The Road of Chinese Studies in Life

Lead: Learning Chinese studies can not only improve Chinese literacy, but also learn how to treat people. Let's take a look at the way of Chinese studies in life.

Daughter, who went to junior high school, was called No.23 by her classmates. There are 50 people in her class, and her daughter ranks 23rd in every exam. Over time, with this nickname, she became a veritable ordinary student. We thought the nickname was harsh, but our daughter accepted it gladly. My husband said worriedly that when it comes to company activities or old classmates' parties, others are full of praise for his little superman, but he can only play deeply.

Other people's children not only have outstanding achievements, but also have many specialties. There is only girl No.23 in our family, and there is nothing to show off. Therefore, as soon as he saw the talented children in the entertainment program, his eyes sparkled with envy.

Later, I saw a report that a nine-year-old child was going to college. He was very hurt and asked his daughter, "Son, why aren't you a child prodigy?" 』

The daughter said, "Because my father is not a priest! My husband was speechless, and I couldn't help laughing. On the Mid-Autumn Festival, relatives and friends got together and filled a spacious box. Everyone's topic gradually turned to the younger children of each family. Let the children talk about what they want to do in the future when they are in a good mood.

Pianists, stars, politicians and children are not afraid of stage fright. Even a four-and-a-half-year-old girl will say that she wants to be a TV host in the future and win a burst of admiration!

15-year-old daughter is busy picking crabs and shrimps for her little brother and sister, serving soup and wiping her mouth. It suddenly occurred to everyone that only she didn't say anything. Under the urging of everyone, she seriously replied: "When I grow up, my first wish is to be a kindergarten teacher, leading the children to sing and dance and make a tour." Everyone politely agreed, and then asked her the second choice. She said generously, "I want to be a mother, wear a tinkling cat apron, cook dinner in the kitchen, tell stories to my children and lead him to watch the stars on the balcony." 』

Friends and relatives were startled and looked at each other, not knowing what to say. The husband's expression was extremely embarrassing. When he got home, he sighed and said, "Do you really plan to let your daughter be a kindergarten teacher in the future? Are we really looking at her middle-class students? 』

In fact, we have also used a lot of brains. In order to improve her academic performance, she hired a tutor, enrolled in a remedial class and bought various materials.

Children are also quite sensible, don't read comic books, quit paper-cutting classes, and give up sleeping in on weekends.

Like a tired bird, she hurried from class to class, making stacks of papers and workbooks.

But after all, he is a child, and his body can't bear it first, and he has a bad cold. Hanging a little, in the hospital bed, she insisted on doing her homework, which eventually led to pneumonia.

After the illness, the child's face became smaller. But the final exam results are still 23 people who make us laugh and cry.

Later we also tried to increase nutrition, material incentives, and so on. After repeated tossing, our daughter's little face is getting paler and paler.

And as soon as she said that she would take the exam, she began to suffer from anorexia, insomnia and sweating. Then, she got 33 people who stunned us.

My husband and I quietly gave up the vigorous activity of encouraging seedlings.

Restored her normal schedule, gave her the right to draw cartoons, and allowed her to continue to subscribe to books and newspapers such as Children's Humor and settle down at home for a long time.

We love our daughter dearly, but we are puzzled by her achievements.

On weekends, a group of colleagues went for an outing together. Everyone cooked their own best dishes and took their husbands and children to have a picnic. Laughing and laughing all the way, this child sings and that child performs sketches. My daughter has no housekeeping skills, but she has been clapping happily. From time to time, she ran to the back to look after the food.

Put the tilted lunch box back in place, tighten the loose bottle cap and wipe off the spilled vegetable juice. Busy as a careful little housekeeper. There was an accident at the picnic. Two little boys, a math genius and an English expert, are holding a glutinous rice cake on the plate at the same time, and neither of them will let go, let alone share it equally. Abundant food was constantly on display, and they didn't even look at it. The adults laughed and sighed, even persuaded and coaxed, all useless.

Finally, it was my daughter who easily broke the deadlock by flipping a coin. On the way back, there was a traffic jam and some children became anxious.

One after another, my daughter's jokes amused the whole car. Her hands were not idle, and she cut out many small animals from colorful cartons full of food, which attracted the admiration of this group of children. Everyone got their own paper-cut of the zodiac until they got off the bus. Hearing the children's thanks again and again, the husband couldn't help showing a proud smile.

After the mid-term exam, I received a phone call from my daughter's class teacher. First of all, I learned that my daughter's grades are still average. But, he said, "There is a strange thing to tell me. He has been teaching for 30 years, which is the first time he has encountered such a thing. There is an additional question on the Chinese test paper: which classmate in your class do you admire most? Please give reasons. Except my daughter, the whole class actually wrote her name. There are many reasons: being helpful, keeping promises, not getting angry, being easy to get along with, etc. And most of them are optimistic and humorous. The class teacher also said, "Many students suggested that she be the monitor. He sighed: "Although your daughter's grades are average, she is really excellent as a person! I jokingly said to my daughter, "You are going to be a hero. My daughter, who is knitting a scarf, cocked her head and said to me seriously, "The teacher once said a proverb: When a hero passes by, someone always sits on the side of the road and applauds. She said softly, "Mom, I don't want to be a hero. I want to be the one who sits on the roadside and applauds. " I was suddenly shocked and looked at her silently. She quietly knitted wool and light pink thread, wrapped around bamboo needles, as if an inch of time, spitting out small buds in her hands.

My heart suddenly warms up. At that moment, I was suddenly moved by this girl who didn't want to be a hero. In this world, how many people aspire to be heroes when they are young, but eventually they become ordinary people in the world of fireworks. If we are healthy, if we are happy, if we don't go against our wishes, why don't we be a kind ordinary person?

When she grows up, she will be a virtuous wife, a gentle mother, even an enthusiastic colleague and a kind neighbor. Besides, she is 23 out of 50 students in her class. Are we unhappy or dissatisfied? I want to be superior and get ahead! There are more than 27 children in the back? If I were their parents, what would I do with myself?

In those long years, she can live the life she wants in peace; She didn't learn badly. As a parent who sets an example, I can bring up my children and become a useful person to society, so I can comfort my ancestors and pray for a better future for my children.