Talk about pleasing yourself more than pleasing others.

"We were so looking forward to being recognized by the outside world that we finally found out that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others."

Pleasing yourself is better than pleasing others.

The real high EQ is not compromise, but living comfortably.

I remember before, when traveling with friends, I always wanted to take care of everyone's emotions.

For example, if I don't like food, I will smile and say it's delicious. Riding together, I give up the best position; When we go out together, I will take a bunch of paper towels, mineral water and medicines for emergencies.

I am very sensible and become a "good person" in everyone's mouth, but I am very tired every time I travel.

Writer Jia Pingwa said:

Vulgar is too tired, be casual, comfortable and presumptuous.

You don't have to live in RMB, just be yourself.

You don't have to bear all the responsibilities, just have a clear conscience.

Speak if you want, be silent if you want, and never try your best to please others.

People who like you don't need you to cater to them;

People who hate you are not worth talking to.

Whether you are lonely or arrogant, don't lose yourself in this life.