What does sm mean?

Sexual abuse for short

Inflicting mental or physical torture on a sexual object to obtain sexual satisfaction before or at the same time as sexual intercourse; or actively asking the sexual object to inflict physical torture on oneself Physical or mental pain in order to obtain sexual pleasure and cause sexual impulses. The former is called sexual sadism, and the latter is sexual masochism. In medical psychology, they are collectively called "sexual sadism", or "SM" for short. , is a kind of sexual perversion. The sadistic behavior can be light or serious, one is biting, pinching or swearing; in more serious cases, the sexual object may be tied up, wearing anklets and handshakes, or even whipped; in the most serious case, it can lead to fatal torture. Get sexual pleasure.

Distinguish between normal sex and sexual abuse

Some couples have mild masochism and sadism during normal sex, such as beating, scolding, pinching, etc. during orgasm. Biting and other actions or using "sex toys" to enhance sexual pleasure. Are these behaviors called sexual abuse? Generally speaking, if there is no excessive harm, you can accept it and it is not used to arouse sexual excitement, it does not belong to sexual sadism, because what patients with "sexual sadism" do is to hurt the other person's skin to cause pain. As for the behavior of sexual satisfaction, he does not pay attention to the process of sexual intercourse, but cares about the stimulation exerted before sexual excitement.