Is there anyone around you who can hold a grudge for a small matter for a hundred years? What do you think of such people?

People who hold grudges are narrow-minded, not open-minded and sometimes even haggle over every ounce. However, a person who loves to hold grudges will be grateful for a lifetime if he meets someone who has been kind to him, so people who hold grudges cannot be said to be all bad people. Terrible, I don't think so. It will be very annoying, unwilling to have in-depth exchanges, and few intimate friends. People who hold grudges are not only terrible, but more importantly, they are pitiful. Never know what happiness is. My heart has always been full of hatred and negative energy, and I feel that the whole world owes him. It's tiring to associate with such people. Such people are often selfish and have strong self-esteem. This has been the case for decades. If you can't get rid of depression, you will get sick easily. In terms of holding grudges, everyone is Huang Rong's unforgettable sister. On weekdays, grievances sleep in my heart, and once there is an opportunity, all dissatisfaction will be entangled with others. If I can't push you, how can I say "stop"? Many people want to make friends, don't they?

But, yes, you have your friends and he has your enemies. There will always be more enemies than friends. Throughout the ages, heroes have to repay their kindness and take revenge. Heroes who don't know how to repay kindness are tasteless, and heroes who don't know how to take revenge are not afraid. A hero without respect is not a real hero. Heroes who are not afraid are fake heroes. Therefore, heroes through the ages always have their enmity and kindness.

"Time can forget everything" is a common saying. When we are hurt, there are always people who comfort us like this; When people around us are hurt, we

But can time really forget everything? Maybe sometimes the injury is just temporarily buried in the bottom of my heart by time, becoming a seed and taking root silently. When we feel that we have forgotten, maybe the injury continues; When we feel we can forgive, scars still hurt. Can you forget the injury?

If you have met some middle-aged people with ups and downs in their lives, you will find that many so-called deep hatred can't be reported at all. They have become a lesson in your life, either to broaden your mind or to kill your spirit.

Forgetting hatred does not mean cowardice or nobility. In most cases, people just learn to accept it reluctantly, minimize the influence of emotions on life, and strive to live happily in the future. After all, only living better than before is the best way to release hatred. So, why learn to hold grudges?

To tell the truth, most of us don't have enemies, just like most of us don't have friends-our friends are just people we often contact, and if you really encounter difficulties, no one will help you; The enemies we think are just people who don't follow our thoughts, and they don't do us much harm.

True enemies and true friends are not easy to get. Having enemies is not necessarily a bad thing. The enemy of McDonald's is KFC. Where McDonald's opens, KFC opens opposite. Their business is very good. Because you are always worried about being destroyed by the enemy, you try to be the best and strongest yourself. An enemy urges you to forge ahead and force you to be the best you can be. This hatred is what you should remember.