What love is father's humor?

A childlike and interesting father is extremely lucky for children.

Looking back at many dads around me, this is the most lacking thing.

As a netizen said, there are many humorous men and too few interesting fathers.

First, interesting dad, children are happier.

A netizen uploaded a video: a big dinosaur appeared in front of the kindergarten, which attracted attention. Is the father of a little girl dressed as a dinosaur in kindergarten.

It turns out that a few days ago, the little girl told her father that I want a dinosaur to pick me up from school!

Dad kept his daughter's little wish in mind. On Halloween, he really dressed up as a "dinosaur" and ran to the kindergarten to pick up his daughter.

When the little girl saw her father, her eyes sparkled with excitement, and the look of joy moved people.

This warm scene touched the netizens.

In children's world, there are always a lot of wild ideas, some fathers tend to completely deny them, while interesting fathers can understand children's innocence and romance and try their best to satisfy them.

Interesting dad, not only interesting, but also thoughtful.

An interesting father can not only arouse the family atmosphere, but also be the best playmate for children in childhood.

No matter how busy they are, they can always accompany their children in various ways and participate in their growth. They infect their children with happiness and sincerity, spend time with them, and gradually become the best memories in their lives.

Second, interesting dad, the parent-child relationship is more harmonious.

In our culture, "strict father's loving mother" is always emphasized. Fathers are often labeled as serious, inarticulate and serious. It seems that they are not good at expressing their feelings, let alone how to get close to their children.

In fact, the unspeakable father does not pay less love than his mother, but the details of their love are hidden in all aspects of life, which is difficult for children to find.

In such a father, children often have a sense of distance.

Compared with serious fathers, children prefer fathers who can play, because they are more involved in their children's lives, playing with them, going crazy together, helping them repair broken toys ... Children feel the most intuitive love.

I saw an interesting video before:

A British father wore shorts to school for his 14-year-old daughter, which broke his heart.

He thought of an idea: "answer blows with blows." Wearing the same shorts, he solemnly shouted at his daughter:

"If you dare to wear this to school, I dare to wear these shorts to pick you up at the school gate!"

Looking at the bald dad with a beard and shorts, my daughter laughed out of breath.

The adolescent parent-child conflict that I thought would happen was solved in my father's humor.

When children are very young, harsh words and harsh eyes are often very effective, but with the growth of age, this effect will gradually disappear, making children rebellious.

Interesting fathers can skillfully resolve many contradictions and deadlocks between parents and children. They are both father/daughter and friends. On children's education, they can solve many problems in a warm and funny way.

Most importantly, interesting fathers often get along well with their children. If the relationship between parents and children is good, education will be half the battle.

Third, interesting dad, children will be better.

Interesting father is willing to play with children, and most of children's learning is carried out in play.

I know a father who likes sports and often plays some simple sports games with his son over 8 years old, such as playing football and badminton.

The most common sports they do are hiking and mountain climbing. On the way, if you are tired, the father and son cheer each other up and occasionally talk about interesting things in school. The affection between father and son is getting deeper and deeper.

This kind of companionship also makes children always perform well in sports.

Children often develop better in all aspects with their father's company.

Contrary to mom's interactive game, dad will take a moderate risk with his children and take them out of mom's side to explore a wider world.

In the game, they cooperate with each other, encourage each other and share the joy of victory and the loss after failure. In this process, slowly help children to establish a sense of rules, know how to win or lose, and manage emotions.

Many excellent qualities in a child's life are gradually acquired through childhood games.

As David Elkind, an American child psychologist, said, "People should re-understand games, and should not regard games as the opposite of work, but as a supplement to work. Curiosity, imagination and creativity are like muscles. If you don't use them, you will waste them. "

Interesting dad knows how to regard "play" as a major event in the growth of children.

Interesting dad, to put it bluntly, is to have a childlike innocence like an adult. He is full of love and patience for his children, willing to cherish their curiosity and look at all kinds of problems in their growth with an optimistic attitude.

The more interesting the father is, the happier the child will be.

Try to be an interesting father!