Read together, share together and reap together —— On Tonghua Onion Reading Club 9. 19 Party

2. Time: 5: 50 pm on September 19.

3. Venue: Room 507, 5th Floor, Acer Building

4. Number of participants: 65,438+05 (65,438+0 onion students) and 3 participants (insufficient places).

Participants:

Moderator: Stefanie

Time elder: Yu Jing

Photography: Luan Hongbin, Fu of Qian Hui, etc.

Pan, Qiao,,,, Wang Maolin, Sun Aopu, Yan Zixin, Liang Yaoyuan, Qian Hui.

5. Pre-preparation:

Jiugongge white paper KT board? Books shared with pens

6. Timetable:

(1) Opening: The host opens and introduces Jiugongge for 6 minutes.

(2) Introduce yourself: Name your four labels, 3 true 1 false, so that everyone will remember you! 3 minutes/person

(3) Sharing: What is the impact of introducing a book that impressed you the most? Everyone shares according to their own books or short stories, highlighting their own gains. 5 minutes/person

(4) Summary: You can talk about the gains of this book club after the whole reading. 3 minutes/person

In this era of rapid development, most people have an inexplicable fear of reading. They are slow in reading, sleepy in reading, unable to read and forget. If you attend a book club, you will force yourself to read because you have more or less requirements for progress. Many valuable common sense and interests are established under this compulsion, and you will always meet what you want with extensive contact!

The flow of book clubs has not changed compared with the first time. Because many are new people who are eager to change, I also want to be better.

This reading party gave me unexpected warmth. The initial number of participants was 10, but it was not intended that the number of participants was 15. Three people didn't come to the meeting, sitting on the ground listening to notes.

Let's name four labels, three are true, 1 is false, and guess which one is false. At the same time, psychology can indirectly reflect that the fake "truth and falsehood" is actually a label that everyone wants to tear off from the bottom of his heart and want to change.

Teacher Ji: I insist on punching in for 94 days. I have a wide range of interests, strong curiosity (fake), lack of self-confidence and strong curiosity.

My interests are not extensive at all. I just started now. In the past, it was monotonous study, book study and professional study. Next, we should cultivate our extensive interests and hobbies. (Applause)

Pan Ge: As an advocate of Chinese medicine, I am honest, kind, knowledgeable and lack of self-confidence (fake).

Since childhood, the most important thing is self-confidence. I think I might have said before that I was a little conceited. It's changed a lot now, and it's basically gone.

Joe: Scorpio? Cold outside and hot inside, energetic, full-time nanny, super confident (fake)

Why is Joe's overconfidence after attending two consecutive reading sessions false? But it is because she has taken care of the baby for a long time that she can't find herself. On the second day after reading it for the first time, Joey's sister said to me, "Stefanie, I really had a good day." I think this is the value of the book club, thanks to Sister Joey. And this time with my 5-year-old daughter, I am a good example for children!

Bi Shan Guo Chen: thin, clingy, curious (like to explore, discover and understand), good at communication (fake).

Actually, I'm not good at communication, and I'm introverted.

Stefanie: optimistic, cheerful, motivated, continuous learning for two years, three minutes of enthusiasm (fake)

I'm a Gemini. I like freedom, adventure and freshness. I'm fresh about everything, but this freshness won't last long.

Li Sibo: Fight for your dream, like the sun (fake), and keep getting up early.

In fact, I yearn for being like the sun, but there will always be some dark side of myself. I hope to adjust my status and broaden my knowledge through reading club.

Yuan Xin: cheerful (true) personality, love sports, love reading, love learning and self-confidence.

A small partner who dares to analyze and criticize himself, three truths and one falsehood, and doesn't like learning since childhood. The first time I read a book, I was afraid to say a word. Slowly become brave, dare to try and dare to express yourself. Come on! The road ahead is still very long. May you meet a better self as soon as possible.

Wang Maolin: Pursuing dreams, introverted, kind, unable to learn, willing to make friends, very satisfied with the status quo (false).

Big brother is a very introverted person. He is willing to step out of his comfort zone and change himself at the age of 40+, which is very rare.

Wang Xiaoshu: Gemini, slow (false), kind, fond of dreams and fantasies.

Because it is Gemini, the switching state is seamless, and the slow-heating state depends on me. There is no such thing as slow fever, it depends on the mood at this time (laughs)

Ren Hongyan: 43-year-old Aquarius? Like to help others solve difficulties, inexperienced, soft-hearted (false), curious.

Because it is a Chinese medicine practitioner of osteopathy, if you are soft on the patient, it is irresponsible to the patient! Sister Ren's "soft-hearted" is different from what we understand ~ beautiful and kind angels in white.

In Qian Hui: Leo, learning English 100 days (false), strong execution, insisting on punching in 1 17 days,

No, everyone is studying, but it's not 100 days (laughs).

