Brother Cong Fei, have a nice trip ~ ~

At 20: 40 on April 20th, Cong Fei died in Shenzhen People's Hospital. Cong Fei, 37, made a will to donate his cornea. As his last act of love, he gave the light to the society forever and left his love in the world forever.

As a famous singer, Cong Fei often performs in the business world and should live a rich life. However, since 10, he has spent all his money and donated more than 3 million yuan to help more than 50 out-of-school children and disabled people, but he has been living a poor life and even borrowed money to live.

Since February this year, Cong Fei's condition has deteriorated, and cancer cells have spread widely in the abdominal cavity. By mid-March, Cong Fei had been unable to eat or even drink water, and he had to rely on infusion to maintain his life every day.

Strong Cong Fei began to calmly arrange his own affairs. 10 days ago, he and his father solemnly proposed to the hospital to stop intravenous fluid infusion treatment and only keep analgesic treatment. Cong Fei said: "The state and society have taken good care of me, and the medical staff have done their best. I don't want the country and society to spend more money on me, and I hope that these expenses can be used on other people with therapeutic value. " At the same time, he also suggested donating the cornea behind him so that his useful organs can help those in need.

On the night of 19, Cong Fei fell into a deep coma. On the morning of 20th, Cong Fei's father Zhang Wanjun signed the organ donation book on behalf of his son. Cong Fei's mother, Li Caifeng, told reporters tearfully: "This is my son's last wish. No matter how painful we are, we will fulfill his wish. I only have one request, that is, to see who my son's cornea was donated to. If I can see that man, I can see my son again. "

Cong Fei should die without regret. Last year, the Shenzhen Youth Foundation set up the "Cong Fei Special Fund for Student Aid", which not only enabled poor students funded by Cong Fei to complete their studies, but also enabled more dropouts to enter schools. With the help of medical staff, Cong Fei struggled with death for a year, and his life was qualitatively prolonged. She not only saw the birth of her little daughter, but even heard her voice calling "Dad". Cong Fei's wife Xing Dan told reporters calmly: "My brother told me to put on his favorite white dress when he left. I'm ready for him.

At the beginning of March this year, led by Sister Wu of Lianhua North Rehabilitation Station for the Disabled, Amy and I visited the hospital on behalf of the website.

When he first went, he was in a bad mood and very sad. With everyone's encouragement, I gradually recovered my cheerful appearance. He said: "A person's life lies not in the length, but in living meaningfully. I'm still a little interesting. " As can be seen from his speech, he is very attached to life and to his relatives and friends around him. He asked us to care more about helping his wife Xing Dan. Give the piano to the disabled friends in the rehabilitation station.

At his bedside, a baby just a few months old was held by his grandmother, with dark hair and lovely apple face. Who can't miss this situation? Life is so precious that we should all make our lives more meaningful.

Out of the ward, I met Xing Dan who was working hard in the hospital. She took her fifth sister's hand and said, "I lost weight the most successfully. I lost weight really fast after giving birth to a child. " Looking at her gaunt face with a sweet smile, I think that maybe the heart of a kind person is open, bright and full of warmth, so even in the face of such a situation, it gives people an upward feeling.

Cong Fei, a simple and kind man, has realized your life value. Wish you a pleasant journey in heaven. ...

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Last night, Cong Fei left. I can't express my sadness in words because he is my brother. I don't know what Cong Fei looks like in other people's eyes, because he is a hero, he is a hero, and he has always been a hero. He is the best good man in the world. He let me know what is sublime, how high a person's spirit and realm can reach, and made me believe in the goodness and beauty of people. I have always held this imagination. Good-hearted, I can't say one tenth. The following report was published in Shenzhen Evening News on April 2, 2003/KLOC-0. I found it a memorial to him. May he have a pleasant journey and rest in peace.

The kindness and legend of actor Cong Fei

Maybe it's a professional habit. I always like to look at the world and people with suspicion unless I find out what it is. So when I first came into contact with Cong Fei, I had many questions in my mind. He is an artist, not rich, and spends money on charity performances everywhere (since 1994, he has sponsored more than 100 children to go to school, and more than 40 people, from college students to primary school students, donated more than one million and gave more than 300 charity performances). Is he performing? Because artists always like to show off. But I have never seen a person insist on doing the same kind of program for seven or eight years! Unless he is crazy-so many people say he is stupid.

