My mother-in-law gave me 10 thousand for her birthday, but she disliked me for giving less. What should I do?

Although I was born in the city, my family conditions are not bad, and my parents love me very much, but I have never been arrogant, my personality has always been very good, and I have always been very self-disciplined, so my parents rarely worry about me. When I was in college, I began to stand on my own feet. I took part in an entrepreneurial project at school. Although I was not very successful, I learned some experience and truth from it. I met my husband in college.

After graduating from college, we stayed at home and worked hard because our home was in this city. I entered a unit under the arrangement of my parents, but my husband didn't want to work nine to five every day. He has his own dreams and has always wanted to develop his own projects. So after graduation, he started his own business with the venture capital given by his family.

Later, we talked for two years, because our parents thought we had been together for a long time and our feelings had been good, so they urged us to get married. I didn't ask for too much bride price at that time, because Wang Bo's career was still unstable at that time, and I knew he couldn't afford that much money. I'm very thoughtful. When I first got married, my mother-in-law was very kind and polite to me and treated me as a guest, but after a long time, it was like.

I urged me to have a baby at first. I said that my husband and I are both unstable in our careers and are trying to make some money. Maybe I turned down my mother-in-law and pursed my face. Since then, it has been directed at me, saying that I can't fulfill my obligations as a daughter-in-law and that I don't do well in housework. In short, no matter what I do, she has a critical reason. She is an elder, so I have to endure it, and there is nothing I can do.

I know that a family can't have such contradictions for a long time. Later, I also felt that I was not young. In order to make my mother-in-law happy, my husband and I began to prepare for pregnancy and gave birth to a child the next year. However, just because of having children, my mother-in-law is happy. I am still not happy to see that she is a granddaughter. I know her mother-in-law wants grandchildren, but I feel bad. Life is my own, and I began to ignore it, no matter what others think.

My mother-in-law is 60 years old this year, and I want to ease the relationship. After all, the most important thing in a family is harmony, and there are always differences in contradictions. I don't know what my mother-in-law really wants. I just gave her a bonus of more than 10 thousand, and she bought it for herself. I didn't expect her mother-in-law to open the red envelope in front of me and say that it was only 10,000 yuan. A little too little. After listening to this, I suddenly felt very angry. My kindness was ungrateful, and I said directly, "Mother-in-law, if it is too little, then give it back to me and I won't give you living expenses in the future." You won't appreciate my kindness to you anyway. Since you don't want this family to be harmonious, then I don't have to worry so much. " At that time, when I lost my temper, my mother-in-law was speechless and didn't know what to say. In fact, I know that she is still afraid that I will cut off her living expenses, but I am not in the mood to attend her birthday party. Instead, he turned and took the child away. Such a mother-in-law should make her reflect. what do you think?

Answer: As a daughter-in-law, you have actually done a good job. Your mother-in-law's words are really a bit excessive. Ten thousand yuan is not a small expense for an ordinary family. No matter how much your daughter-in-law gives you, it is my heart. As an elder, you should be able to obey the rules, take good care of your own heart, and have a harmonious relationship with your mother-in-law, so that your family can be harmonious. I hope you can get along well in the future and consider the problem from each other's point of view. Your mother-in-law will also exercise restraint. After all, she also knows that you are not easy to bully. Sometimes we get along like this. Be strong when you should be strong, take care of everything and get along well with your family.