The wife divorced because she thought her husband was honest and incompetent, and then her intestines were remorseful.

I am a divorced woman. Some people say that I divorced to get rid of the pain and get a new life. On the surface, it is, but who can understand my inner suffering?

My ex-husband is an honest man. At that time, I thought honest people were reliable and hardworking and wouldn't play games with me. He was sincere to me before I married him. Facts show that he is indeed like this. Then I married him.

After marriage, he loved me very much, never lost his temper, never talked to me loudly, and refused to let me do anything. He takes care of all the housework and arranges everything else at home. Then we had a son, and he loved me even more. He manages the housework while working, and also takes care of the children with me. My life is very happy.

Time flies, many years have passed, and our life has been in a dull state, but my husband's shortcomings have also been revealed. He is an honest man, introverted, not sociable, has no circle of friends, is not self-motivated and has no ability to make money. With that salary, his colleagues have been promoted and raised, and he is still standing still. Some of his classmates started their own businesses and became bosses, while others became company executives. I talked to my husband many times, which made him a little self-motivated and increased his ability to make money. However, his intelligence is too mediocre and his brain is too stupid. He apologized to me many times, but what's the use of apologizing? He can't get a promotion, he can't make money, and he can't give me the life I want. I'm completely disappointed in him.

At a class reunion, I saw all my classmates get along well. The husbands married by girls are all high-quality men, and my husband is the worst. Listening to my classmates talk about traveling abroad, luxury cars and villas, brand-name bags and high-end elegant life, I am very sour and disappointed in my husband. Several girls in my classmates are very close to me. We often play together. The husbands they married were very rich, and they lived well themselves. After hearing about my situation, they all thought my husband was too incompetent and didn't deserve me. I also think I married the wrong person. I often eat and go shopping with them and go out to high-end places together. I entered their circle of friends, and their circle was full of successful people. Through them, I met many high-quality men. They are handsome and rich, have the ability and brains to make money, romantic and sweet, and considerate. My husband is a hundred thousand miles behind them. Through many contacts with them, I met the boss of a company, who was in his early thirties, had a successful career and was very handsome. I have a crush on him, too. Through many exchanges, we already have feelings. He is considerate, emotionally supportive and inspiring. I have fallen in love with him and have the idea of divorcing my husband.

After weighing the pros and cons, I decided to divorce my husband. I told him about the idea of divorce. My husband cried and cried sadly, and repeatedly asked me to stay, saying that I would work hard in the future and let me live my favorite life. I already know my husband's level. His IQ and EQ are too limited. No matter how hard he tries, it is useless. His talent is terrible. I refused his detention. My son is five years old and he can cry, too. My husband saw that I couldn't stay any longer and agreed. After the divorce, he left me his house and car. He thought, after all, the husband and wife had a good life, and he didn't let me live the life I liked. Giving me a house and a car is my compensation. The child was awarded to him, and then he used his savings for many years to buy another house and a car, and then took the child to live in the house he just bought.

After I divorced him, my classmates and girlfriends were happy for me, saying that I was out of the misery, and I could enjoy my good years and make great achievements. I got a job and developed a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship with the boss of that company. Because I have certain ability and hard work, I was promoted to supervisor. When I tried to establish a relationship with my new boyfriend, he turned me down. He thinks I am a noble person. My ex-husband was so kind to me, but I divorced him. Obviously, I like the new and hate the old, and I love the poor and the rich. If one day he is down and out, will I leave him? This makes me very sad. I saw that he obviously didn't like me, and I was divorced, so I broke up with him decisively.

I was sad for a long time, and then I dated several boyfriends, all of which were inappropriate. Later, through the introduction of girlfriends, I met a very good man, a company executive, with an annual salary of one million. He was gentle and handsome, and we soon fell in love. He is very romantic. He has prepared all kinds of gifts for various festivals and occasionally surprises me. Sometimes when I am sad, he will hug me in his arms and feel very distressed. Besides, he doesn't mind my divorce. I think I met the right person.

