Couples talking about poverty

Today's young people have completely different views on marriage and love from the old people in the past. It is said that young people nowadays are becoming more and more realistic and materialistic, but as the saying goes, unlike those who have been poor together, this sentence is not just talk. There are indeed many examples in real life. The happiness of marriage is directly proportional to wealth. It can be seen that the impact of poverty on marriage is not a little bit.

Money and happiness are in direct proportion. Speaking of it, but unlike those who knew it, they were once poor together. Many people think this is a bad word, or some people once thought so, then this person is a material person.

But in fact, when we grow up and step into love and marriage, we will really realize that this sentence is very reasonable.

And there are many such living examples around me.

For example, a female friend of mine got pregnant not long after she got married. After the hurried wedding, the child was born a few months later.

Time passed in a blink of an eye, and now the child is two years old. In the past two years, my friend has been playing the role of a housewife, taking care of the children at home. Until now, I have no idea of going out to work. I received some money when I got married, but all of it was spent on house decoration. Now they don't have much living expenses at all.

Her husband earns about 3000 yuan a month. Fortunately, he has a provident fund to maintain mortgage repayment, and he only pays a small part. Three people live on this part.

My friend has never been really happy since she got married. I worry about rice, oil and salt all day, and even regret that I will not live because I bought a bottle of soy sauce for one yuan.

After two people get married, it is because they are poor that their feelings are not as good as falling in love. There will always be quarrels over money, which will hurt feelings and make the other party feel desperate about this relationship.

A marriage without an economic foundation is not solid. I hope that young people who are immersed in love now must listen to advice. Everyone has a young time, and everyone may love a person without hesitation when he is young, and even spend his life with this person at all costs.

But the metaphysics of love will disappear one day and be erased by real life. So we must realize that if two people do not have a good economic foundation before marriage, then the level of happiness after this marriage will not be very high.

Unless two people can work together after marriage, life will get better and better, then the degree of happiness will increase with the economic growth. If the financial situation of two people goes from bad to worse after marriage, then marriage is a complete torment for two people.