Dad is tired and happy.

? The happiest thing every day is that the baby is asleep, the pot is washed and it's all right. Read and write with a mobile phone. As soon as the child wakes up, it is necessary to tighten this string.

I have been a father for a whole year unconsciously, and I always want to talk about the feeling of being a full-time father.

? Squeeze your head and drive to Liangshan. Similar to other fathers who are wet nurses, my parents and my wife's father died after the baby was born. My mother-in-law has to take care of my brother's children, and my wife is a teacher and has to go to work. I'm worried that I can't find a nanny and I can't stand it financially. Plus, I am a self-employed, so multiple-choice questions have become compulsory, and I have to play the strange role of dad. There's an episode here. In fact, we are also considering sending relatives to take care of the children, and we can rest assured that we will not be separated. My wife is pregnant, and we are looking for her period, which is quite young. I didn't expect it to be too difficult to get along with her. She is narrow-minded and lazy. In short, she is not suitable for doing all kinds of things. It was easy to ask God to send her away, and finally she was sent away before the baby was born.

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I feel guilty and must make amends. Another reason to be a father is to make up for the guilt of not being with the children. The boss is twelve years old, and I didn't take care of him in the army. The eldest daughter was brought up by his wife, and who knows the bitterness, hardship and pain. Spend the most time with my eldest daughter, that is, go back to my hometown for two years. I want to make up for everything, lack of children and lack of accompanying children to grow up. Because the job is gone, you can look for it again, but the precious time of taking care of the children has passed and there is no way to get it back.

Appreciating one's own work and watching her understand a little is the happiest thing. To tell the truth, sometimes, I envy those who go to work, so chic and tired with children. But think about it for two or three years, and you can get through it with a bite. And I understand that what I am doing now is something that many fathers want to do but have no conditions to do. Especially when children grow up, they will laugh, turn, sit, climb, walk, run, talk, call their parents and rummage around at home. All disappointments, all dissatisfaction and all grievances will disappear.

Children with a handful of excrement and urine let me know deeply that it is not easy for parents, and it is not easy for wives to take care of children these years. It is necessary to educate children to be filial to their parents when they grow up. I used to just read novels and talk about shit and urine on TV. In real life, I really realized what it was like. Maybe it's my own child. I don't object to selfishness, but my eldest daughter can't stand it. For a time, she was especially punctual. Halfway through lunch, the little guy did something bad. My eldest daughter jumped into the bedroom with a bowl and nose. I have to leave work and clean up the battlefield. When I finished, my appetite was almost exhausted.

Taking care of children has taught me to be calm and learn to keep learning. The most annoying thing about taking care of children is their endless crying. At first, I was so annoyed that I even spanked my children. Later, slowly, I calmed down and pondered the child's intention, whether he was sleepy, thirsty, hungry, urinating, uncomfortable, or wanted to go out. You have to guess the child's mind and keep summing it up. The biggest fear when taking care of children is that they have a fever. At first, I panicked and gave the baby antipyretic drugs at random. As a result, the child has repeated fevers. Later, I noticed the change of the child's temperature. Before it reaches 38 degrees, I cool down physically and pay attention to strengthening nutrition. Slowly, the child's body is much better and he seldom has a fever.

? It's really hard to take care of children. It's really the eyes, hands, heart and mouth. Communicate with children more when you speak. If you don't understand, say it. If you hear it, it will have an effect. I often talk to my children and say anything. My children's vocabulary is gradually increasing. Now the child is one year and ten months old. Common relatives will scream and express their wishes, such as drinking water, drinking milk, urinating, turning on the light and so on. You can't take your child out of your sight when you see it. It is always clear at a glance, within reach, invisible, and may be dangerous. Reaching out means that when danger occurs, you can show your skills in difficult places and solve problems quickly. When you are conscious, you should take good care of your children, not half-heartedly, but with a sense of risk. A mother in our community took her children to watch the mobile phone, and the children all fell into the fish pond, and also used WeChat as a lever. Fortunately, they got help in the community. Therefore, many people are reluctant to take care of their children, preferring to do other manual work rather than worry about taking care of them.

Although it is hard to take care of children, I often feel tired and can't lift my arms. The children have been hugging for the whole morning, but they can't stand up straight. However, when they are tired, it is endless happiness. It's really full of happiness to listen to the children's cheerful running sound, shout that their parents are naive and imitate adults to make faces.

Dad was tired and happy when he did it.

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