Twenty suggestions on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the advice of a 60-year-old mother-in-law with high emotional intelligence.

Recently, I was watching the variety show "My Wife's Romantic Travel" and was moved by the relationship between Cheng Lisha's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Cheng Lisha said that no matter what quarrel she had with her husband Guo Xiaodong, her mother-in-law would unreasonably say that Cheng Lisha was right and you were wrong. When a son quarrels with his daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law never goes to her son, but to Cheng Lisha. This is something that few mother-in-law can do.

Then their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a very important second point: mother-in-law does not interfere in husband and wife's life, gracefully withdraws, and does not interfere in their family affairs. If we have to discuss right and wrong, then Cheng Lisha is right.

Cheng Lisha's mother-in-law is very emotional, which also makes her very emotional. She said, "Without my mother-in-law, my marriage could not have come to this day."

You see, the mother-in-law with high emotional intelligence is the regulator to resolve the marriage crisis of a small family, because Xiao Yu's son will definitely listen to her mother-in-law. As long as the mother-in-law faces the daughter-in-law, there will be no problem in the marriage life of the small family.

On the other hand, what do some mothers-in-law with low emotional intelligence do? I wish my son and daughter-in-law were in conflict everywhere, and mixed with family affairs everywhere, for fear that my son and daughter-in-law would get too close. When a son quarrels with his daughter-in-law, he must protect his son and then say to his daughter-in-law, "I want my son to divorce you."

How childish and ridiculous, people always say that "it is better to tear down the bridge than to tear down the marriage", but you, as a mother-in-law, have instructed your son to divorce his daughter-in-law. What are the benefits of divorce for you? Divorced people still want to get married.

In real life, some mothers-in-law with low emotional intelligence should really learn from some mothers-in-law with high emotional intelligence. It is more important for the young couple to live a good life than anything else.

Cheng Lisha's high emotional intelligence mother-in-law also reminds me of a story of a 60-year-old mother-in-law. She is also good at dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

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Aunt Gao has always ignored her son and daughter-in-law She has her own life, and so do the children. She respects her daughter-in-law very much. When a daughter-in-law quarrels with her son, as long as she knows, she will definitely say to her son, "Why did you bully her again? I won't punish you. "

Aunt Gao's son is also very filial. As long as it's from his mother, he doesn't dare to listen. Sometimes he would complain to his daughter-in-law: "I suspect that I am not my own, but you are my mother's own."

Other old people are afraid that their sons and daughters-in-law will get too close. She wants them to be close. Teenagers should live as husband and wife, and old people should live as old people. Why bother to blend in with each other?

There are many people in a family, and it is annoying to mix a lot of things together.

Daughter-in-law will not interfere with what she likes to buy, spend and wear. On the contrary, the daughter-in-law will go shopping with her, and they will go shopping like girlfriends. Daughter-in-law is also very considerate, let her try on clothes, she also accompanied her daughter-in-law, a harmonious scene.

She will also spit out their husbands with her daughter-in-law, drink afternoon tea and talk about men with big pig's feet.

Aunt Gao is very open-minded Young people have their own way of getting along. For young couples, she is the old lady of the stranger.

In fact, compared with the young couple, it is not the daughter-in-law who is an outsider, but the mother-in-law who is an outsider. Mother-in-law must put herself in the right position, quit the marriage life of her son and daughter-in-law, be independent and interdependent, but she will live happily.

A family is like this. Where there are so many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, can't we live a good life?

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Aunt Gao and her daughter-in-law get along with two key points:

If the son and daughter-in-law are in conflict, don't be partial to the son, but protect the daughter-in-law;

Second, don't get involved in the affairs of young couples, guide them in good faith, put themselves in a proper position, and quit marriage properly.

In fact, marriage happiness is very simple, and it is also very simple for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along well. They should think more about others, not impose their own ideas on others.

You can be unreasonable to your son, but not to your daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law's positioning of daughter-in-law is conducive to the harmony of family relations and the stability of small family marriage life.

Actually, you might as well think about it. The young couple have a good life, and your big family is really good. Don't always stir up trouble and let the young couple divorce unexpectedly. There was no contradiction at first, but later it became a contradiction, and it was not worth the loss after divorce.

Aunt Gao is very open-minded She has her own plan and life circle. As for taking care of the children, she wants to help, and the daughter-in-law plays a key role. Aunt Gao will also go out to play with friends, and life is very comfortable.

Today, she gets along well with her daughter-in-law, her children are filial, and her small family and extended family are in harmony.

In fact, there are so many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: a daughter-in-law knows how to respect her elders; Mother-in-law often faces her daughter-in-law and properly withdraws from the marriage life of a small family, and a family will be happy.

Everything goes well at home, don't make conflicts all day, put the cart before the horse. It's really good to be nice to a family.

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