One thing sounds ridiculous. A friend from his hometown in Northeast China was very angry when he heard about him. He fidgeted on the sofa with a cigarette in his hand and suddenly smoked: "Fool, how good it is to spend your money on your buddy!" " You are great, I'll hang your portrait when you go back! "Then he patted his thigh and scolded again. Cong Fei followed his example. Every time I pat my thigh, the dust still falls to the ground. Cong Fei said, "I rubbed his ashes all night, and he scolded me all night. Cong Fei's mother said, "He later made me angry and kept calling my children names like this. What's the matter? "

The reporter listened to Cong Fei's story first, then he found it interesting, and then interviewed him with questions. I don't want to set an example to everyone. I just think his story is interesting and worth writing, and then readers will find it interesting. But after two or three days with him, three or four interviews and verification, I was deeply moved by his spirit. I thought about it for a long time and was really moved by his spirit. If I want to use one word, it is sublime.

Real five-star volunteers

I first met Cong Fei on the morning of March 4th this year. The reporter went to Guizhou to interview the relevant leaders of the Communist Youth League Committee, and Cong Fei was invited to accompany him. Cong Fei was the last person to arrive at the airport. He is carrying two bags full of things, one is clothes and the other is food, but he forgot to bring his ID card. Everyone is worried about him. He explained: "If you prepare something to eat for your child in the morning, you will forget to bring your ID card." He's a little embarrassed. But he seems to know everyone at the airport, so he got on the plane without his ID card. This is the first time I have seen someone who can board a plane without an ID card, and I am particularly impressed.

Cong Fei is the kind of person who can't be quiet for a minute. He listened to him all the way, even if everyone was too tired to sleep. But strangely, no one hates him, because his singing is beautiful, except for the formal stage, which can only be heard on tape; The story he told is also very funny. A very simple thing will become very funny in his mouth. So everyone was happy all the way. He suddenly showed you Zhao Benshan's sketch and Huang Hong's performance. Liu Huan seems to be singing ... He can easily imitate the voices and actions of more than 30 stars and leaders, so lifelike and breathtaking that it is impossible to laugh or not.

Even when eating, he will not calm down and make everyone laugh; Even the waiter didn't let go. He amused them with the local dialect and made them giggle with their mouths closed. People who have just known each other or have known each other for a long time say that Cong Fei is a language genius.

The performance on the evening of March 5th will definitely impress many folks in dushan county. In order to welcome the guests from Shenzhen, the county specially arranged a performance, mainly singing local operas. Halfway through the performance, Cong Fei sitting in the audience couldn't help it. After consulting with the host, he bumped into the stage and never wanted to come down again. After seven or eight minutes, he performed for half an hour, from singing to sketch to stand-up comedy, which made the following applause thunderous. Yang, director of the office of the Communist Youth League Committee sitting next to the reporter, said: "He is like this. He forgot everything when he heard the applause below. He often plays for an hour or two. Even if he doesn't give money, as long as everyone is happy, he can play until dawn. "

Huayang knows Cong Fei very well. She met Cong Fei at the end of 1997, when she was still in charge of the city's volunteer work. That year, the Youth League organized an activity to help the poor, and Cong Fei was a very active member. Huayang has seen several of his performances and thinks he is very talented. Later, he consulted him. There is an art troupe in the Volunteer League, but no one can stand it. He asked Cong Fei if he would like to join the volunteers and become the head of the Art Troupe of the Volunteers' Union. Cong Fei didn't know what volunteers did at that time. Huayang said that Cong Fei is very willing to serve the people. 1March 1998 became the head of the Art Troupe of the Volunteer Union. However, this colonel has no rank and does not charge a penny. He only works.

Huayang can't remember how many benefit performances Cong Fei gave "for her". In any case, he will arrive as soon as he is called. Even if he performs in Jiangsu or Hunan or other distant places, even if he has signed a contract with others, he will fly and take a taxi. Huayang said, "Finally, I was embarrassed. After all, people live on this. I can't give him a penny. He has to pay for the plane and taxi himself. "

On one occasion, Cong Fei also went to Guizhou for a benefit performance with the Youth League Committee. In a school, Cong Fei donated a lot of money and things to help children go to school. When they left, the children ran after the car, so Cong Fei had to get off. The children really cried with his legs in their arms. Huayang said, "He has done a lot for us for free, and we haven't given him any honor for so many years. He didn't say anything. Once in a chat, he said that he did 70 or 80 benefit performances last year alone. I was surprised and didn't believe it. I called Wu Miaochun, the stationmaster of Lianhua North Rehabilitation Station for the Disabled, and others to confirm that there are so many. After careful calculation, he has performed more than 300 performances since 1997. If calculated by time, it is far more than 500 hours, and there are 1000 hours, but he is not even a' five-star volunteer'. According to the regulations, volunteers who have served the public for more than 500 hours can get the title of' five-star volunteer'. If you use money to calculate, it will be even worse. Now the appearance fee in Cong Fei is over 1000 ... sometimes I'm embarrassed. I have missed him for two years in a row. "

