Falling in love with a married man (when you deeply love a married man)

I am Xueluo Wuchen. If you have a story, come to me.

01

Love always makes a person unable to control himself, and then he forgets reason and is desperate. At this point, many young girls will be like this.

A girl named Xueer told me her love story.

She had been dating that man for more than half a year. She knew that man had a family and a wife from the beginning. It's just that when they first met, she didn't think about having a relationship with this man, but feelings can't be stopped sometimes.

For more than half a year, Xueer has been deeply immersed in this sweet feeling. The man was very enthusiastic towards her and chatted with her on WeChat until late at night every night, as if he had something to say no. Every word of love made Xueer's heart flutter.

But later, this man suddenly began to ignore her and stopped chatting with her on WeChat. Even the messages she sent often received no reply.

?This puzzled Xueer. She asked me why? She said that she didn't want to destroy his family, nor did she want the man to divorce her to marry her. She just wanted to love him well. Why could he be so heartless?

02

Falling in love with a married man is a wrong start. Don't think that if you have no desires or desires, a man will have a long-term love for you. He can still be ruthless and leave you without any reason.

The reason why this happens is because a married man says he loves you. His purpose is not simple. How can it be true that he just wants to have a pure love affair with you?

Women, if you are in love with a married man, then you should remember the following sentences.

"His love for you contains very little sincerity and a lot of playful intentions."

When a married man says he loves you, it is not just because he loves you. , many times, it’s just because the marriage that has been obtained makes him feel bored after a long time, and your appearance can just fill his emptiness.

It is human nature to like the new and dislike the old. If you are willing to devote yourself to it, men certainly have no reason to refuse. As for his confession to you, the countless words of love he said are just to respond to your initiative, so that you can believe it and love him with more sincerity.

In fact, what a married man wants more is you. If by the way, you are willing to be sincere to him, for him, it is just a profit, so why not?

"He never thought about being responsible for you from the beginning"

If he is really a responsible man, then he will not betray his marriage casually. He would not leave his wife aside so easily and have a relationship with a woman outside.

Usually he will be very honest. When he first gets together with you, he will clearly reveal his identity and let you know that he is already married. When he leaves you one day, he will even tell you that it was just a matter of mutual consent and that he has never lied to you.

A married man is not irresponsible, but his sense of responsibility is reserved for his marriage. He knows that there will be no results with you, so naturally he has never thought about being responsible for you.

"When he wants to leave you, he doesn't need any reason and will retreat at any time."

For married men, relationships outside marriage are still full of risks. What he has to do is to control this risk. He will not affect his marriage and family because of such feelings.

Once he realizes that there is such a danger, he will retreat at any time without giving you any explanation or needing any reason. He will even actively avoid you, lest you really It would put him at risk.

What a married man wants is this kind of relationship, because he has never thought of being responsible, and certainly will not take this risk.

"He will not really divorce you to marry you because of you"

It is said that men's love words are unreliable, so what a married man says to you? It's even more unreliable. Maybe you really want to be with him, maybe he will promise that he will divorce you to marry you, but all this is conditional.

He will tell you about his various difficulties, and he will ask you to wait for him, but this waiting will often be elusive. A man is always rational when it comes to relationships. As for divorce, he will analyze the pros and cons of all aspects. After all, divorce is not a child's play and involves too many things.

In comparison, a man will feel that divorce will cost him too much, so he will selfishly want to maintain this relationship. If you insist on forcing him to divorce, then He will just leave you on his own initiative.

03

When you love a married man deeply, but it doesn’t work out and you can’t let go, then please remember these words.

In fact, loving someone is just for happiness and joy, and to experience the feeling of loving and being loved, never for the sake of pain.

However, if you fall in love with a married man, then what you gain is often only disappointment and pain. And you, why bother?

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