1987, I was in debt and couldn't sleep at night. I am ashamed of my wife and children. How can I cheer up?

87. Debts at the beginning of the year were 800,000, including credit cards and various online loans. Of the 800,000 debts, 200,000 are owed to relatives and friends. In March, they were overdue, and no one paid me back or helped me. When everyone was notorious, they were so poor that they had no friends or relatives. They made six phone calls in their own circle and couldn't even borrow 300 yuan. Finally, their wife borrowed 1000 and gave 500 to be a cement worker (cement board) with a salary of 73,000. Later, my boss learned about my situation and saw that I could bear hardships and stand hard work and be honest, so he introduced me to a job of discharging sewage and shoveling dung, telling me that as long as I could bear hardships, I would not be too dirty and tired, and I would soon be able to pay off my debts. I worked for a month, and my wife came to accompany me to work in August. Now she often undertakes some private work of discharging sewage and shoveling manure. Now she has finally paid off all her debts and has tens of thousands of deposits. Although this job made me dirty and tired, it allowed me to lead a normal life within a year. Come on, friends!

I have the same experience as you, but I am younger than you. I also have a wife and children in debt. Facing the collection, I turned off my mobile phone completely, regardless. Then I did three part-time jobs a day, and after doing some online promotion, I repaid with my credit card. Almost half a year, I paid back some online loans, and then I paid back my credit card every month. Now I don't just have to pay some handling fees for the remaining credit cards every month to raise them. Keep working hard and strive for a good future for your wife and children.

It's nothing. The post-80s generation was not heavily in debt. I am also 870,000 yuan, with a credit card of 50,000 yuan, a classmate of 40,000 yuan, a consumer loan of/kloc-0.5 million yuan, a decoration loan of/kloc-0.5 million yuan, and a mortgage of 800,000 yuan. I worry about money every month! I bought a piano in June 5438+ 10, and spent more than 65438+ 10, and spent more than 65438+ 10. Last month, I paid nearly 65438+100000 store rent, and my wife spent 5000 on her birthday. My daughter pays tuition this month, one semester 17000. Prepare 20 thousand yuan for the New Year in February. In March, it is expected to buy milk powder 10000 yuan (two children at home), and the store will pay 20,000 yuan. You have to raise money every month. If you don't have an umbrella, you have to run quickly. Do your best! Cheer yourself up first, then you can cheer your family and revive your career. If you are decadent, you are finished!

Send you two pictures, in fact, everyone is the same! Come on!

I'm not talking about you, you're really naive ... 19 June, my warehouse has 120 pieces of Beinmei milk powder in stock, the date 18, and the goods were pressed for various reasons. I can't eat during the day and can't sleep at night. I don't have a wife. One of my employees told me, boss, it is more difficult. I listened to her. In half a year, I not only sold out, but also bought 65 yuan. As soon as I turned around, the inventory was healthy …

I think many times, we exaggerate our pain ourselves. We are men and grandfathers. There are some problems that you cannot escape. Since you can't escape, go see him and do it with him!

I appreciate it. You should be glad that your daughter-in-law has a hard time with you, but at least she is family. I have always regarded her as a noble person all my life. She pointed out many things to me. I am a scholar. On the contrary, my shop assistant graduated from junior high school, but her views on life, life and work are more thorough than mine …

This reminds me of a sentence: some people have studied all their lives, but they are just nerds. Some people have studied one or two books or even one or two books all their lives, but she has a better life than anyone else …

Cherish the noble people in your life and work hard. In the words of Paul Cochakin, there will be bread, milk and everything …

Come On Children ...

Hello, everyone, after reading your questions, I suddenly want to say a few words. I am ten years older than you. I was 77 years old that year. This year is 2020, your age is 33, and when I was 33, it was 20 10. At that time, I was an executive of a large enterprise with a monthly income of tens of thousands. I bought a car and a house with my own money. I didn't ask my family for a penny, and I didn't have any debts. For people of our time, debt is regarded as a failure. I think there is something I don't understand before answering the question. Who do you think is not in debt after 80? I don't understand this. Debt is nothing to be proud of. Not knowing this is the biggest problem. What are the specific reasons for confirming debts? If you have a problem, you should solve it and make a debt settlement plan.

Let me talk about my experience in recent years. /kloc-in the middle of 0/6 years, my daughter was diagnosed with nephrotic syndrome. About two months later, my father was diagnosed with brain cancer. The doctor said at the time that it would take six months to a year at the most.

During that time, my daughter and her father were hospitalized at the same time. My daughter's kidney was punctured and her urinary tract was blocked by a blood clot. She cried her eyes out when she was only three years old. You can imagine how painful it is.

/kloc-at the beginning of 0/7, I finished my father's funeral, but my daughter's condition was still unstable. During that time, I woke up in the middle of the night and couldn't help crying. I hope this is a nightmare.

17 was fooled by friends and the investment was locked in. By the end of the year, I sold a house to ease the financial pressure. As a result, I met an old lai. I filed a lawsuit with him at the beginning of 18 because I was worried about the safety of funds. Until the verdict ended yesterday, I lost the case, and all the losses added up to more than one million.

Once, I thought that the normal state of life should be beautiful, even if there is suffering, it is temporary, but later I learned that the original face of life is cruel, and we are just survivors.

Having said that, I don't want to comfort you, because some pain, the comfort of a group of people, is not as good as crying alone, because pain doesn't lie, it is real. But the problem is that we are adults, especially young and old, who depend on you, so you can suffer and cry, but you can't be depressed and you can't fall down, because you have fallen down and no one to carry it for you. We are not strong, we just have no choice.

Don't complain about the injustice of fate. Those people and their families who were killed by accidents at a young age are so innocent. This is life. Life is impermanent, and there are too few things we can control, but at least you can give your family more warmth and let them have less troubles, and they can still smile even in adversity. This is one of the few meanings in life.

Today is a special night and a special year. At the end of the year, I met my husband and had an operation. More than 654.38+00,000 debts fell on me. Go out to pay debts during the day and go back to the hospital to take care of patients at night. It's quite wronged. It's a little comforting to see that I'm not alone. There are so many of them who are my brothers, and I think I will survive this year [pray] like them.

Dude, I'm from' 86. I owe nearly 30 million.

Everyone's life has its own self-evident difficulties. Don't worry, let alone give up. Believe in yourself and adjust well. I always believe in myself and my team believes in me. The training we have experienced will be one of the most important wealth in our life! Love yourself and your family. Come on, stranger!

I used to live this life. I accidentally fell into the quagmire of gambling and lost nearly 2 million. In order to quit gambling, I got drunk and chopped off my little finger. Later, a big brother heard my story and thought I was a man who could do things. He took me for half a year, and now he has paid me more than 700 thousand. I'm still trying. I know it's no use complaining. I have to rely on myself. Wang Jianlin once said that Tsinghua Peking University.

I am 87 years old, too. I have a house and a car, and both children have them. At present, the debt is more than 70 thousand. I told my wife that I was in debt of 20 thousand. I believe my life can be better through my own efforts, but I'm afraid my wife will worry, and I don't want to put pressure on her. Come on, the harder you work, the luckier you are. I believe you. P.S. (Daughter sleeps soundly, and this life is worth it)