I quarreled with my father, but in the eyes of my elders, I was ignorant.

It is true that every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite ~ My family is not very harmonious, but you have to understand that a person's personality is very difficult to change, so quarreling not only cannot make people change, but even Make yourself feel even more uncomfortable. The only way is to treat your father's words as a "sound", and remain unmoved in your heart. Recognize that this is what your father is like, but he is your father after all. As children, we should not take it too seriously what he says. If you feel uncomfortable after listening too much, just go and relax and divert your attention! I think the purpose of your coming here is not to say that you are really ignorant, but to seek a kind of comfort. I believe that you still regard him as your father in your heart, so learn to be tolerant, otherwise if you can't help it, You may really have an impact on your own personality, which will be detrimental to your interactions with others in the future.