What should I do if I meet a rude husband?

Think of it this way. Do you really love him? If you love him, you should love all of him. Whether it is logical or not does not need to be considered, because love has no reason. When you meet people around him and his relatives, you can't take it out on him unless he doesn't cherish you and let these people despise you. If so, then you should ask him if he really loves you. Loving you will care about your feelings, at least the feelings you need to be respected. Tell him your troubles, let him help you, and let his family know that you need respect and recognition. At the same time, don't be confused about your mentality. No matter what the outside world is like, you should be cultivated. An eye for an eye is hard to have a good result, especially when family members get along. Don't worry, maybe it's just different customs between you. Are your parents-in-law good to you in other ways? Understanding and respect cannot be comprehensive, but don't think that a place doesn't respect you just because it doesn't understand you.