Many children call him "dad"

The performance in dushan county, Guizhou, caused a sensation in the local area-it is absolutely not an exaggeration to use the word sensation. I saw many county leaders sitting in the front row clapping happily like children, while the audience in the back was getting louder and louder. When he walked off the stage, the director of the County Cultural Bureau held Cong Fei's hand tightly and said sincerely, "This is the most wonderful performance we have seen since the liberation of dushan county people! Thank you, thank you Shenzhen people! "

I believe that what the Secretary said is nothing more than that. In those days, wherever Cong Fei followed the leaders of the Youth League Committee, his performance caused a sensation. His program may not be novel, but he can make everyone happy.

In addition to performances, Cong Fei sponsored four children after this trip, three of whom were in Longgong Primary School and 1 in Tang Xiang Primary School. So far, Cong Fei has sponsored 24 students from Guizhou.

However, I still have some doubts about what I saw. When Cong Fei gave the boy the money, I asked myself: Is he putting on a show? Is his behavior one-off or long-term? You don't need to pay debts when you go back to Shenzhen? This idea makes me feel ashamed now.

After reading the children's letters to Cong Fei, I feel ashamed, which is very real shame. Every letter in that pile is sincere, and it may be difficult for people living in big cities to understand what tuition of several hundred yuan per semester means to children. Some people call Cong Fei "Dad", while others call Cong Fei "Uncle". Now I'll extract two recent letters for you to see.

One is a letter from Wang Weishan, a student in Class 2, Grade 1, zhijin county No.2 Middle School.

Cong Fei's father:

Hello! The remittance has been received, please don't miss it. I am grateful, but I don't know where to start. I can only say a sincere "thank you"! Maybe you will say that as long as you study hard, you are thanking me and responding to my hug (newspaper). But I think these are far from enough, because love is priceless, nothing can be equivalent, and I am lucky to get such a priceless treasure. Really, thank you, Dad Cong Fei.

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I don't regret or hate being born in such a place, because I know that I can't see the rainbow without experiencing the wind and rain. God is fair, isn't he? In this life, I have not only my parents and relatives, but also you, Cong Fei's father. Although you are far away from me, I can feel your concern and love. Although we met in a hurry, although our contact only depended on telephone calls and letters, I was satisfied-because I knew that in the distance, I had a father named Cong Fei, which was enough.

Another letter was sent by Qiu Hui from Hunan Hanshou No.5 Middle School on March 1:

Dear Dad:

Hello! How have you been recently? Dad, February 26th is my happiest and most unforgettable day. That night, I attended your party, watched your wonderful performance and listened to your beautiful singing. How excited I am at this moment. I will never forget this evening.

That day, you personally sent me tuition fees, which deeply touched me. My classmates also cast envious eyes on me, envious that I have a great and noble father like you. Dad, you are really closer than my real parents. When I started school, I asked my parents for tuition, but they couldn't meet my requirements. You satisfied my thirst for knowledge. I will study hard and repay your love with excellent results. ...

They get excited at the mention of Cong Fei.

Then I interviewed Gao Guo, the first student sponsored by Cong Fei. She is now a junior in the vocal music department of Xi Conservatory of Music and a disciple of Cong Fei.

Gogo said, "Teacher Cong Fei is really kind to me. It seems that in 1995, Teacher Cong Fei performed in my hometown Xiangtan, and my father took me to see him. Teacher Cong Fei accepted me as a student, not only taught me to sing, but also gave me living expenses and study fees, and taught me to be a man. Teacher Cong Fei is very kind to me and has been teaching me vocal music voluntarily. Sometimes, on the phone, it takes him over an hour to teach. Sometimes he will pay me to take me to his home in Shenzhen. Without Mr. Cong Fei, I will never be admitted to the Conservatory of Music. "

Cong Fei * * * admitted 5 people, 3 people were admitted to the Conservatory of Music, and 1 person won the first prize in the National Young Singers Competition and the Excellence Award in the National Young Singers Competition. The winner is Zhuang girl Tang Lulu; The other is a Ukrainian named Bobby Ken, who recently played a role in the sequel of Liu Laogen directed by Zhao Benshan.

The reporter called Tang Lulu and asked her to talk about what a young lady in her mind looks like. She said, nothing, just one word: good. Is there any good way? Very good, good for everyone, very caring, he sold everything at home for children in mountainous areas to go to school.