Once I went to his company without informing him, hoping to give him a surprise. I waited for him in the park in front of his company before he got off work. When he got off work, I saw him coming out of the company gate in the park with a beautiful girl beside him. They got on the bus hand in hand. I immediately understood what was going on. I'm like a thunderbolt. Such a perfect man is not my own. He lied to me for so long. Then I found him, and he admitted it to me. I advised him to break off contact with the girl, but he didn't think so. He thinks marriage is a life-long event, and he doesn't want to make a hasty decision. The other half is very important to him. He should think it over. I see. He is an emotional liar. I broke up with him.

After so many things, I suddenly understood that my ex-husband was kind to me. Although he is honest, introverted, incompetent and doesn't make much money, he is stable and comfortable with me. Only he is the best for me. Although those high-quality men are handsome, rich, romantic and elegant, they are not suitable for me. None of them is sincere to me. I regretted it, thought for a long time, and decided to remarry my ex-husband.

I sent my ex-husband a WeChat, and he deleted me. I called him and his cell phone number was hacked. I called him with a different mobile phone number, and I got through this time. The voice on the other end of the phone is a girl's voice, very gentle. A conclusion flashed through my mind. Is he married? I was like a bolt from the blue, and the other end of the phone asked me: (Hello, who is this? ), I said my ex-husband's name, and the girl called me and so on. After more than ten seconds, a familiar voice on the phone asked me, I heard it was my ex-husband, and I said my name. My ex-husband was surprised. After a few polite words, I said I was going to see my son, and he agreed, and then said (I am married. I feel very sad in my heart. Now that he is married and has children, I can't remarry him. I miss my son, so I still want to see my son and see how his new wife is.

I came to his neighborhood, walked to his door and rang the doorbell. Thirty or forty seconds later, the door opened. It was opened by a girl, four or five years younger than my ex-husband. She is beautiful, well-built, white, with glasses, quiet, graceful, polite and gentle. She smiled and said to me, (Sister, I know who you are, and my husband told me to come in and sit down), and then she let me in. The house is beautifully decorated. She took me to the living room and let me sit anywhere. I sat down on the sofa, she poured me a cup of tea, put it on the coffee table in front of me, and said to me (he is taking care of the children in the bedroom, I'll call him), and then she came in. Ten seconds later, her ex-husband came out with her child in her arms. After seeing me, she sat on the sofa and said a few polite words. The girl followed her out and sat next to him. The two embraced each other tightly and played with the children, which was very affectionate. I feel sad when I look at it. My son followed, and I said to my son (mom misses you, come and see you, do you miss mom? Who knows, the son cried and said angrily, you are not my mother, you are a bad person, my father loves you so much, you don't want my father, you are not my mother. The son pointed to the girl and said, "She is my mother, my good mother." After that, he plunged into the girl's arms, crying and calling out for mom, mom ... The girl put her arms around my son, gently stroked his head, and then said to her son, "Let's go to the bedroom and play with mom." My son nodded. My heart ached when my son denied me. It's all my fault. I asked for it. The girl said to her ex-husband, you talk first, and I'll play with them in the bedroom. The ex-husband said to the girl, we want to go to the community square to talk. The girl smiled and said softly, well, don't worry, I'm at home. The ex-husband nodded thoughtfully, and then the girl took the child from his hand. The child fell asleep, and she carried the child into the bedroom, followed by my son.

