Which poem can best express the feeling of missing your lover?

The prince's children rushed back, and the beautiful woman was wet with tears. Once in the depths of Hou's ocean, he became a stranger from then on. This is a masterpiece handed down by Cui Jiao, a poet in the Tang Dynasty. There is also a very touching story about this poem.

Cui Jiao's aunt had a beautiful maid who fell in love with Cui Jiao. Later, the handmaid was sold to dignitaries. Cui Jiao was fascinated by it and longed for it. During a cold meal, the maid occasionally went out to meet Cui Jiao. Cui Jiao wrote this song "To a Maid" with mixed feelings. Presumably, Yu is also a temperament middleman. After reading this poem, he asked Cui Jiao to take away his maid, which became a much-told story in the poetry circle.

The last two sentences of this poem are very classic, but why does Cui Jiao call himself "Xiao Lang"? If we look through the complete works of Tang poetry, we will find that many lovers admired by heroines in love poems are all called "Xiao Lang", which was also used in the Song and Qing Dynasties after the Tang Dynasty, but not before the Tang Dynasty. So why is the word "Xiao Lang" used as a "lover"?

One view originated from the story told by Liu Xiang in the Fairy Tale of the Han Dynasty: "Shaw History was born in Qin Mugong (won the surname) and was good at playing the flute, attracting white peacocks into the palace. Female word Nong Yu, good for the public. The public then treated his wife as a woman. The Japanese taught Nong Yu to be a Feng Ming, and lived for several years, playing like a phoenix. The phoenix came to stop at his house and worked as a Phoenix Terrace. The couple stayed there for several years and flew with Phoenix every day. Therefore, the Qin people used to be a phoenix shrine in the Lama Temple, and sometimes there were flutes. " Later, "Nong Yu" was used to refer to a beautiful woman or a fairy; Use "Shaw History" to refer to a lover or lover, also known as "Xiao Lang".

One theory is that "Xiao Lang" originally refers to Liang Wudi Xiao Yan. Ji of Emperor Wu of Liang Shu: Wang Jian, the general who moved to Wei, drank in Dongge. When Xiao Yan saw it, he said that Lu Jiang He Xian said, "This Xiao Lang will serve for 30 years, and it will be expensive to go out here." This is the founder of the Southern Dynasties, Liang, who is romantic, versatile and famous in history. Later, "Xiao Lang" was used to refer to the man a woman loves.