Some things are useless no matter how much you say them; some things are only understood by yourself.

1. People live in the memories of others. When everyone forgets you, you cease to exist.

2. Many times it’s not the misfortune of fate, but that you don’t work hard enough. The more positive and optimistic you are and the more brave you face it, the more good luck will come. Although God allocates different fruits to each person in the beginning of life, the meaning of life is not to accept, but to strive for. Time always passes through our fingers inadvertently. All we can hold on to are memories, including all the sad and beautiful past.

3. In fact, no one wants to lose their temper. Getting angry is just to see how much room the other party will give up for you. We all have this habit of speaking harshly and ignoring others when we have conflicts. People who understand you will put down their arrogance for you. People who don't understand you maintain a deadlock, and you are the only one who is disappointed.

4. Live a serious life and have less illusions. There are two things we have to do: one is to rush, and the other is to stop and see if we have a good attitude. Mindset is a good companion in life, making people happy and healthy.

5. Trying your best not to be too involved in the world, so that in the end you completely lose yourself.

6. The sky clears up after the rain, and the air after the rain is always so fresh. The chess has not moved, the wind has not moved, but the human heart is moving.

7. No matter how familiar the number is, there will be a day when the number is vacant. No matter how painful the memory is, there will be a day when it is forgotten; no matter how beautiful the dream is, there will be a day when it wakes up; no matter how much the person you love, there will be a day when it leaves; no matter how the plot of Rashomon is, there will be a day when it comes to an end; let the past pass. Time will dilute everything, and there is a longer road waiting for us in the future.

8. People who are too smart sometimes fail to accomplish things because they no longer take their fantasies seriously. That tiger never existed, it was just a figment of my imagination because what is more terrifying than the tiger is the despair at sea. This crouching tiger is our desire and our fear. It gives us danger and uneasiness, but it is precisely because of its existence that it keeps us mentally alert and stimulates all your vitality. ***live.

9. The road of life is lengthening, learn to heal yourself, and learn to love yourself well.

10. Some scars, scratched on the hand, will become a thing of the past after healing; some scars, scratched on the heart, will remain in the heart even if they are lightly scratched; some people are close at hand. , but it is a lifetime of no luck.

11. Every strong person grits his teeth and goes through a period of time when no one helps, no one supports, and no one cares. It's over, this is your coming-of-age ceremony, if you can't get over it, beg for mercy, this is your bottomless pit.

12. There is no desperate situation in life. Every disaster will be a nightmare that cannot withstand the sun, and a bubble that cannot withstand the bumps. Life is a dojo, and living is a kind of practice. The heart is faith, and the soul is totem. What kind of inner cultivation you have will determine the kind of life you will have. Don't always say that your destiny is in the hands of God. In fact, as soon as you were born, God handed over half of your destiny to you.

13. My heart is drenched in the rain. The shallow and transparent memory is washed by the rain like spring water. I remember that I still owe you a life of peace.

14. Sometimes, when God asks you to end a relationship, it is not to confiscate your happiness, but that God has always seen your unhappiness in his eyes. Even God feels sorry for you and feels that he is not worthy. , so let you go.

15. I walk around alone, knowing that I am self-sufficient from beginning to end. I don't know what I'm waiting for, just like I don't know what's waiting for me.

16. Some things are useless no matter how much you say them; some things are only understood by yourself.

17. Yes, women all want to find a man they can admire. But if love wants to last, it needs to be evenly matched. The love that has been standing on tiptoes for a long time is too tiring.

18. An important criterion for my happiness is whether I can always say no to many things I don’t like.

19. Love yourself well. Even if no one loves you, at least I still love myself.

20. Life may not be as good as you imagine, but it will not be as bad as you imagine. I feel that people are both more fragile and stronger than I imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with just one sentence. Sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way. Maupassant

21. There are many outstanding men and beautiful women in the world, but there is only one relationship that belongs to you. Never change your true love because of other people's eyes, and never live in the eyes of others. If you lose yourself in the eyes, never be too greedy.

22. If you don’t love someone, please let go so that others can have a chance to love them; if the person you love gives up on you, please let go of yourself so that you can have a chance to love others. It’s very heartbreaking to say: No matter how much you say, it’s useless; there are some things that only you understand.

1. Love is so uneasy and hurts so thoroughly. You never know how uncomfortable it is when the person who loves you thinks about you.

