I pissed off my husband’s sister

That sister is still ignoring me. She may have deleted me.

My husband has two brothers and no sisters. The sister I am talking about is actually their cousin, a girl from my uncle’s family, who is about seven or eight years younger than my husband. Because their two families were close together and there was a shortage of sisters in the family, they took special care of this cousin, treating her like a biological sister, or even better than a biological sister.

This cousin got married early and has two children. Her eldest son is one year older than my girl.

My husband and the two brothers usually contact this cousin whenever they have something to do. If someone needs anything, they will give it to them. If someone has a big problem, they will tell them and they can always solve it. . This sister is so lucky to have two super big brothers.

No more introduction, let’s just talk about the key points. Let’s talk about how I managed to annoy this popular cousin.

At the end of 2018, my sister told her brothers (my husband and brothers) that they would buy a car the year before. Everyone is happy for her. Most families in her hometown in the countryside now have cars, especially young people. It is not too convenient to drive.

We also always discuss how my sister’s husband can really make money. He went out to work as a contractor at a young age. He is so courageous.

A few days later, I heard that they were going to pick up the car. Everyone was excited for her for a while, and by the way, they were jealous. They are so awesome. They paid the full price for a car worth more than 100,000 yuan. Unlike We still need a loan for a van worth tens of thousands of yuan.

That weekend, we were all at my brother-in-law’s house. When it was time to eat at noon, my sister suddenly made a video call and said: Brother, please transfer 30,000 yuan to me. We went to the city to pick up the car today, and we were still short of 30,000 yuan.

My husband said: Then you can go another day.

My sister said: No, brother, we have already arrived at the county seat. Go pick up the car today, otherwise you have to make another trip another day, what a hassle!

Husband: I’m at my eldest brother’s house now. I’ll go back and transfer it to you in the afternoon.

Sister: No, brother, we have finished eating and are going to take the car to the city.

Husband: Then I came out without any money. I'll go back and transfer it to you after dinner.

Sister: No, brother, we are already in the car. Set off immediately.

Husband: Okay, I’ll eat some food first, and then go home and feed it to you.

Sister: No, brother, you go now. We will be in the city soon... We will use it for three days and return it to you in three days.

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My husband took a few bites of rice and drove back. Our home is half an hour's drive from my brother-in-law's home. My husband thought it was too troublesome to take a pregnant woman and a child with him, so in order to save time, he didn't take my daughter and me with him, saying he would pick us up later.

How could we have so much money? We all collected it with credit cards, and the handling fee was more than 200 yuan. After transferring 30,000 yuan to her, her husband drove back. (Husband said that on the way back, my sister made countless phone calls to urge him, Brother, please hurry up, we are almost in the city, Brother, please hurry up, we will get off at the station, Brother, please hurry up, we will get to the 4S store... …)

My father-in-law and mother-in-law also complained about him (probably they told me): If you don’t have it in your hands, just give it to her. You’ll be in a hurry and you won’t be able to eat well. If you have some troubles, just help if you can. In a situation like this, you don’t need help. She can just make another trip next time. Who asked her to pick up the car without bringing enough money...

The husband said: My uncle is so good to us, we still have to give him this face. Besides, she said she would only use it for three days, and these two days happened to be weekends, so we couldn’t use it, so she would be back next week.

The problem lies in these "three days"!

I transferred it to her on Saturday. Monday was the third day, but she didn’t transfer it. I asked my husband to ask my sister. He said don't worry, I told you, I won't deny it to you. But by the time I went to bed at night, I still hadn't received it. We thought that my sister had remembered the wrong time and we would definitely be able to change it tomorrow, Tuesday.

But by noon, there was still no news. Our plan had been broken. The stock market was going well at that time, and the difference was 30,000 yuan. We would make a lot less every day! I am also approaching my due date. It costs a lot of money to have a baby, and it is more expensive to go to a private hospital! My husband called my sister to remind me and replied, "I'll transfer it to you tomorrow."

But on Wednesday, at the end of the day, we still didn’t receive it.

My husband asked her again and she said she would wait for Friday.

But after Friday, she still hadn’t transferred the money.

I asked her again over the weekend and she said she had no money now.

My husband finally couldn't bear it anymore and said that I was going to use it these days. Anyone who understands knows that the meaning of this sentence is: If you are anxious about the money I am using, I will give it to you first. After three days of agreement, I will give it to you with confidence, but you push it back again and again, delaying it. My work plan, you can either give it to me on time, or give me a clear explanation of when you can pay me back! I can also readjust my work arrangements!

My sister said unhappily (in fact, she was unhappy when I asked her for the first time): We don’t have any now. I will go back to my parents’ house in a few days and ask my dad to borrow some and give them to me. You.

Listen, are you angry? Doesn’t this mean that you don’t want to pay it back? At least it's hopeless recently. What are you talking about three days? How many three days are there? ! Is such an agreement useful? ! Why did you say three days? Why didn't you say "I will pay you back when I have money later"! Let us wait like fools day by day!

As soon as my husband saw that the situation had changed, he told his father-in-law and mother-in-law. The father-in-law said that you should stop asking for it. She said so, and it would not look good if he asked for it again.

Listen, the one who wants to pay has become a grandson!

My husband said no, I have to take it back. She sent messages and called her sister, but no one answered her.

I said don’t ask for it, let me do it. You, the brother, don’t make your sister angry. It will be difficult to get along with you in the future. Let me, the sister-in-law, be the bad guy.

I don’t have my sister’s WeChat account or phone number, only QQ. I added her as a friend when we first met and have never chatted with her. I sent her a message, saying that it was time to sell goods at the end of the year, and a lot of funds were needed. The second child was about to be born, and money was needed in many places... You can use your spare time to transfer the money...

My sister didn't. Reply to me, but the next day, my husband received 10,000 yuan from her on WeChat. He also left a message saying that he would give the remaining 20,000 yuan tomorrow.

The next night I was already asleep, and my husband happily came to tell me that I had received the 20,000 yuan.

Since then, this sister has ignored me anymore. She used to always come to my QQ space to hang out, give likes, comment and interact, but then she disappeared again, and I also read it. There is no news about her...