We went downstairs to the square of the community and sat in an armchair on the edge of the square. At this moment, my heart is sour and uncomfortable. I still put up with it. I asked him (how many months has the child been, is it a boy or a girl)? He said (three months, boy), I said (your family is very happy, your children are so cute, your wife is so beautiful, you will hurt others, you get along so well with our son, just like your own mother and son), and he said, you are right, I am very satisfied now. I asked him, how did you come over after the divorce? You must have earned your happiness now. Can you tell me something about it? He said, it's a long story. Before we got divorced, I quietly studied some sideline businesses in my spare time, hoping to earn some extra money and let you live a better life. But in your impression, I'm just an idiot who can't do anything, so I did it quietly and didn't tell you. I'll tell you when I make money and give you a surprise. Unfortunately, our fate is over. After the divorce, I resigned and changed to another company. My job salary is almost the same as before. I continue to study my sideline in my spare time. At first, it was difficult. I stepped on many pits and suffered a lot. Fortunately, I didn't give up. I always try to overcome difficulties and often consult some friends who know this. Then I finally got on the right track. During this period, I met my present wife through friends. At that time, she was a middle school teacher. She fell in love with me after she got to know me. I'm afraid to accept her. I'm afraid I'll miss her life When she confessed to me, I told her that I was divorced and there was a boy with a low salary. I am honest and introverted, I don't know romance, I don't know love, I don't know humor and I'm not good at talking. My talent is limited, even if it changes, it won't change much. After all, the IQ level is there, and I will delay her happiness for a lifetime, so I refused her, but she said to me, "I don't care about this, as long as you are good to me." It doesn't matter if you divorce and take care of your children. If you are divorced and single, you can fall in love. I can get along well with your children. It doesn't matter if the salary is not high. There is no stupidity in the world. As long as you find a good position, with the efforts of both of us, you will definitely earn a lot of money. Although you can't be rich and expensive, it is more than enough to live a happy little life. You'd better be honest. Honest people don't know how to trick people, especially girls, and treat them with a sincere heart. This is just what I like. It doesn't matter if you don't know love, romance and talk well. You put these things into action, better than anything else. I told her, but I have a son. What if there is a problem? I'm afraid you will be wronged. Besides, if you marry me, you will definitely have children in the future. Can your children get along well with my son? In case of conflict, I will be in a dilemma. Besides, my ex-wife will definitely come back to visit her son in the future. What if you encounter it? In short, I am afraid that you will be wronged. She said to me, "Not necessarily. Look on the bright side. I can try to date your son. With more contact, you have feelings. With feelings, everything will be easy. As for your ex-wife, it is normal to visit her son. I will be polite to her. "I think she is so sincere that she agreed to associate with her. I took her home to play. Who knows, she hit it off with our son and played very well. She plays games with our son, helps him with his homework and sometimes cooks for him. She hit it off with her son, who has feelings for her and is very affectionate to her. At first, his son called him aunt, and later he called her mother, saying that his mother would give it to his brother and sister. She has such a good relationship with her son. I think she is so considerate, so gentle and considerate, deeply in love with her, and her feelings are getting deeper and deeper. Later, we got married. After we got married, we were very loving. I love her very much. I don't want her to do housework. I made it myself. I was tired and happy. I gave her my salary. Our son is very filial to this new mother. When she comes home from work at night, he often rubs her back and helps her with housework. She also regards our children as her own sons. During her pregnancy, I took care of her with all my heart and my son loved her very much. He wouldn't let her move, brought her rice and water, and brought her this and that. After she gave birth, her son also helped me take care of her, look after the children and treat her as a relative. My sideline business has also improved greatly. The extra money earned now is two or three times the salary. I spend all the money I earn on my wife and children so that they can live the life they like. What I want to do is love my wife all my life. I can have a happy life now because my wife and I have worked hard, which is a reward from heaven. Work hard and you will live a life you like.

After listening to his words, my heart ached It turns out that my husband is also very good, but I was as blind as a bat and didn't find it. I only saw his incompetence and clumsiness. I am so self-righteous. It was my comparison and vanity that hurt me and made me miss a good husband. The ex-husband said again, let's stop talking. I'm going home. Their whole family is waiting for me. Goodbye. I promised and watched him leave. He went downstairs. The girl is already waiting for her downstairs. The two of them snuggled up to each other and went upstairs. I can't bear it any longer. Tears flowed out like free money, and I left in tears.

I used my painful experience to warn all the girls, married girls, that if your husbands are honest, you must be kind to them and love them well. Unmarried girls, if your boyfriend is an honest man, don't hesitate to get married. Because their husbands are honest and silly girls who have the idea of divorce, quickly give up this idea and love your husbands.