What are the symptoms of psychological immaturity in men and how to improve them?

The manifestations of men’s psychological immaturity have different standards in the eyes of different people. Here we can talk about the manifestations of people’s psychological immaturity, which is not limited to men’s psychology. 1. Can’t hide what’s on their mind

Mentally immature people often can’t hide what’s on their mind. Any disturbance or inner uneasiness will be easily displayed on their face, making it easy for people to see his emotional changes. . And immature people always like to ask others for help, asking others what to do about this matter, or simply asking for help first when encountering problems. 2. External attribution

When mature and steady people encounter difficulties and troubles, they first reflect on whether they did something bad or wrong. Then think about other people's problems. Immature people always make external attributions when things happen, that is, they always feel that it is someone else who did something bad and they are only responsible for a small part. This kind of unwillingness to take responsibility is a very typical psychological immaturity. This kind of immature behavior will cause them to keep looking for the mistakes and problems of others instead of facing their own problems. 3. Weak resistance to blows

Immature people cannot withstand blows. When they encounter some difficulties, they will fall into an emotional dilemma. They are not good at thinking about solutions, and because of their weak endurance, they often Because of a major blow, you will be unable to work.

How to change immature psychology.

Welcome to pay attention to the old man who drives the train

Thanks for the invitation, immature men have simple minds, low IQs, and cannot communicate with normal people. They are wrong. At the end of the day, I still think it is right. It is useless to talk to him. He is not the same person. A man with such an IQ should find someone who can't speak and uses gestures to act. What's better is that once he opens his eyes, he will understand what low IQ is!

There are the following questions for measuring mental age

Calculate your mental age Analysis:

1. Red: Mental age 27-31 years old. The passion and unrestrained red color is the main characteristic of this age group.

2. Orange: Mental age 17-21 years old. Compared with red, it is a slightly greener age, a young man who has just come into contact with society.

3. Yellow: Mental age is 32-34 years old. Standing at thirty, the yellow color is mature and stable.

4. Green: Mental age 22-26 years old. A young man who longs to see how big the world is.

5. Blue: Mental age 40-45 years old. The melancholy middle-aged people began to look older and younger.

6. Purple: Mental age: over 45 years old. Noble purple, life has reached a certain height.

7. Black: Mental age: 35-39 years old. I have a tolerant mentality and have seen some vanity fairs in my life and work.

8. White: Psychological age: Under 17 years old: A pure and lovely age, waiting for you to write freely.

From the perspective of psychological theory, especially Freud’s subconscious theory, this test still makes sense. Our first choice at first glance is often our “unconscious” choice, and individuals Eighty percent of our consciousness is unconscious. The things we usually realize are just the "tip of the iceberg" of consciousness, so it can be used for your reference!

1Report immediately. The first important characteristic of inner immaturity is that efforts must be rewarded immediately.

2. Negative and complaining. If you are one of those complaining, negative people in your life, you must change this mentality.

3. Often influenced by emotions. No matter how strong your body is, if you are in a bad mood, it will affect your body. Nowadays, a person's success depends on IQ of 20% and EQ of 80%.

1. A little too self-centered and impulsive in adolescence

Men tend to get stuck in their minds when they are immature.

Example: When a boy sees someone else’s game equipment being upgraded, he pays for a new one regardless of his financial situation.

Don’t listen to anyone’s advice and indulge in the online world every day. I don’t know how many young people have been misled by games.

Some boys are very smart, but they become obsessed with playing games and their life trajectories undergo major changes. Parents can only be anxious and helpless, while boys can only regret it when their lives are not easy in the future. 2. The restless age, busy making friends

Men like to say, "many friends, many paths." When you are young, your hormones are restless, and men show off their friendship at night dinners, KTⅤ, and bars. place.

When you are young, no one wants to be left out, and you want to negotiate with everyone you meet. Of course, being young is great, but being young also makes mistakes... 3. Bad temper, immature characteristics

Men should be passionate, but being angry is definitely a sign of immaturity. Most immature people are "self-centered and don't understand empathy."

Some suggestions: Regardless of the level of education, people need to have more contact with the outside world, experience different cultures personally, and listen to outside voices, and everyone will be touched.

Especially when people are not mentally mature enough, they should not always run around in a small area. They should read more books, think hard, and go outside for a walk and look around.

When you come into contact with people at different levels, and see the world through other people’s conversations, knowledge, and openness, people’s cognitive level will change, and people will feel their own insignificance, as well as the narrowness and narrowness of their previous ideas. ignorance. When looking at the world, don't just listen to other people's descriptions, but understand it yourself, see, hear, think, and establish your own mature outlook on life, worldview, and values. The size of a person's structure is a person's ability to regulate stress. If you take a longer-term view, your life goals will be clearer. Your happiness index in life is determined by yourself, not just money, but also other things... Broaden your horizons and learn to change your perspective. Think; improve your self-cultivation, and feel the warmth and warmth of people; learn to sink down, constantly demand yourself, and get rid of impetuosity before you can truly mature; be kind to others and start to truly understand life.

They never grow up and show childish, willful, selfish and other behaviors. This is a common problem of immature men. They sit around doing nothing all day long, sitting around eating and drinking, not knowing how to share, and disrespecting the hard work of others. They are not successful. Those who have a family rely on their parents, and those who start a family rely on their parents and wife, and have no responsibility or dedication to their families. Some men even don't want to live a happy life through hard work, but are obsessed with gambling and fantasize about getting rich one day. Such men are not only immature, but they cannot be called men.