Wu Miaochun, the stationmaster of Lianhua North Rehabilitation Station for the Disabled, knows something about the sales in Cong Fei. 200 1 There is a disabled person named Li Haixia in the station. He had the opportunity to attend RTVU, but he could not afford the tuition. In an interview with reporters by telephone, Master Wu said, "I will tell Cong Fei and ask him if he can do something. Cong Fei said, don't worry, I will help her. A few days later, Cong Fei handed over 1 ten thousand yuan to Li Haixia. I heard that he sold a camera. "

Wu Miaochun said that Cong Fei was the best person she had ever met. He never asks for anything in return for doing good, and he doesn't want to make public. From 1997 to now, he will perform for the disabled every festival and warm their hearts with his songs. Just a phone call, no matter where he is, he will come, help them lift their wheelchairs and do all kinds of things. He really treats them disabled as relatives, and they really treat him as relatives.

The first interview with Cong Fei was in his home. While he was talking, his cell phone rang. It comes from Hanshou County, Hunan Province. Mr Zhou Guohua of the county industrial bureau heard that Cong Fei was ill recently, so he called to greet him.

The reporter interviewed Mr. Zhou with the phone in Cong Fei's hand. When Mr. Zhou heard that he was a newspaper reporter, he immediately got excited: "Oh, you don't know, Cong Fei has become a bodhisattva in our county. On February 26th this year, he gave a charity performance in our county, and donated 90,000 yuan to set up the Cong Fei Love Scholarship Foundation. He sponsored 0/2 children in our county/kloc. In fact, others don't know that in 2000, he donated 20,000 yuan to a disabled person in the name of others, and also gave 1 10,000 to two classmates. People thought he was rich, so did I at first. I went to his house at 65438 on October 28th last year/KLOC-0, and I realized that he actually had no money. The house is small, only about 60 square meters, and the valuables at home add up to about 10000 yuan. Even I bought him a children's bike. You asked Cong Fei, didn't you? He will take out everything in his family to support his children. Such people are really too few ... "

Mr. Zhou is very excited. He insisted that the reporter write him well, give him a manuscript after writing, and let him vote for Hunan Daily.

Sponsor students to work.

For these things, Cong Fei don't want to say more. He likes to say interesting things. Whenever someone gives him a serious compliment, he gives you a joke. He said: "I am very attractive, which not only makes people laugh, but also makes people not want to die." It was an event that happened on everyone's music stage a few years ago. Many people, such as Huayang of the Communist Youth League Committee, remember that after Cong Fei's performance, a man came backstage and held Cong Fei's hand and cried excitedly for 20 minutes. He said, I didn't expect such a beautiful performance and such a happy thing in the world. He planned to commit suicide after reading it. He went bankrupt, his wife and children ran away with others, and there was no point in living. Now he decided not to die. He wants to live a good life and start all over again.

There are many things that make Cong Fei happy. Once before he passed the International Trade Building, he heard a man calling him: Cong Fei Cong Fei ... Cong Fei turned around, a thin man. Cong Fei asked him, did you call me? The man said, yes, Cong Fei said, how do you know me? The man said, I just came out of the first labor camp. Cong Fei just let out a cry, because he often goes there to perform for reeducation-through-labor personnel, which is very popular.

Cong Fei is always happy and seems carefree, but I have seen him cry. On a business trip in Guizhou, he talked about two children. One of the children wrote that the tuition he sent was for his father to buy drinks, and he beat his mother when he was drunk. Another child named Chen Xia, who is also a student sponsored by him, now works in a place called Hantai Shoes Factory in fuyong town, Shenzhen. Cong Fei was so sad that he burst into tears.

I have read two letters from Chen Xia to Cong Fei. Actually, I can't blame anyone. This is her choice. But Cong Fei thinks that she is a child after all, and her parents should help her make a better choice. If she continues to study, he will definitely support her to the end. He hopes that every child he supports can be admitted to college and have a bright future.

I learned from Chen Xia's letter that in the first half of the third semester, she fell ill, delayed many classes, and her grades plummeted after she came back. "My grades are not good. I don't want to waste the money that Uncle Cong Fei earned with hard work and sweat. If I want to study, I will be too selfish, so I won't study. I don't want others to pay for me, but there is no gain and no cost. " This is a letter from Chen Xia to Cong Fei. Cong Fei said that after reading this letter, he shed tears. He wants to see the children early, but he is too busy to go.

