would take you back. Turns out she didn't say she was going back. After that, I didn't talk to her for a week when I came back from work. She started again. Said I ignored her and didn't talk to her. Cry, cry to my husband, just my father-in-law. My father-in-law is still in his hometown, so he didn't come because he didn't reach retirement age. Then my father-in-law called my husband and said my husband. It's fucking hard. But I still ignored her. So I didn't make trouble once a week, I didn't make trouble once a week, and I began to cry on weekends. Finally, my husband was so tired that he sent her back.

I was going to send her things back the next day, but my mother wouldn't let me go too far. I didn't send it. After sending it back, my husband came and cried a lot, saying that people didn't want him. Ha ha.

After resting at home for two weeks, she came again. There are also many ways to negotiate. Look, I just won't let go. My husband gives me all kinds of guarantees, and then my mother does the work for me. Finally agreed to let it come.

After coming here this time, I am much more honest than before. But I still had a few quarrels, and I went to comfort my mother-in-law. After all, it is not easy for her to take care of the children alone. I pass by the snack bar every day when I come back from work, so I buy her some bread or something she likes. Bought her a snow show. She is basically less dependent on her son now.

In a word, everything is developing in a good direction. I hope it will get better and better.

Living together is inconvenient and unsatisfactory. But we should be considerate and tolerant of each other. It's not easy.

If possible, it's best to live separately, hahaha!