When my brother picks up my sister from school, he is always regarded as my father. My brother had a brainwave and others would never admit their mistakes again.

With the opening of the national second child policy, more and more couples choose to have another child. Some elderly parents feel empty at home because their children have gone to college, and are ready to have another baby to accompany them. As a result, the Dabao-Bauer combination appeared with an age difference of nearly 20 years.

Jin Tan is a junior this year and is an intern in a company. Because the location of the company and his sister's school are on the road, he took care of picking up his sister from school. This was a good thing, but the bad thing is that my sister is 18 years old. Every time I pick him up from school, I will be recognized as his father. Therefore, Jin Tan was very upset.

One day, he suddenly had an epiphany and thought of a good idea! He ordered two white short sleeves online, one for himself and one for his sister. There are no patterns on these two short sleeves, so two lines are printed separately. This one of his is: Introduce, this is my sister. And my sister wrote: Introduction, this is my brother, and two lines are followed by a hairstyle pointing at each other. He thought happily: Now see which one of you still admits his mistake!

Sure enough, a few days later, when he drove to school again, everyone saw his and his sister's clothes and never mistook him for his father again.

Now many families are ready to have another child when their children go out to study, which leads to a great age gap between the two children. Then, in addition to the above situation that is easily mistaken for father or mother, what kind of influence will there be if the age gap between the two babies is too large?

As the saying goes, the "three-year-old generation gap" refers to the generation gap between two people who are three years old, not to mention the difference of 18 and 20 years old. After all, now belongs to the information age, and information changes very quickly. Don't say three years old, one year is enough for a lot of things to "transform".

When the age gap between the two children is too big, it is inevitable that there will be some communication inconvenience and ideological differences. Take the post-90 s and post-00 s as examples. Most of the childhood memories of the post-90 s children are: Qiong Yao drama, Star Cup, cat and mouse and so on. After 00, when the child was young, his mind was full of online games, and the animation he watched was mainly Piggy Page.

What causes communication inconvenience is not only the difference of information, but also the difference of a person's stage and ideological realm. At this time, Dabao belongs to the adult stage and can no longer think with children's thinking, so it is inevitable that he will feel puzzled and difficult to communicate in the face of those "children's words".

At this time, when parents are old, their physical strength and energy will not be as abundant as when they were young. Don't say that at work, my ability is declining, and the money I earn is reduced. Even if I take care of my children, I am powerless. At this time, Dabao is generally looking for a job or has already worked, so he is likely to be asked to be assigned to a place with high economic pressure at home. Even in taking care of children, Dabao needs to contribute.

You know, Dabao just entered the workplace at this time and the money is not enough. Maybe he is facing a family, which is when he needs money. Coupled with a young brother/sister, it will make his economic pressure even greater.

To sum up, parents must consider Dabao's feelings when having a second child, and then decide whether to have a second child in combination with their own economic strength. Never make a hasty decision or "act first", which is not only not conducive to the establishment of intimate relationship between the two children, but also may damage the parent-child relationship with Dabao.