2. The dreams you once had were shattered on the ground, picked up, and put them together with great efforts. Then they were broken again, and they were picked up and put together again, until one day, they could no longer be pieced together.

3. One of the most tacit things we do is that I don’t contact you and you don’t contact me. In the end, we are really strangers.

4. Everyone who dares not to love again must have loved deeply. It may seem that he is immune to all poisons, but in fact, he has already been attacked by all kinds of poisons.

5. If one day you love someone as much as I love you, you will know how tired I am!

6. I don’t want to say too much, I thought you would Understand.

7. If the relationship should end, let it end. If you feel uncomfortable, suspicious, unable to sleep or eat, you are torturing yourself.

8. From the moment you had the heart to hurt me, I knew that you must have never considered my feelings.

9. It’s not that I’m not sad, it’s just that you don’t have the heart to think about it. How to sing a sad love song gently and lightly? I will remember those so-called feelings!

10. Some things are useless no matter how much you say them; some things are only understood by yourself. A very philosophical sentence: Some words are useless no matter how much you say them

1. In life, just let nature take its course, and you will be at peace and naturally happy. Be distracted, look down on the pain of life, be indifferent to fame and wealth, have a positive and balanced attitude, ask for something but not ask for something, do something but not do something, don't cover yourself up deliberately, don't be snobbish to please others, just be a simple person Your true self. Peace of mind is the best state of life. Don’t expect, don’t imagine, don’t force, just let nature take its course, if it’s destined, it will definitely happen.

2. Be your own master, own your own thoughts, control your own words and deeds, and cherish your own emotions. Because you control yourself, you can understand yourself more deeply. Because you accept yourself, you like yourself more and show your best side. No one wants to deal with someone who is always hypocritical and tactful.

3. The world is changing and confusing. Don’t worry, live your life well now, keep your steps steady, as long as you persist to the end, your expectations will come naturally; don’t be angry, it’s yours that you can’t run away from, don’t force what’s not yours, instead of getting depressed and getting sick, it’s better to be angry and catch up; Don’t blame, the past has been fixed, the future is unpredictable, bury hatred in history, and describe tomorrow with love; don’t envy, the swans have their ambitions, the sparrows also have directions, success and failure are just appearances, you know the joy and sorrow in your heart.

4. If you can let go of your own attachments, selfishness, worries, pursuits, disgust, and impatience, you will be able to see the Buddha nature. To put it simply, how to let go is taught by Master. Seeing the revelation of Buddha nature or wisdom is not given by anyone, not even the Buddha. It is something you already have. The process of practice is to return to your true nature. process of the heart.

5. It is best to fall in love only three times in your life, once for ignorance, once for deep love, and once for life. If you talk too much, you will compare and be unable to determine; if you experience too much, you will become numb, no longer believe in love, and become a walking dead. In the end, you will marry someone you don't love, and you will not be able to love the other person from the heart. If you cope with your daily performance, the other person will complain that you don't care enough. And the failure of love without caring about family will make you live your whole life in regret and make do.

6. Some things are useless no matter how much you say them; some things are only understood by yourself. The best life is to give your best years to your lover and your greatest love to your children. There are always some things that we don’t want to happen, but we must accept them; there are always some things that we don’t want to know, but we must understand; there are always some people that we can’t live without, but we must learn to let go; there are always some times that we don’t want them to happen. Time passed, only to find that nothing could be done.

7. The biggest hidden danger in life does not exist in external pressure. Those who always use pessimism to interfere with their mood are themselves the most real harm to troubles. Life is determined by faith. Whether you are crying or full of joy, don't stay in any scenery. Looking back at the past, it has already become running water. No matter how you go through what kind of youth, you must learn to grow old soberly.

8. Life is equal for everyone, and God will not favor anyone. But some people in this world will feel happy, and some people can't feel it or it's not strong. That's because happiness is a kind of ability, the ability to be grateful for the gift of life and the current life; it is the ability to feel happiness and resist bad emotions; it is the ability to constantly reflect The ability to improve yourself and improve yourself; it is the ability to adjust the balance of body and mind, and the balance between people and society.

