Don't overestimate yourself and don't underestimate others.

I remember when I was in high school, an old man who taught chemistry saw a classic sentence in a girl's notebook: "There is no love for no reason, and there is no reason."

In this society, changes are complicated and people are becoming more and more realistic. You have no money, which means you don't have everything. Your father, relatives, brothers and sisters and friends will not like you. This is human nature. Seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, have it both ways.

Su Qin, a descendant of Ghost Valley School, was born in poverty and lived alone with his brother and sister-in-law. His brother and sister-in-law hated him, so they shared it with him and gave them all the fields! After separation, Su Qin often went to his brother's house for dinner because he didn't have any means to make a living. Later, his brother and sister-in-law were really annoying. Su Qin went to learn from the teacher and learned the way of vertical and horizontal. Su Qin is not lazy, but a scholar. He likes reading, but he is not a good worker. Later, the six Soviet countries treated each other like guests, and the eldest sister-in-law knelt inside, bowing down and holding the emperor to make the princes. It was really funny!

It can be seen from this incident that we should not underestimate ourselves or overestimate others. If his sister-in-law and his brother were kind to her, she wouldn't run away from home, let alone learn from the teacher and make great achievements, so difficulty is the shortcut to fame. Mencius once said: Therefore, when heaven falls on a great task, people must first suffer their minds, work their bones and muscles, starve their skins, empty their bodies, and confuse their minds.

Judging from Su Qing's case, it depends on whether Su Qing can recognize his own strengths, then make good use of his own strengths, be good at faking and learn with an open mind, so as to make contributions and make some achievements.

Now many people think highly of themselves, their hearts are higher than the sky, and their lives are thinner than paper. However, he did not base his dream on reality. Many people's dreams are castles in the air. They are great, but they also have opportunities to come true. They should also practice their dreams well, have lofty aspirations in life, stand on the standpoint of the world and the people, and strive for peace for the world.

We need the dream of looking up at the sky, but we also need down-to-earth efforts. Too many people set their life goals too high. They don't recognize the reality and blindly set a very grand goal for themselves. As a result, they found that no matter how hard they tried, they were far behind the goal. Finally, they hit a wall everywhere, and then they gradually believed in Buddhism, even closed themselves up and doubted their life and ability.

So don't overestimate yourself! Next, let's talk about not underestimating others. Let's start with an idiom of keeping close friends. I believe everyone knows this idiom, which tells the story of Guan Zhong and Bao Shu Ya. Guan Zhong turned out to be the counselor of Childe Xiaobai, and suggested that Childe Xiaobai kill Qi Huangong, but in the end he failed and was imprisoned! Later, Bao let bygones be bygones and recommended him to a powerful man in the Spring and Autumn Period. So Guan Zhong took the ball and became a powerful figure, which was unlucky. As talents, Guan Zhong and Bao supported each other, were not jealous of each other, and treated each other with sincerity, which made a much-told story. There are so many intimate friends and so many mountains and rivers, so don't judge others by your own will, or don't underestimate others.

In this world, besides fame and fortune, there is also mutual appreciation between confidants. During the Three Kingdoms period, there was an idiom: You were born with it, so why should you know it? Is to compare Zhuge Liang and Zhou Yu, both of them are very talented people, very experienced in military strategy, and are outstanding figures in the three countries. They fought side by side and competed with each other together. Zhou Yu and Zhuge Liang both want to kill each other to avoid future trouble. However, when Zhou Yu was here, Zhuge Liang went to offer his condolences, although it was a bit of a slap in the face, including mutual appreciation. Zhuge Liang must be very unhappy when he finally passed away. They are friends, opponents and even bosom friends. This story continues between Zhuge Liang and Sima Yi, who died in Wuzhangyuan. Originally Sima Yiran's men thought Sima Yi would be happy, but Sima Yi was not very happy. On the contrary, he was frustrated. Because one of his lifelong enemies has passed away, Sima Yi feels lonely. Embarrassed, no one is his opponent anymore.

Diamond cut diamond, you will meet talented people, great minds think alike, and orangutans cherish each other. They achieve each other, compete with each other, promote each other, and then live forever and enjoy a long reputation! Therefore, the attitude of life is not to overestimate yourself, not to underestimate others, and not to read other people's minds.