Why don't girls generally praise people who have a secret crush?

I am afraid that my mind will be exposed, which also shows that such girls generally do not take the initiative.

I've done something similar before. I remember having a crush on a boy in junior high school. When I finally graduated, I added many people's qq, but didn't add his. I just secretly went to see his circle of friends, his Renren network, and paid attention to his dynamics, but rarely left a trace. In the past, qq had the function of eliminating browsing traces. When I saw his space, I would eliminate traces. I still like doing this kind of thing. If you want to talk about the psychology at that time, it may be that I feel inferior and think that he is too good and must look down on me. If someone finds out my little thoughts, I may even be laughed at, so I always do these things that I find funny now.

I think those girls who don't praise the secret admirer may have similar thoughts. Secret love is something I don't want to talk about. People who have a secret crush have the same inferiority complex as me. We feel that we are not good enough, have no self-confidence, are afraid of failure, are afraid of being rejected, are afraid of being seen through by others, worry too much, and are afraid too much, so we always shrink back and treat our favorite personality? Indifference? . This kind of breaking glass is actually a means of self-protection. At that time, few people knew that I liked that man, and everyone even thought I hated him. I think maybe he feels the same way. I guard my poor pride, happy and sad.

In fact, anyway, unrequited love is a wonderful thing for me, and I think it is also true for many people. A girl who has a secret crush on someone may just not give praise to the person who has a secret crush. Boys who secretly love someone may scare girls with bugs. I think this means that you will feel very warm and funny when you think about it in the future, and it is actually quite beautiful to secretly love someone for a lifetime.