Liang Yao: Strong self-discipline, insisting on getting up early for 298 days, small flowers in kindergarten, full of vitality (false).

Because I am engaged in preschool education, all my energy is spent during the day and given to my children. After work, I feel frustrated and don't want to talk at all. (Hugging)

Sun Aopu: High school students? Like to make others laugh, kind, considerate (fake), willing to use your head.

Careful and willing to think do not conflict. Why? When something happens, I prefer to think about it afterwards. Don't think too much before things happen. Is the little sun of the students, willing to help them solve problems, and students like to talk to him when they are unhappy. Op will give two methods according to the students' situation. One is to make students happy, and the other is to accompany them and give them energy. (such as 72+ manual)

My mother commented, "I just believe in my son. I also firmly believe that my son will become an excellent person and a pillar of the country. The nature at the beginning of life is good, and kindness is the nature of my son. He shows special care and filial piety to his elders. Sometimes as a mother, I don't think his mind should be borne by his youth. I just want to think about my son and say that I don't want you to think too much now. I just hope that you will live a good moment and live a good moment. "

Lin:? Sometimes cheerful, sometimes worried, strong sense of time (fake), like listening to music, temperament? (Sun Aopu's mother)

Not a person with a strong sense of time, procrastination, 7 minutes from home to work at 8 o'clock? Always late for the company 8:0 1 8:05! ? I like to pinch when I do things. ? Ha ha ha, we have reached an understanding. Sister Lin, let's cheer together ~? Get rid of this "smelly problem"

Swallow: I am an old student of the onion reading method in Phase 3 and Phase 4, and watched many friends change from small white to excellent. I shared the first chapter of the Onion Reading Method to train reading methods to understand your brain, and shared with you that people have three brains: primitive brain (turtle brain), emotional brain (tiger brain) and cortical brain (Einstein brain).

It's no use just thinking if I want to devote myself to one thing. It needs the coordination of three brains. This state is called the unity of body and mind. How do the three brains coordinate? If I don't object to what I am doing rationally, emotionally and habitually, and all my attention is on the current event, this state is the unity of body and mind, which is defined as follows: the instantaneous interaction between feeling and perception and the target situation.

Yao Yao: What I want to share with you is a piece of knowledge called Happiness without Choice. ?

Because it is 2 1 century, there are many options. Each of us has to make many choices every day. Such as work and eating. People nowadays generally like to avoid problems. Our own achievements or money can be determined by choosing jobs back and forth, but our sense of happiness is not necessarily happy because of choosing jobs back and forth. The reason why success is slow now may be because there are too many choices. Take myself as an example: for example, when I entered the education industry at the age of 20, I set myself a goal that I would never leave preschool education. Then maybe when you get old, you will make a little achievement in this industry.

Yuan Xin: I'll show you myself. Thank you for your change. I firmly believe that you will succeed as long as you work hard.

Mr. Ji: I have been learning from the debris. Nowadays, reading is more for self-improvement, work and family. The books to share with you are Proper Self-esteem and Why is my mood always influenced by others?

At work, colleagues always make excuses for problems. I am the same, although I seldom make mistakes. When I am criticized, I must want to heal it at the first time. Then, emotionally, I am always influenced by others. At school, I always say things I don't like, and I don't like myself. I am just a happy-go-lucky person who is worried about myself. The kind that can watch Korean dramas and cry.

Then I thought, why is the heart like this? One is family background. The second possibility is my own misunderstanding of things. Today, I heard a psychological analysis while listening to a book: "When you want to make yourself better, you should know where your shortcomings come from." . "When you know that you must be nervous when you go on stage, the only way to overcome it is to find out the reason why you are nervous. What makes you nervous? Where is that knot in your heart? " This is what Mr. Ji thinks is worth exploring.

Joe: The book I shared with you is Reading Onions. Well, what I feel most about myself is fragmented reading. Because I have two children, the time is very broken, and I can only grow up in fragmented reading.

Read as much as you can while you can. Come on!

Pan Ge: I have been studying in the professional field recently. Because I graduated from junior high school for many years, I obviously feel that my knowledge is not enough. I started reading a lot. A book that began to have a great influence on myself was Who Moved My Cheese. Before that, I worked as an executive in a company for five years. But after reading this book, I thought, oh, I see. Someone moved my cheese. Then start a business and make a restaurant chain. Now I'm changing my job in medicine. Now I'm reading Huangdi Neijing. I may have thought I couldn't understand it before, but now it's different. I used to study because of my interest, but now I have a sense of mission. The main reason is that the things in the Yellow Emperor's Canon are really good and what the people really need.

I used to go to the bookstore and always thought this book was better than that one, and then I bought a lot of books to read at home. It was really good and enlightening, but I forgot it in a few days. That may be because I am studying medicine now. There are many things to study and think about. I like to light a lamp in front of my desk alone. Looking at Huangdi Neijing, I feel that I am communicating with the ancients. This state is very comfortable. I think I have a great sense of mission, and I want to pass this piece on. A sentence or even four words in this book can lead to many things. Now you can feel your own value and make some contributions to society.

