Children always want to be the boss. What about controlling others?

As parents, when children always want to be the boss and control others' situation, they can take the following measures:

1. Listening and understanding: First of all, give children a chance to express their thoughts and feelings, and understand why they want to be the boss, because they like the feeling of being controlled, or because they want to be respected and recognized by others.

2. Guide correct values: Tell children that everyone has their own values and functions, and controlling others cannot make them better. Encourage them to learn to respect others, give play to their own specialties and cooperate with others.

3. Cultivate empathy: educate children to think from the perspective of others, care about others' feelings, let children better understand others and reduce their desire for control.

4. Set reasonable rules and boundaries: Set some codes of conduct and family rules for children, so that they can understand that certain order needs to be observed in the family and society. At the same time, let the children understand that they can't interfere in other people's lives at will.

5. Enhance self-discipline awareness: educate children to develop good living habits, such as working and sleeping on time and consciously completing housework. Cultivate their sense of self-discipline and make them realize that their actions will have an impact on others.

6. Appropriate praise and encouragement: When children can show respect for others and win through cooperation, they should be given appropriate praise and encouragement to make them feel the positive role of positive behavior.

7. Be a good role model: Parents should set an example by themselves, be a responsible, caring and respectful role model, and let children learn the correct values and behaviors from the role models around them.