9. No matter how beautiful a thing is, once there is no result, don’t dwell on it. After a long time, you will get tired and tired; if you are alone, even if you miss it, if you can’t catch it, you will have to leave it alone. Let go at the right time. Over time, you will be sad and heartbroken. Sometimes, giving up is another kind of persistence. If you miss the gorgeous summer flowers, you will definitely walk into the quiet autumn leaves. Everything and everyone will become a thing of the past. Don’t struggle with it. No matter how difficult it is, we must learn to withdraw.

10. A person’s attitude towards life, no matter who you are now, no matter where you are or where your heart is, learn to use a free and easy heart to find the direction. The road is long and short, and the road is short. The road is straight and winding. No one can predict the fate of this road before walking on it. Instead of entangled in the unknown, why not be more easy-going and carve out the direction you want to go the moment you smile. Everyone is destined to walk very hard and broaden their lives. Vision, repair this heart.

Women don’t have to be beautiful, but they must be able to speak, do things, have unique strategies for dealing with people, and learn some wisdom about life every day. Be a beautiful woman who can’t be defeated by time, and read to change your mind.

Some pain, some fatigue, only you understand

1. When you are sick, one person carries it; when you are bored, one person hides it; when you feel pain, one person blocks you; on the street, one person People are walking; on the road, one is thinking; at night, one's bed is slowly getting used to one's life, becoming silent, becoming indifferent, losing all thoughts, not wanting to speak, not wanting to look. I am not arrogant, nor am I fooling around. , I’m just tired of relying on those who may be lost at any time.

2. Because of love, you gave him the right to hurt you. The person who makes you cry until your heart breaks is the person you love the most; the person who makes you laugh heartlessly is the person who loves you the most. In your life, do you want to laugh until your heart breaks, or cry until your heart breaks?

3. Don’t be sad about small grievances. In life, you are destined to suffer many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances he suffers. If you want to maximize your life, you shouldn't care too much about grievances, and don't let them influence your emotions or interfere with your life. Learn to laugh it off, treat it detachedly, know how to tolerate, know how to forgive, and let yourself grow stronger in tolerance.

4. Some pain, some fatigue, only you understand. I like to look back at the past in such a lonely night, those past events buried deep in my heart, what I gained, what I owned, what I lost, it feels like a dream.

Slowly get used to a person's life, a cup of tea, a song, a person's world. There is only so much place around a person, and there is only so much you can give. I'm not arrogant, nor am I fooling around, I'm just tired of all the reliance.

5. I once asked a person: If I suffer from insomnia, will the whole world suffer from insomnia? At least I will. She answered innocently. If this is the case, then how does she know when I will fall asleep and when I will wake up again. If I had a choice, I would rather stay sleepless. Or just keep sleeping. I woke up and fell asleep again, and fell asleep and woke up again. I was really tired.

6. Forgetting is our unchangeable fate. Everything is like a misaligned drawing. Everything in the past cannot go back to the past, it just slowly extends and staggers away bit by bit. Maybe, we really should forget the things that have been missed.

7. Recalling the past when we were dependent on each other and looking at the wind and the moon, tonight we have no dreams but are leaving the pavilion. The courtyard is deep, and I count the steps alone, looking at the cold night plum blossoms. I shed tears without saying a word. The fleeting youth is not worth the loss of years; the blooming of flowers is as beautiful as a beauty; how can one know that one's face is old when the flowers fall? When spring comes and spring goes, it comes back again, how can one know that spring is infinitely good?

8. The whole world, because of the sunshine, the cities have vitality; the small hearts, because of the sunshine, feel comfortable inside. The bright golden yellow, the small shadows among the trees are like broken golden spots on the leaves, and the direct reflection on the sea surface leaves the fragments tumbling with the waves, creating a beautiful scenery and intoxicating warmth for this nature. The feeling of clarity and tenderness mixed with the deep warmth can re-moisturize the soul that has been missing the sun for a long time after the rain has passed!

9. Some of the life you are looking forward to will always be wasted in your self-righteous dreams, and then give you a very disappointing blow. Some things are always beautiful when you think about them, so in your taking for granted, a reality that could have been very happy is wasted.

10. The past is not in the rice paper, but in our hearts; the story is not in the pen tip, but in the wind and rain; the history is not in the museum, but in the recitation of the world; tomorrow is no longer expected Here, and in today’s struggle.

