Find someone who can chat with you for the rest of your life

For the rest of your life, find someone who can chat with you

Have you ever encountered difficulties or been under great pressure and didn’t want to say or do anything?

No matter how others care and comfort you, you just politely decline and say, I'm fine, it's nothing, everything will pass.

But when it is late at night and you are alone, you really want to find someone who can talk to you.

Maybe it’s not to find someone to complain to, or to find someone to help you solve your problems, but to have someone who can talk to you about irrelevant things when you are alone, lonely, and helpless. words.

That feeling is: even if I just smile, you can know that I actually feel sour in my heart. Even if I say it's okay, you know that actually something is wrong with me.

Even if we talk about boring topics, you will always accompany me to the end.

In fact, the most obvious sign of a person growing up is that he talks less. Because you know, not everyone can talk to you, and not everyone can talk to you intimately.

Some people have different views with you and cannot talk to them. Some people are not on the same journey as you, and you can't talk to them.

And some people, even if they are willing to chat with you all night long, but you have no desire or mood to talk to them at all.

It is really not easy to have a good conversation. Especially for adults who have experienced some ups and downs in human relationships.

Because not everyone can listen to you complain when you are unhappy. Not everyone can feel your happiness when you are happy.

Not everyone is willing to spend time and energy on you without any care and waste time.

The world is full of people. Every day you come into contact with many people, you know many people, and you even live in a lively environment.

But finding someone who can truly suit your needs and chat with you is really a big deal. It's not easy.

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Some people say that whether a relationship is good or not depends on whether two people can talk to each other. They can usually still chat, which proves that they are still sharing, communicating, and communicating, which is a good sign.

It feels tiring to even say a few words. It's not that your mouth is tired, but that your heart is tired. Specifically, the person in front of you cannot make you feel happy, free, and relaxed.

I know many couples. Although they have been married for many years, they may be regarded as magical couples in the eyes of others.

But after getting to know each other privately, I realized that many couples are sleeping in the same bed but having different dreams, and even chatting has become the most luxurious thing.

Maybe if a woman loses weight, becomes more beautiful, and good-looking, the first person she wants to show it to is not her boyfriend, lover, or husband, because they seem to be tired of you already.

Are you more willing to talk to your admirers about your recent new hairstyle, what new clothes you bought, and what color nail polish you wore?

Maybe when a man gets a raise, gets a promotion, or takes power, the first person he wants to show off to is not his girlfriend or wife,

Because they have been with you since After being together, they become nagging about trivial matters. They have long forgotten that men's vanity also needs to be supported frequently.

At this time, the man is more willing to chat intimately with those who are willing to worship him, respect him, and even worship him.

Someone once asked, how did you find out that he doesn't love you?

The answer with the most likes is when I found that he couldn’t say a word to me, but he was holding his mobile phone behind his back. When I was willing to let go, I knew that our relationship had reached a bottleneck.

The person who can chat with you is not just patient enough, nor does it just cater to you blindly, but this person can just hit the core of what you want to express in your heart.

Maybe nothing you say is important anymore.

The important thing is that each other's moods are in sync with each other. If the person is right, everything will be right.

3 In fact, being able to chat is really not a great skill. Because everyone can talk.

But no matter how good a person is at chatting, he or she cannot have a deep, long, and heart-warming chat with someone who doesn't like him.

Because you can't unilaterally talk to someone who you like but doesn't like you.

You can’t just make do with it, and talk to the bottom of your heart with someone you don’t like, but the other person likes you very much.

You can only chat happily with people who are attracted to each other, interested in each other, and even have a good impression of each other.

For example, have you eaten? Have you slept? Are you okay? Maybe you can greet each other with a stranger for a few days with these boring sentences.

But if you say the same boring words every day, you can only say it to the person you like, so you won't feel bored.

Usually if a person is still willing to talk to you, no matter how serious the conflict between you is, the relationship will not be truly severed.

But if one day, you don’t want to talk to someone, don’t know what to say, and feel that it doesn’t matter whether you say something or not,

It’s really not because you have nothing to say, but because you have nothing to say. It's because your relationship is slowly fading away as you have nothing to talk about.

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Even if you are an ordinary person, when there happens to be someone beside you who can chat anytime and anywhere, you will feel that you own the world.

After all, no matter what you say, someone will give you the response you want.

But no matter how rich you are, if you can never find someone to share your joys, sorrows, sorrows and joys with you,

Or even just ask a simple question, which is thoughtful and heart-warming, What are you doing? You may feel extremely desolate inside.

For the rest of your life, find someone you can talk to.

Because only such a person can truly give you the love you want. And what is love? It's just having someone who can chat with you. It's so simple and yet so difficult.