Cong Fei said he couldn't bear to see those children can't go to school, so he wanted to help them. An experience in childhood left a deep impression on him. When I was a sophomore, someone else had already paid the tuition fee for 2.5 yuan every semester, but his was late. Every time the teacher said it, he was very sad. What should I do if I have no money at home? One day, he secretly took the copper candlestick at home to the scrap collection station and sold it to 2.6 yuan, paying the tuition. In the evening, my father couldn't find the candlestick to light the candle, so he asked Cong Fei if he had seen it. Cong Fei looks guilty. Without saying anything, my father slapped him on the head, hit his eyes and nose, and suddenly he was bleeding profusely.

Cong Fei heard his father shout, "If you steal again, I'll break your leg!" "

Mother shed tears to tell the hardships of this year.

Cong Fei's mother-a very cheerful northeast grandmother. Regarding Cong Fei's sponsorship of children, she said that she had long been used to it. "He has been like this since he was a child, and everything is sent out. Once during the Spring Festival, a beggar came to his house. He gave him all the cakes and wine that others gave him in the New Year, and the beggar came to our house to pay a New Year call the next year. Another time, in winter, I saw him come home with his neck hanging down and the coat he was wearing was gone. I asked him, where is the coat? He said he gave it away and people liked it. This kid, why do you think he is like this? You see, this time he donated all the clothes that my wife and I didn't wear. We won't talk about the house, but he won't buy it yet. He said that food and clothing is enough. This child is kind and filial, but others don't know how much he has suffered! "

Speaking of the past, Cong Fei's mother couldn't go on. She once thought that this son was dead and would never see him again, and her hair turned white.

From 1989 to 199 1, he studied at Shenyang Conservatory of Music and studied under the package. After graduation, his father helped him find a job in the bank, but he always thought he had no future. In a rage, Cong Fei left home at the end of 199 1 and went to Guangzhou. Since then, he has not heard from his family for more than a year. Cong Fei's mother said, "When I received his first call, I couldn't say a word for a long time. His father said, if you talk, I can't say anything ... "

Cong Fei's original name is not "Cong Fei", but "Cong Fei", which is his real name in Guangzhou. One day, he carried seven sofas to the sixth floor and earned five yuan. He was so tired that he sat on the grass downstairs and gasped. His head began to fantasize. He thought that one day he would fly away from this meadow. So he gave himself a stage name: Cong Fei.

That story is very long. This is a wandering story, without trimming or trimming. After the last meal, I lived in bridge opening and drank tap water. I was ashamed to meet my elders in Jiangdong and tried to commit suicide several times. When he was very hungry, he remembered once standing in wuyi avenue, watching people eat wonton through the glass, and his saliva flowed out-really. He thinks that when he becomes rich, he must eat enough. Worst of all, once he ate a plate of leftover fried powder and ate it with tap water. After eating, I have a stomachache and diarrhea, and I can't find the toilet. It was so painful that he leaned against the wall and cut his wrist with a blade.

One day, he was wandering outside and saw a poster of a singing contest, so he signed up. People see him as shabby and don't believe that he can sing. He sang two passages, Bel Canto. A etiquette lady, also from the northeast, is very kind. She spends 600 yuan a month on him, signing him up, buying clothes and taking a bath. Cong Fei entered the finals and won the Excellence Award. Because of this opportunity, he got a job in an art company called Qi. Since then, I have stopped wandering and started my acting career.

Cong Fei said that he would like to thank two teachers, David Jiang and Guo Song, who met while performing together. David Jiang changed his artistic career, making him change from Bel Canto to folk singing. Teacher Guo Song treated him like a son and taught him how to be a man. "Art comes from the people. We should serve them better and don't let money blind us." This is what Guo Song often said to his close disciple. Guo Song often said to Cong Fei, "I want to learn from you. I am proud to have a disciple like you! "

In fact, Cong Fei later came to Shenzhen and suffered a painful experience. He was cheated and went bankrupt. He lived in an unfinished building called Xiashiwei Village near the airport for two or three months, sleeping in rotten quilts and eating cabbage soy sauce ... A lady named Peng helped him out of the predicament.

You have no idea how happy you are to do good.

Mentioning those past events, Cong Fei kept laughing and said, shouldn't I be satisfied now? Those days have passed, and now there is food and drink. What do I need so much money for? I always remember that others helped me in my most difficult time. What's wrong with me helping those who need help now? Besides, all my money comes from people who buy tickets. I gave it back to people. I don't lack anything, but I deserve it. Everyone gave me a chance to perform. As soon as I stood on the stage, I was glad to hear applause. What a bargain!

Cong Fei said quietly, you don't know how happy it is to do good!

There are many stories in Cong Fei, and I only told a few of them. He may not be a famous singer or actor, but he is a 100% good man and a very good person.