Wang Maolin: Now I am eager to learn more knowledge and meet Brother Pan at the lowest valley of my life. I didn't want to study before, and I was indifferent to the concept of reading. It may also be related to previous occupations, such as working or driving a taxi. Therefore, in this social state, the cognition of learning is very poor. So I am very grateful for this reading club, and we can exchange and study together.

Chen Guo: I used to be a person who didn't like studying very much, even a little rebellious. Later, I went to college and learned a lot when I was older. Then I began to understand the importance of learning to read. Well, because I majored in drama director, I was forced to learn a lot of lines and was acted a lot. Slowly from passive learning to active learning.

After reading a lot of books slowly, you will find that there is an inherent potential change in people. People who study will have an internalization, no matter how much they remember after reading the book.

Ordinary people only use their heads twice a year. Because many people have their own comfort zone, it is difficult to jump out. Eating and sleeping in life includes a highly technical job. In fact, we really don't need to think, we can do it by hinting. Reading club is a very good thing, which allows each of us to exercise our brains here.

People's choice will be divided into many stages. For example, when we applied for art in college, we will never be financially. So choice is very important. But at this time, we will know what kind of person we want to be in the future. The first is short-term choice, and the second is self-choice. For example, eating hot pot, when we choose seasonings, actually two or three single ingredients will be delicious together, but usually we want to add a little to everything.

Lin: Share kazuo inamori's mode of thinking? Success will put thinking mode first, second is professional skills, and third is passion.

When listening to Fan Deng's book club, Feng Lun said: The biggest difference between people is above the neck. What is a brain? The brain is a system. So we should also keep pace with the times now. Enrich our brains and update our systems. You may be able to keep up with the times and not be eliminated.

Sun Aopu: Did harvey mckay dig a well before he was thirsty? For example, we have a doctor friend, but we haven't contacted him for a long time, and suddenly we remember that he has a stomachache. I will feel embarrassed to contact him again at this time. This belongs to thirsty drilling wells. What is a well? After reading this book, I feel that a well is a network of contacts. All we have to do is to build this network before we are thirsty. Use our contacts to solve our own difficulties. What you are thinking is how long, when and how often we will set up our network.

Wang Xiaoshu: The book I want to share with you is secret. This book is mainly for us, don't complain. There are too many complaints in this society now, but it just happens that this book teaches us some views on positive energy. Will mention that positive energy attracts some golden rules. Let mankind live a better and happier life. So read this book, because there are many scientific examples of the strong attraction of positive energy magnetic field in this book. Then the book also says that when we encounter some difficult things, we should also think with positive power. Then, think of something happy and tell yourself that you will succeed. Then change the status quo, constantly motivate yourself and wake yourself up. As long as your mentality changes, everything in front of you will be better.

Sister Ren: The deepest book I have read these years is Huangdi Neijing, which I have read seven times. I have been on the road of Chinese medicine for more than ten years. Through the book club, I heard a lot of areas I didn't know, so I went to follow the book club. Let knowledge make you more perfect.

Sister Hui: The book I shared with you is Relationship Dialogue. Because I am a Leo, I feel more irritable. Then when I heard this book, I was deeply touched. what are you going to do？ What's your purpose? In fact, the process is not important. You have a good attitude and good taste. Be sure to talk well. ? When both sides are out of control, we must pay attention to methods. We will improve our personal quality, and then we will not affect others in the working environment. It is also possible that a soft word will make the other person agree with you. Then we should change ourselves from the heart, not just talk but not practice. Others are not controlled by themselves, only they can control themselves.

Dabin: I want to harvest my own growth in the book club, which is a path in my growth process. I can get more knowledge in fields I don't know with my friends. You can also gain more and become such a happy partner. Learn from each other, make progress and grow together.

Chen Guo: I came to the book club in the hope of sharing and communicating with you. The most effective way to learn is to share and communicate constantly, so it's really good to attend the reading club. I feel that I can find many like-minded people in the book club. Then imagine that we can go forward hand in hand, and then the team will grow and more and more people will hold hands.

Fang Fang: Stand up and share with you, because she cherishes all the feelings of being able to stand on the stage. Has the appearance of a weak girl and a strong heart.

The book to share with you is "There is only one action between you and your dream". People should have a dream list. What is a dream? What is happiness? People are in the process of realizing their dreams. Once a dream is not realized, they will be very happy.

I felt a lot of love and encouragement after reading this time. Peng Xiaoliu, the author of The Onion Reading Method, added my WeChat and gave me direct encouragement. My onion reading friends and my Yi brothers and sisters gave me encouragement. Thank you for your encouragement. We will continue to move forward and link more friends who want to learn! Be grateful for everything!