What does the old people in rural areas often say, "menstruation doesn't want it, but it won't be sent"?

In fact, this proverb is easy to understand. Aunt and menstruation are both married people. Although the man's aunt said that the relationship was very cordial, she was married after all and could not greet the bride on behalf of her family. So when the groom greets the bride, he can't let menstruation pick him up, because menstruation represents someone else's family, so he must have his own relatives to pick him up. The second aunt is also a very important person to the woman, but she is also married. Since marriage represents someone else's family, it means that they can't send it at home, and they need to be sent by relatives. In fact, this sentence is mainly passed down from ancient times to the present, and there is still some truth.

I think this proverb mainly means that the married daughter, that is, the spilled water, already belongs to someone else's house. For the bride, it should also be remembered that since she has married someone else, the interests of the man's family should be placed in the position of 1, and I will focus all my attention on her family. This proverb has been passed down since ancient times, but it is actually more unfair to the woman, even though she is married. However, my family and I are still very close, and we can't deprive her of some rights just because she is married. In ancient times, I would put men's interests in the position of 1 because I preferred boys to girls.

When getting married, there will be many customs to pay attention to. As the proverb goes, it is very important for aunt not to pick it up or send it. Both men and women need to consider the problem of picking up and dropping off candidates, and they are afraid that poor selection will lead to problems in marriage. In addition to this problem, there are many things that need to be avoided in marriage, which have been passed down from ancient times to the present.

This proverb should be familiar to people everywhere, because they will avoid this question when they get married. It may be that customs passed down from ancient times are not easy to change.