11. The so-called love interest is the feeling of wanting to eat cake after having love and bread; the so-called affair is sneaking out of the besieged city and falling into a trap; the so-called romance is the feeling of being happy when helping your wife buy cabbage. Will bring back a rose; the so-called kitchen is right in front of the red carpet when getting married

12. If betrayal is a kind of courage, then accepting betrayal requires a greater kind of courage. . The former only requires enough bravery, or it may be just an impulse, while the latter tests the true degree of tolerance and is by no means as simple as impulse. All it takes is time.

13. Don’t wait for people you shouldn’t wait for, and don’t hurt your heart that you shouldn’t. Some people are destined to be passers-by in life; some things often make us helpless. Instead of being sad and crying, it is better to face it calmly. Loneliness does not necessarily mean that you are unhappy; gaining does not necessarily last long; losing does not necessarily mean that you no longer have it. When you love, let him be free; when you don't love, let love be free. The more you look at it calmly, the less hurt it will be.

14. I was waiting for you to appear. I thought your profile picture would suddenly turn bright. However, the miracle never happened. I was completely disappointed. I felt the pain. I have suffered the ravages of waiting, and I have experienced the torment of anticipation.

15. Light pen and ink, shallow whispers, endless tears, endless sorrows and sorrows, the moon is pale and the Milky Way, fallen leaves are raining, drink a cup of turbid wine, and end all sorrows Human beings, who is crazy about whom and who is frivolous, this situation and this situation will stop now.

16. Broken love is like an hourglass, and tears and heartache are like the trickling sand. Every change of longing will cause a break, and you will involuntarily walk to the old date place. , looking for a familiar figure; a similar figure on the street will make you tremble.

17. Having love but not becoming a couple is a great regret in life; becoming a couple without love is a great sorrow in life. Love that comes through coercion and begging is not strong. Don't hate the person you loved, don't wait for him to look back.

Men often cannot bear the test of happiness, and women often cannot bear the test of pain. Don't be too naive and childish, because marriage is not a place of confession, but an arena of diplomacy.

18. If the heart has no destination, it will wander wherever it goes. At a certain moment, have you ever wanted to go back to a certain day in a certain year and month? Sometimes, it’s not that we can’t let go of that person, but that we can’t let go of that memory. Sometimes, I seem heartless, but I am actually more sincere than anyone else.

19. He didn’t feel sad, but he didn’t know what it felt like. However, he suddenly understood: He was already numb in his heart! He chewed the food in his mouth, but he felt that the food seemed to be made of mud, but if it was really made of mud, it should have a taste of mud!

20. When you are passionately in love, you don’t have to care about anything. As long as you want it, as long as I have it, because I love you, so I am willing. Once the relationship calms down, there will be a series of calculations in the heart, why do I pay more than you; why do I give you everything, but you have to hide something and then have a cold war, quarrel, break up, make up, and have a cold war. Those who can get through it can only hold hands, and those who can't get through it can only remember the past.

21. Love has always been there, but it is not eternal. From the beginning to the end of a relationship, we go from expectation to happiness to loss. This journey can often make a person mature or silent, or it can also make a person feel inferior or avoid it.

22. People who really love you will not be able to tell the reason why they really love you. They only know that they don’t care about others. People who really love you will always make you angry. You But you can't find out what he did wrong; the person who truly loves you will only cry in front of you alone; the person who truly loves you will give you a harsh slap when you forget to reply to his text message; the person who truly loves you will People rarely praise you in person, but in their hearts they are sure that you are the best.

23. I am used to feeling uncomfortable, used to missing you, used to waiting for you, but I have never gotten used to not being able to see you. Like flowers and beautiful families, years pass by like a fleeting time. You can go back to the past, but you can't go back to the beginning. The ones that end up trapping you are always good at first. When you do it right, no one will remember; when you do it wrong, even breathing is wrong. Waiting is the first time in life. Some people and some things change forever once you turn around.

24. If there is an afterlife, I want to be a tree and stand for eternity without any postures of joy or sorrow. Half of it is peaceful in the soil, half of it is flying in the wind, half of it is covered with shade, and half of it is bathed in sunshine. It is very silent and very proud, never relying on and never looking for it.

25. Sometimes, the world is so big that we have no chance to meet it in our lifetime. Sometimes, this world is so small that I can see your smiling face as soon as I look up. Therefore, when you meet, please be grateful; when you fall in love, please cherish it; when you turn around, please be elegant; when you say goodbye, please smile.