Accepting parents' mediocrity, accepting oneself's mediocrity and accepting children's mediocrity are the three stages of life. what do you think?

This is a very reasonable trilogy of life growth.

First of all, accept the mediocrity of parents.

You can't choose when you are born. Some people were born with a golden key, while others were born with all kinds of hardships.

The happiness and misfortune of family, the good and bad of parents, are not our choices.

We will feel unfair, angry, disgusted and want to run away from them.

But one day, when we find that we can't do anything.

We accepted all this.

This is the first growth in life, which is very painful and difficult.

At that time, we felt that strength is strength.

Secondly, accept the mediocrity of self.

Standing at the age of thirty, the reality is that after thirty, I have forgotten my dreams and ambitions at the age of twenty.

At this time, we chose to accept ourselves, our abilities and our mediocrity.

This is the second growth of life, and it is much easier to accept yourself than to accept your parents.

Finally, it is to accept the mediocrity of children.

When we accept our mediocrity, we find that hope lies in children.

We began to pin our hopes on our children, hoping that she can fulfill your unfinished dreams for you.

Just as you couldn't accept your own mediocrity, you can't accept your children's mediocrity.

So, you give children many interest classes, and you make them work hard.

But when you find that children are not as special as you think, they are still as mediocre as you.

What will happen? Of course it will be more unhappy.

It's just that you have done what you have to do. What about the child, or the child?

Time goes by slowly, and the years climb on your face.

You accepted the child's mediocrity.

This is the third growth in life, and people have passed middle age.

When you really accept these three mediocre people, you have grown into a person who can prepare for retirement. Dull is probably your best mood at the moment. No more fooling around, no longer have lofty and unreachable hopes, live in the present, be happy, and be indifferent to a bright future.