Willfulness is also a sign of immaturity in men. They do not proceed from reality and have no self-awareness. They live in fantasy every day. It is difficult to maintain food and clothing for the family. They also want to travel around the world. Everyone has a dream. Everyone agrees that you can pursue your dreams, but you must ensure that your life is stable and there is nothing wrong with pursuing your dreams within your ability. There is also a manifestation of selfishness. Everything is centered on him. He is the boss in the world. He does things without considering others' perspectives and acts arbitrarily. There is also the cowardice shown by some men in the face of difficulties. They cannot actively solve problems and choose to escape. This is also unacceptable. Mature performance.

Finally, I hope that everyone who calls himself a man can be a real man, truly mature, upright and down-to-earth, give up those immature ideas, and strive to change himself to become a down-to-earth man. A pit, a sky above his head, a mature and responsible real man. Admiring vanity and blind comparison

What I hate the most is that I have to pretend to be decent even though I am not doing well, so I borrow money or think of other ways to package myself, just for this moment. A gesture of victory.

Spending all the money on games

My friend’s ex-boyfriend was like this. One time before Valentine’s Day, the boyfriend’s mother said that her son was raising money at work, maybe to buy gifts for my friends, but the fact is The other party's parents confiscated his computer, so he saved up money to buy a computer and play games. He only gave him 5.20 yuan for Valentine's Day. I won't comment on this kind of boy. Losing your temper is always the fault of the other person.

Never look for reasons in yourself, it is always the fault of the other person. Even if it is your own fault, it is always the other person's fault. Such a man's mentality is extremely childish and immature. Listen to your mother

The legendary "mother's son" means that when the girlfriend and the boyfriend's parents have conflicts, the boyfriend will blindly protect his mother's family. Goodbye such "good baby"! Willful and self-willed

Never think about the future when doing things, only focus on the present, think things are too good, and are self-centered. If others help you, you will not thank them. It is natural. If they don’t help you, you will feel that the other person is at fault. This kind of boy is also very naive. . Can you play games for me?

Spend too much time on games, ignore your girlfriend’s feelings, and still find a girlfriend in the game world, and still feel that you are attractive.

Or my friend and his boyfriend. My friend felt that the other one was not enterprising and asked him what he could change for himself. What the other party said was, can you play games for me?

For a man like this, you should go to the virtual world to find your partner!

Many people have watched "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", in which Zhou Botong is known as the old naughty boy. Many of us liked him very much when we were children. He was very skilled in martial arts and so innocent. He didn't have to worry about doing wrong things. responsibility. Let's recall that what Zhou Botong, an adult, thought and did was actually the thoughts and actions of a child.

Yes, Zhou Botong is a very typical immature person.

We all know that the psychology of children is immature. The psychology of mature men must be different from that of children. So what is the difference?

The external manifestations of immaturity are all kinds of strange. These external manifestations are like the leaves of a tree. You cannot judge the age of a tree by looking at a leaf, but by looking at the growth rings.

People’s psychological age is reflected in some internal ways just like the annual rings. By firmly grasping these points, you can judge whether a person is mentally mature or immature.

First, do you have a strong sense of goal?

The second is, can you understand your own identity and manage your role well?

Third, can you increase your abilities and demonstrate your behavior in a purposeful manner?

Fourth, can you accurately assess your own environment?

The old naughty boy Zhou Botong does not have a strong sense of goal in doing things. He practices martial arts for fun. He acts according to his own ideas in any situation and does whatever he wants. He cannot change roles freely. On Peach Blossom Island , the Royal Palace, everywhere they go their own way, which is similar to the high-speed train door-picking, and people who don’t wear masks and beat people during the epidemic.

Taking the high-speed rail is the role of a passenger. This role is to abide by travel rules. During the epidemic, we must act according to the requirements of the epidemic prevention department, rather than act according to our own ideas.

Some of these behaviors are the same as children rolling around on the floor if they don’t want things, and they are all signs of immaturity.

The child’s sense of goal is not strong, his or her identity and role needs to be clarified, there is no purpose in increasing abilities and displaying behaviors, and he or she cannot accurately evaluate his or her own environment.

If you understand children, you will find that immature men have similar characteristics, while mature men must be different.

How to improve it is also based on the above points. There is quite a lot of content, so I won’t go into it here.

But one thing is very important, that is, you must establish a life ambition or goal for yourself. Without a goal, everything is useless, because identity, role, ability, behavior, and resources are all built around goals. A life without goals is decadent. , at a loss, no matter how much knowledge such people have, they are still immature.

There are many signs of immaturity in men:

1. Putting one's feelings on the face and not hiding one's inner feelings

2. Like to fight Small reports, for example, always like to tell the truth in front of the boss, for example: behind the boss's back, he says that your character is not good, and always likes to lose his temper

3. Always quarrel with his girlfriend because of petty matters.

4. Not being able to dress yourself up, such as always looking dirty in clothes, greasy hair, and uncivilized behavior

Men, you still have to learn to be successful in your career and love. Double harvest. If you are not mature enough, go through more experiences and smooth out your edges.