Why do many people don't like visiting relatives now?

There is a saying "visiting relatives" in the countryside. I don't know if you remember. It's called: "A watch travels a thousand miles". This sentence means that relatives are still relatively close in this generation. Once the word "look" is used, relatives will be far away. If you don't move around, you will be no different from ordinary people. Then why is this happening?

Nowadays, most rural people go out to work and go home on the twentieth day of the first month and the twentieth day of the twelfth month. Everyone is very busy, and I really don't even have time to visit my relatives.

In the past, there were two festivals besides New Year greetings, the Dragon Boat Festival and the Mid-Autumn Festival. At present, few people walk around these two festivals except lying in the first month.

As we rural people say, it's faster to pay a New Year call than to go up the mountain to cut firewood. Walk around and say a few words, put down the gift and leave. Even relatives can't make tea. Some have been waving their hands, not soaking, not soaking, so-and-so relatives just drank, and I have to catch up with so-and-so to pay a New Year call. Let's talk about it Is this like visiting relatives? I think it's best not to rush to the meeting.

In the eyes of young people, only the mother-in-law is a relative, and other relatives are not relatives. There is a saying that "a watch travels thousands of miles". When it comes to the watch generation, few people walk around. Only nephews who have no daughter-in-law and no place to pay New Year greetings will go to their mother-in-law's house. A wife will only go to her mother-in-law's house and may not recognize her.

The gap between the rich and the poor in rural areas is too big now. Don't say that others look down on you. If they are poor, even their relatives and sisters look down on them, and some even look down on their parents sometimes. The relationship between you and me was formed. Rich relatives are afraid that poor relatives will borrow money from him. If they don't borrow it, they can't talk. If they borrow it, they are afraid they can't afford it.

What about poor relatives? You have yours, I can't let go, I won't curry favor with you, and I won't come to the door no matter how poor I am. In this way, the relationship between relatives is cold and no one wants to move around. Some relatives still have older people to go to, some don't go at all, some don't even build houses, don't marry daughters, and so on, and the blood relationship between relatives is broken.