As a son, how should you comfort a cancer patient?

The first is to communicate as much as possible, because I am away at university and can only communicate on the phone, and it should be more effective in person. My mother is a very strong and strong-willed person. She was unable to work after she fell ill and felt very depressed. I was particularly worried about this. I wanted to give her affirmation and let her feel her own value instead of just dwelling on the current predicament. Therefore, it is better to look for the patient’s troubling points and prescribe the right medicine.

The second is to spend more time with her. I believe that there is a silent love between most Chinese children and their parents. They used to run around during holidays, but now they seize every moment to get home. In fact, what is the point of two people being together? I didn't do anything. She was watching TV and I was lying next to her reading a book. She was playing cards online and I was lying next to me playing with my mobile phone. She still disliked me for being lazy and lying around like before she got sick, but I would never leave her room. This year's summer vacation, the two of them stayed together in silence. When a person faces cancer, no one can give her substantial help, and no one can understand the pain she feels every second, even if she tells you that it is very uncomfortable. But what we can give is spiritual comfort and use material companionship to offset her mental uneasiness and vulnerability. This, I think, is more important than anything else. The last thing is to use a positive attitude to infect patients. I am very grateful that my family are all optimistic and cheerful people. They were not knocked down before such a sudden disaster. Everyone is trying their best to solve and improve. situation. My mother is a person who never admits defeat. In this environment, she never thought of giving up for a day, and pessimistic thoughts were nipped in before they could even sprout. It suddenly occurred to me that at the beginning of the year, a friend's mother passed away from cancer. One day, this friend suddenly cried bitterly while talking to her father on the phone in the dormitory, saying that she and her father were not good to her mother at all, and that her mother did not feel any warmth during her lifetime. I was not happy when I left.