Quotations from Cai Kangyong's Qipa Theory

1. If you choose the person you love, you create a wound for yourself; if you choose the person who loves you, you choose a pair of armor to protect you.

2. Is marriage really beautiful? Maybe for Ada, maybe not for me.

3. I don't think ruthlessness is a bad thing. I think false promiscuity and giving others false imagination are bad things.

4. I don't like any type of person. If I like you, I only like you.

5. You think you miss him to the extreme, and it is impossible to miss him more. As a result, at an unexpected moment, you are successful, and miss him a little more than you originally did.

6. People who chase money will be very happy if they really make a lot of money in the end. People who pursue their dreams will be very sad if they get a dream in the end.

7. If he misses you, he will find you. If he wants you, he will say; If he cares about you, he will show his true feelings; If none of this happens, then he won't bother you.

8. What is the most precious thing for parents to children? Is to give him an ideal environment to become himself, not the person we want him to become.

9. Don't easily refuse to let yourself feel what a good opportunity you have.

1. The way to make trouble less for others is to solve the trouble in your own hands.

11. This sentence is so beautiful that it makes people applaud: Do you think the person you like is the person you like? Liking is always a misunderstanding.

12. Dating is dating, which means being affectionate. Eating, drinking and ordering are all good opportunities for flirting.

13. Is every injury suffered in love like every knife suffered when wood and stone are carved, and finally, the more admirable self hidden in us will gradually appear in front of each other's eyes.

14. Dear baby: I'm worried that going to school is the first step to lead you to mediocrity. So it's really hard for me to ask you to go to school with confidence. Obviously, there are so many things worth teaching and learning, outside the school.

15, as and as, people's most basic bottom line should be to hold that inaction and do something.

16. When the other person brings up a topic that you don't want to pick up at all, don't resist in a hurry, but connect the topic that the other person is keen on to a very life direction lightly.

17. When I love you one way, I have to be the sun, and I rely on my own light to support me. When I am finally loved by you, I rest and become the moon. I rely on your light to confirm my existence.

18. Love is often a misunderstanding, love is often a misunderstanding of yourself, and loving that person is often a misunderstanding of that person. Because you can't love it, you can't test it, and it will eventually become an unfinished dream.

19. You should give him all your future. Is this love? Still lazy?

2. Your life is yours. When you feel the wind, the wind is blowing. The universe exists only when you put it in your heart. You may have to bear what others have decided for you, believed for you, and admitted for you, but you can also put it down when the time comes.

21. Choosing the person I love is to make a wound for myself, and choosing the person who loves me is to give myself a pair of armor.

22. If you have to do something, you can't do it. Good for evil, why report straight? If you forgive the person who abandoned you, what is the person who stayed with you? How do you repay his love?

23. Sometimes, long after the relationship has ended, we gradually realize that the way we loved that person at that time was wrong. Then, we suddenly want to get that person back and love it again.

24. Boys will change, their careers are very loyal, and their careers are there. As long as you work hard, it will repay you. As for men, if you work hard, he will still change his mind. So I'm in favor of fighting for a career.

25. That's not forgiveness, it's forget it. We will feel tired when we live for a long time, so we tell ourselves to forget it. We didn't forgive each other, and we didn't ask for forgiveness for every mistake. We're just tired, and then forget it. Time has erased this for us, but it doesn't mean we should forgive.

26. Sometimes, when you know that this love affair is doomed, you are desperate and try your best to talk about it all the way to the end, regardless of hitting the wall and hitting the mountain. Why are you doing this?

27. Promises in love often make us feel bad later. It's not because they were fake, they are real, but they are out of date.

28. We often don't love ourselves enough. We often need people who love us to discover how good we are. I think most people often ignore their best parts when they love each other blindly. We finally rely on the person who loves us deeply, and let us believe that we are worthy of being loved. We are a good person. So don't turn down the opportunity to make you feel good.

29. I love you. What's it to you? This sentence is so cute, so sad, so precious and so pitiful. Because we love someone wholeheartedly, we feel that we are alive. This is the biggest reward we get from love. As for each other, how much love can be returned to us, so it may not be the most important.

3. Moderate provocation can definitely make the conversation warm. Because everyone wants their opinions to be taken seriously and discussed, instead of being nodded by an unprincipled person and perfunctory.

31. If you want to break up, break up. Needless to say, you don't deserve me. We are not mobile phones and chargers.

32. The mementos of love are never those watches and necklaces you gave me, or even those sweet messages and photos. The most precious memorial of love is what you left on me, just like the rivers left on the terrain, and the changes you have caused to me.

33. In love, you try your best to give, and sometimes you only get the best of it.

34. We China people are easily kidnapped by filial piety, so we can't have any discussion on multiple viewpoints. Why I dare to choose this side today is because, as Ma Weiwei said, when love is too great, it interferes with our own rhythm of life.

35. People have various pursuits for self-realization. You study subjects you don't like in school and take unnecessary exams. These are the disciplines and requirements given to us by the process of life. If you want to finish, you want to finish yourself, not that you have to take exams in math, English and physics. Many times in life, because we have fulfilled our sense of responsibility, we will agree that we are an educated and self-trained person.

36. An important criterion for judging happiness is not whether you can have something, but whether you can refuse something.

37. One criterion of happiness is whether you can always say no to things you don't like.

38. Going our separate ways and tolerating others' own choices is the most needed attitude in our society at present.

39. Unless that person can make you live a better life than when you were single, there is no need to leave single for that person.

4. You are in love, but the person you love sometimes doesn't really exist. He may just be an innocent white wall, and you are crazy about him, which makes you feel the most? All the future love movies are projected on him.

41. Commitment is one thing, that is, we embrace the ideal of marriage, and the ideal of marriage is not something that we can really rely on and realize. I think monogamy, a suffocating system, has caused great depression to many people. Humanity needs to export.

42. The most precious memorial of love is what you left on me, just like the rivers left on the terrain, and the changes you have caused to me.

43. If someone scolds you, you will scold him. This is called quarreling. When someone gives you a compliment, you give it back. This is called socializing.