How to speak makes people feel polite?

In our complicated interpersonal relationship, the most important way to communicate with people is to talk. Whether facing colleagues and bosses in the workplace or their relatives and friends. Maintaining a polite attitude when you speak will instantly enhance others' goodwill and recognition of you. So what should we do to be polite?

First of all, the most important thing is to speak Mandarin as much as possible. Even if there is a little fragrance, you should be articulate and logical, and keep what you want to express clearly in your heart. Don't repeat what you want to say, so that others can't understand what you say. You can use a mantra, but you must not use dirty words.

Secondly, when you speak, you should keep a focused and serious attitude, try to stop other things at hand, especially avoid communicating with others while playing with your mobile phone. Keep your eyes on the other person's nose and mouth. Try to avoid looking directly, but don't stare at other people's faces. Whether standing or sitting, keep your back straight and don't lean sideways, giving people the feeling of laziness.

Then, if you want to be polite, when talking to others, you must wait for the other person to finish before expressing your thoughts and opinions. Never interrupt others in the middle. This behavior is super impolite.

Finally, we must pay attention to the tone of speech and facial expressions. Don't make a hullabaloo about, don't point with your fingers, and don't spit happily, even if you encounter something more sad than happy. Try to control your emotions and express what you want to express calmly with a smile. This self-centered emotional disclosure is very immature and naive. If the other person is your relative, that's fine, but if it's a colleague around you, or even a stranger, it's easy for you to take advantage of the loopholes and try to figure out your mind.